So Rough Getting Over Someone I Met Here

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

She was everything I had been looking for. Was open minded about my kinks. Had the body I adored. Had such a huge heart. Was beautiful, older, treated me like I was her world. We both loved each other. Or so I had thought. Talked on the phone, skyped, texted, everything. She was married and I had just gotten out of a relationship. She always wanted to talk whenever she had time and always initiated the "idea of meeting up" when she could.

When I needed to buy something after my move, she offered to pay for it. I protested, but the money was there within days. And it was a pretty decent sum of money. This makes me wrap my head around why I can't get in touch with her since March.

I'm so lonely and terribly sad. Being disabled and in a wheelchair doesn't make it easy for me to meet women in real life or online.

I wish I could get over her already. I keep hoping I meet someone here, but this place seems like a lost cause.

 

[Que]

Sorry for your loss. "Roberta" needed to move on after his stomach stapling and abdominoplasty.

 

[raindancer]

Ghosted. Been there. I'm sorry.

 

[stickygirl]

... but this place seems like a lost cause.

It's so much more than a lost cause... more the graveyard of hope.
Welcome aboard

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

Ghosted. Been there. I'm sorry.

Thanks. If she hadn't given me any money, I wouldn't be so wrapped up in my thoughts as to why. I would have thought "OK, I was lied to. Or she went back to him." But when you give someone cash, you think differently as to why they are gone.

 

[Bert Notorius]

how much cash
are we talking about?

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

how much cash
are we talking about?

Several hundred.

 

[Bert Notorius]

Several hundred.

that's a win.

don't feel so bad.

 

[chillywilly2]

Lance got banned...you gotta forget her

 

[BotanyBoy]

I wish I could get over her already. I keep hoping I meet someone here, but this place seems like a lost cause.

For finding a partner? LOL yea totally.

But it's a grand place to burn your bullshit thoughts and time on.

I come here as my own sort of therapy.....I can turn my filter right the fuck off and speak my mind to other humans honestly with relatively low odds of it coming back and blowing up my non-existent personal life or my tiny business life. I don't have to church up or be PC about anything here. The delicious exact opposite of bidnizz life where you're best served by shutting the fuck up, smiling and asking for more of whatever bullshit it is you do to get paid.

That is to say....lit is like so many other things, it is what you make of it.

Partners are over rated imo, rationally and logically speaking one of the worst things you can do is get in a personal/sexual/romantic relationship with someone with marriage being the absolute peak of self destruction.

If I were you I'd go get paid enough to regularly shit on gold diggers and have a diesel 4x4 that's faster than your homies Ferrari and belches enough black shit into the atmosphere to make Prius owners heads explode while you cackle maniacally and scream "M'aricuh mother fucker!!!" out the window. If you have to get some craigslist sluts to play with your pee pee and then get back to being the best degenerate American you can be....it's the only way to live life.

 

[Not Normal]

I'd guess hubby found out about the money.

Have you checked the public record? She may have passed away.

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

I'd guess hubby found out about the money.

Have you checked the public record? She may have passed away.

It's terrible to think about, but it has crossed my mind. It would help knowing she didn't leave, but devastating knowing she is permanently gone.

I guess I just didn't have enough experience with women when I was young because I was so shy about my disability. Maybe that would have helped.

 

[Bert Notorius]

so,
what was her
lit name?

 

[dolf]

It's hard to be sympathetic to someone who chose that username.

 

[Bert Notorius]

It's hard to be sympathetic to someone who chose that username.

toss the boy
a bone.

 

[Saint Peter]

I'd guess hubby found out about the money.

Wives for Tots is not tax deductible.

 

[Bert Notorius]

Wives for Tots is not tax deductible.

reported.

 

[Saint Peter]

reported.

Hi Ken.

 

[MonaLittle]

I'd guess hubby found out.

FYP

YW

 

[FGB]

Ha!

I had one disappear because I told her I had caller ID!

I mean it's not like that was the first time we talked or that I had not checked her out nine ways from Sunday. Her phone number matched her address, pictures and name matched... no bad criminal or credit history. No marriages.

Fucked up does as Fucked up is... I Guess

 

[Richard_P_Feynman]

Sorry for your loss. "Roberta" needed to move on after his stomach stapling and abdominoplasty.

That's not very nice, Queef.