bzlynzee
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Thank you all for listening to my venting and offering your support. I really appreciate EVERYONE who's reached out to me.
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Nope. Not leaving. Why would I leave? You folks seem to like me.
Just saying thank you to everyone. You've made me feel welcome, and helped me through a very dark time in my life. You all know who you are.![]()


Nope. Not leaving. Why would I leave? You folks seem to like me.
Happy to hear that. That you aren't leaving and that you find some happiness here.![]()
What's not to like?![]()
To her I am a gentle nurturer.
To those who would do her harm, I am a monster.
She the beauty.
I the beast.
She is light.
I am darkness.
She brings out my vulnerable side.
I bring out her courage.
She is the only one who can make me smile.
I will never make her frown.
Together, we will conquer all...

I love this!![]()
I'm rambling.
I think it's really important to remember not to be self-destructive or neglectful of your needs in it. It's easy to fall into that without paying attention.
Sometimes we have that perfect mate in our lives.
Someone who fits us in a way no one else does.
But the cycle, I think, of OL and LDR, seems to go around so quickly... or maybe it's just me.
A lot of time has been spent posting about what we wish we had, as well as self care while we wait. Not much, that I recall, has been spent of grief. Not just grief about a relationship ending, but any kind, because that cycle is the same.
It's been just over 7 weeks since my relationship ended with a Litster that I fell in love with. We didn't mean to. There are no regrets, unless you count the regret of an ocean between us. My self-care is surrounding myself with friends who let me talk, let me cry, help me laugh and fill up those empty times in my day that were once filled by Him.
HB.. I'm glad you're using this spot to help with your feelings. You've touched a lot of hearts but, most of all, you're doing "therapy" and I admire you for knowing what you need. I think that's a good step, but often very hard to do.
I'm rambling.
Sometimes we have that perfect mate in our lives.
Someone who fits us in a way no one else does.
But the cycle, I think, of OL and LDR, seems to go around so quickly... or maybe it's just me.
A lot of time has been spent posting about what we wish we had, as well as self care while we wait. Not much, that I recall, has been spent of grief. Not just grief about a relationship ending, but any kind, because that cycle is the same.
It's been just over 7 weeks since my relationship ended with a Litster that I fell in love with. We didn't mean to. There are no regrets, unless you count the regret of an ocean between us. My self-care is surrounding myself with friends who let me talk, let me cry, help me laugh and fill up those empty times in my day that were once filled by Him.
HB.. I'm glad you're using this spot to help with your feelings. You've touched a lot of hearts but, most of all, you're doing "therapy" and I admire you for knowing what you need. I think that's a good step, but often very hard to do.
I'm rambling.

She needed to hear his voice,
To feel him caress her cheek,
His strong arms around her,
When her soul was feeling weak.
He needed her in his arms,
To feel her melt in his embrace,
His soul finding its greatest strength,
When his lap is her safe space.
Lovely.
We need to feel needed to that is one of our greatest rewards,
https://i.pinimg.com/originals/1b/e4/f8/1be4f8b925b36744b38b442ba4fbcf5b.jpg
^^^which also stands to reason....
....Those parts will stay with you forever and will also stay with your partner.
I find that somewhat comforting.