Brat's Hideout!

[crashD]

Bored like always... In need of some cuddles!

Bratski, ive got a bubble bath product you will love.

 

[crashD]

...best choice for this.
I love the purple ones, they would be fun to watch in a mirror... Or maybe playback!

The color is great but those cutouts look uncomfortable.

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Brat, while you're in that hot bubble bath, just close your eyes and reflect on fond memories!

https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0196/3146/products/image_38560_large.jpg?v=1369192892

Bwahahahaha!

Bratski, ive got a bubble bath product you will love.

What's that?

The color is great but those cutouts look uncomfortable.

I don't think you wear those to be comfortable or out in public. Strictly something pretty for the bedroom.

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Seriously...

He said No on Sunday and I'm still resentful! *pout*
TGIF!!!

 

[THROBBS]

He said No on Sunday and I'm still resentful! *pout*
TGIF!!!

That's just messed up.

I can (kinda) understand someone having low desire (not ME), but when one's partner wants it and is vocal about it... geeze!

Even if he couldn't get hard, he could eat you out, play with you... use his fingers or some toys...or...

dang.


oh....... same thing over here with genders flipped.

 

[Jaime_H]

He said No on Sunday and I'm still resentful! *pout*
TGIF!!!

I actually did laugh out loud.......

 

[SquirtnBrat]

That's just messed up.

I can (kinda) understand someone having low desire (not ME), but when one's partner wants it and is vocal about it... geeze!

Even if he couldn't get hard, he could eat you out, play with you... use his fingers or some toys...or...

dang.


oh....... same thing over here with genders flipped.

Unfortunately none of those options turn him on. So I just... deal. Barely...
It just makes me upset when he acts like it *could* happen. So I take my time with him, trying to coax some sex out of him... Then he'l be like nah, I just want you to finish up this bj. Wait... What? I thought I was doing this to lead up to sex not as the main course!

I actually did laugh out loud.......

I did too. If any meme perfectly sums me up this week - it is Tink!

 

[THROBBS]

sometimes you do something out of giving, not for an exchange or because that "act" is your favorite. Hopefully, not motivated by guilt, but out of compassion, empathy, love... something positive...?

But YOU know that.

 

[SquirtnBrat]

sometimes you do something out of giving, not for an exchange or because that "act" is your favorite. Hopefully, not motivated by guilt, but out of compassion, empathy, love... something positive...?

But YOU know that.

Been doing that for 10+yrs... Would love to have it reciprocated.
Yes, I have a serious oral fixation. But then manipulated and used against me... Fucking rude!

 

[THROBBS]

nofucking rude!

 

[coacheric]

So understand SB. Been over a year for me. I can’t even touch her anymore. So many times just want to walk away from it all

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Had another night where it was all so close... Then again this morning just trying to make something happen.
"What do you want from me, I'm an old man!?" I want that mentality to go away! Damn!
Some days I am just counting down the years until I am single again.
Watching the relationships around me tells me this isn't right. I'm being used. But what more can I do? Just wait for compassion and intimacy. Wait... Wait... Wait...

 

[cowslinger64]

Had another night where it was all so close... Then again this morning just trying to make something happen.
"What do you want from me, I'm an old man!?" I want that mentality to go away! Damn!
Some days I am just counting down the years until I am single again.
Watching the relationships around me tells me this isn't right. I'm being used. But what more can I do? Just wait for compassion and intimacy. Wait... Wait... Wait...

Darlin... he's shown you who he is and how it will be. You cannot control what he does, only your reaction to it. You have a hard choice to make, which in reality should be an easy choice. Life is too short to live miserably... There is nothing like being in a relationship with someone that truly loves you, appreciates you, wants to please you, love you, be intimate with you... You are probably not going to get that there...

Hoping and wishing things will change will not induce change.


Big hugs to ya..

 

[THROBBS]

what cowslinger said.

Pretty sure you know it.

I know it, but I also know that it is not easy. I'm too afraid, myself.

You'll figure it out.

