LostBabygirl3489
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KissesYou are adorable, baby darling.![]()
Ever since cb first shared this particular pet name with us, I have thought it was the sweetest thing.![]()

Kisses
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I also like the idea of a reward basket filled with little treats to make my heart sing - a new keychain, nail polish, lip gloss, earrings, CD/movie/book from Goodwill. The basket can be brought out to celebrate a productive week, or making it through a difficult day, whatever. You'll notice that both my tasks and rewards are 'self-care' items. The difference is usually that there is some unpleasant or challenging aspect about the tasks, such as having to ask for others to meet a need. I like the idea of a reward system for anything needing doing. They're wonderfully flexible.
Currently, my tasks might look like this:
getting in bed by ten
taking my meds on time
shaving my legs*
tidy my knicker drawer
making a dr's/dentist appointment
texting my dad
ask for a hug from one of my older kids
And rewards like this:
paint my nails
learn five new words in French
do one yoga segment on my dvd
eat a piece of dark chocolate
take a nap
sit and listen to music for 15 minutes
take a bubble bath
light a smelly candle and enjoy a cup of tea
sit in a quiet place and dream about my future
Rewards can be listed in a notebook and crossed off as they are chosen to ensure I'm not just eating chocolate all day long.I also like the idea of a reward basket filled with little treats to make my heart sing - a new keychain, nail polish, lip gloss, earrings, CD/movie/book from Goodwill. The basket can be brought out to celebrate a productive week, or making it through a difficult day, whatever. You'll notice that both my tasks and rewards are 'self-care' items. The difference is usually that there is some unpleasant or challenging aspect about the tasks, such as having to ask for others to meet a need.
Daddy-specific rewards: a new pic, voice clip, video message, snail mail, etc.
*I added shaving as a goal not because Daddy gives a hoot, but because I tend to neglect doing the things that make me feel pretty out of a sense of unworthiness.
I read the "points" post with a dreamy sigh, thinking I would enjoy something like that with a daddy. I hadn't thought of it in terms of self care! I love this! I am going to create a list and put it in action. Thanks, Honey and MrTenant!


Woohoo!
I don't like points. I'm not mathy.
After years of taking care of everyone around me, Daddy and I agree that i need to prioritize putting on my own proverbial life jacket before trying to help others with theirs. I think a lot of women struggle with this, for obvious reasons.
I read the "points" post with a dreamy sigh, thinking I would enjoy something like that with a daddy. I hadn't thought of it in terms of self care! I love this! I am going to create a list and put it in action. Thanks, Honey and MrTenant!

*Scampers onto the thread and seeks out HeavyBalls, finding Him she squeaks happily and climbs onto His lap and nuzzles her face gently against His chest*
✯✯✯✯✯

*stroking her hair ever so gently and letting out a happy sigh*![]()

*purrs happily and continues nuzzling His chest softly, placing a gentle kiss over His heartbeat*![]()
*strokes her hair more* You're where you belong...
This is sweet! I love when there's a place to come to, away from everything and just be 'where I belong'.
Self care is great and wonderful, but Daddy care is the best.