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Darlin... he's shown you who he is and how it will be. You cannot control what he does, only your reaction to it. You have a hard choice to make, which in reality should be an easy choice. Life is too short to live miserably... There is nothing like being in a relationship with someone that truly loves you, appreciates you, wants to please you, love you, be intimate with you... You are probably not going to get that there...

Hoping and wishing things will change will not induce change.


Big hugs to ya..

I already made those "decisions" and "choices" years ago. I'm here. I'm staying. You don't walk away from a family you created just because of what's between your legs.
Obviously "advice" like this falls on deaf ears. I can't change the situation or him. Maybe one day we can both take steps to change but as of right now, neither of us seem willing to take the plunge and really communicate like we should. So until we are able to have those tough conversations nothing will change. I know that. Yeah... I'm just waiting.

 

[coacheric]

Yep, I also know I’m going nowhere. There was a time where I thought I might look outside for what’s missing but I know that I couldn’t do that. We have a family and at least for now I know that’s what’s important to me.

Hang in there Brat, only you know what’s right for you. Just know we’re all here for ya if you need to talk or just vent

 

[cowslinger64]

I already made those "decisions" and "choices" years ago. I'm here. I'm staying. You don't walk away from a family you created just because of what's between your legs.
Obviously "advice" like this falls on deaf ears. I can't change the situation or him. Maybe one day we can both take steps to change but as of right now, neither of us seem willing to take the plunge and really communicate like we should. So until we are able to have those tough conversations nothing will change. I know that. Yeah... I'm just waiting.

Sorry for my "advice". It's tough seeing you in this spot tho..

I'll butt out then, but will say that you aren't helping yourself by claiming it's something just "between your legs".. I've lived in a marriage like yours and the only thing that saved me, was not being in it.

I wish you the best, you seem to be a fine young lady..

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Sorry for my "advice". It's tough seeing you in this spot tho..

I'll butt out then, but will say that you aren't helping yourself by claiming it's something just "between your legs".. I've lived in a marriage like yours and the only thing that saved me, was not being in it.

I wish you the best, you seem to be a fine young lady..

Well if you were truely miserable it is a good thing you moved on from that relationship.
I dunno. For me the lack of sex isn't an end all situation. Am I upset our libidos don't match up? Of course! But he is my other half, a great father, and my best friend. Yes, we both know we won't be together "forever" unless we start getting on the same page...
That being said... He fucked my face for over an hour today and I came three times. I'm anticipating sex tonight so wish me luck!!
His dick game is so good when he does put out. It almost makes up for the weeks in between... ALMOST.

 

[bone251]

Well if you were truely miserable it is a good thing you moved on from that relationship.
I dunno. For me the lack of sex isn't an end all situation. Am I upset our libidos don't match up? Of course! But he is my other half, a great father, and my best friend. Yes, we both know we won't be together "forever" unless we start getting on the same page...
That being said... He fucked my face for over an hour today and I came three times. I'm anticipating sex tonight so wish me luck!!
His dick game is so good when he does put out. It almost makes up for the weeks in between... ALMOST.

Weeeeee!

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Apparently EVERYONE at work picked up on my happiness-I-go-laid-vibes... Not even going to deny it!

 

[hairball18]

He said No on Sunday and I'm still resentful! *pout*
TGIF!!!

He has his nerve to say no.

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Yay!! I have today off work. It is also the last day of school before the littles go on Winter Recess. So I'll be finishing up my holiday shopping and cleaning the house. I also plan on playing some Sonic the Hedgehog because it can't be all work and no play!

 

[Lone_Wanderer]

Yay!! I have today off work. It is also the last day of school before the littles go on Winter Recess. So I'll be finishing up my holiday shopping and cleaning the house. I also plan on playing some Sonic the Hedgehog because it can't be all work and no play!

Yay! Hope you enjoy it!

I'm also off until 2018!

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Yay! Hope you enjoy it!

I'm also off until 2018!

Yay!! I hope you have a great holiday!

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Obsessed...


You've ruined my life,
by not being mine.

You're so gorgeous,
I can't say anything to your face;
'Cause look at your face.
And I'm so furious,
At you for making me feel this way.
But, what can I say?
You're gorgeous!

Happy Holidays Litsters!!!