Daddy's Little Girl

Thank you all for listening to my venting and offering your support. I really appreciate EVERYONE who's reached out to me.
 
Nope. Not leaving. Why would I leave? You folks seem to like me :D.

Just saying thank you to everyone. You've made me feel welcome, and helped me through a very dark time in my life. You all know who you are.:rose:
 
Nope. Not leaving. Why would I leave? You folks seem to like me :D.

Just saying thank you to everyone. You've made me feel welcome, and helped me through a very dark time in my life. You all know who you are.:rose:

Happy to hear that. That you aren't leaving and that you find some happiness here. :rose:
 
To here I am a gentle nurturer.
To those who would do her harm, I am a monster.

She the beauty.
I the beast.

She is light.
I am darkness.

She brings out my vulnerable side.
I bring out her courage.

She is the only one who can make me smile.
I will never make her frown.

Together, we will conquer all...
 
To her I am a gentle nurturer.
To those who would do her harm, I am a monster.

She the beauty.
I the beast.

She is light.
I am darkness.

She brings out my vulnerable side.
I bring out her courage.

She is the only one who can make me smile.
I will never make her frown.

Together, we will conquer all...

I love this! :heart:
 
Sometimes we have that perfect mate in our lives.

Someone who fits us in a way no one else does.

But the cycle, I think, of OL and LDR, seems to go around so quickly... or maybe it's just me.

A lot of time has been spent posting about what we wish we had, as well as self care while we wait. Not much, that I recall, has been spent of grief. Not just grief about a relationship ending, but any kind, because that cycle is the same.

It's been just over 7 weeks since my relationship ended with a Litster that I fell in love with. We didn't mean to. There are no regrets, unless you count the regret of an ocean between us. My self-care is surrounding myself with friends who let me talk, let me cry, help me laugh and fill up those empty times in my day that were once filled by Him.

HB.. I'm glad you're using this spot to help with your feelings. You've touched a lot of hearts but, most of all, you're doing "therapy" and I admire you for knowing what you need. I think that's a good step, but often very hard to do.

I'm rambling.
 
I'm rambling.

I think rambling is important. I do it too. Grief takes a lot of different shapes and people cope with it in so many different ways. :heart: I think it's really important to remember not to be self-destructive or neglectful of your needs in it. It's easy to fall into that without paying attention.
 
Rambling is fine. This is healing for all of us.

I'm working through my grief, and finally letting out what would not come out or surface when I could feel was pain, loss, and grief.

I'm still getting waves but this is helping.
 
Can i just say to you all, i am a Very good listener.
I am also good at giving impartial advice.

If you ever want to get anything off your chest, PM me.:heart:
 
Sometimes we have that perfect mate in our lives.

Someone who fits us in a way no one else does.

But the cycle, I think, of OL and LDR, seems to go around so quickly... or maybe it's just me.

A lot of time has been spent posting about what we wish we had, as well as self care while we wait. Not much, that I recall, has been spent of grief. Not just grief about a relationship ending, but any kind, because that cycle is the same.

It's been just over 7 weeks since my relationship ended with a Litster that I fell in love with. We didn't mean to. There are no regrets, unless you count the regret of an ocean between us. My self-care is surrounding myself with friends who let me talk, let me cry, help me laugh and fill up those empty times in my day that were once filled by Him.

HB.. I'm glad you're using this spot to help with your feelings. You've touched a lot of hearts but, most of all, you're doing "therapy" and I admire you for knowing what you need. I think that's a good step, but often very hard to do.

I'm rambling.

Thank you for rambling, I needed this. And thanks to the others who have shared. Grieving is hard enough, but facing it alone can sometimes seem impossible. I hope you all continue to share.
 
Sometimes we have that perfect mate in our lives.

Someone who fits us in a way no one else does.

But the cycle, I think, of OL and LDR, seems to go around so quickly... or maybe it's just me.

A lot of time has been spent posting about what we wish we had, as well as self care while we wait. Not much, that I recall, has been spent of grief. Not just grief about a relationship ending, but any kind, because that cycle is the same.

It's been just over 7 weeks since my relationship ended with a Litster that I fell in love with. We didn't mean to. There are no regrets, unless you count the regret of an ocean between us. My self-care is surrounding myself with friends who let me talk, let me cry, help me laugh and fill up those empty times in my day that were once filled by Him.

HB.. I'm glad you're using this spot to help with your feelings. You've touched a lot of hearts but, most of all, you're doing "therapy" and I admire you for knowing what you need. I think that's a good step, but often very hard to do.

I'm rambling.

i am sure it is not just you. grief is such a real thing. and when something ends, it hurts like hell.
it does not matter whether that love came unexpectedly through an on-line relationship, or if it is a marriage or a family member who you are grieving.
these are losses and must be grieved.

and it seems to me you add to that the D/s component and a sub/ little is lost at sea without the structure of the relationship... or the Daddy/Dom without a sub is also lost... without someone to adore and guide. left to futilely order around the cat.

it is a blessing that people are finding solace here. it is good for my soul too.
 
I see tears stain her cheeks.
"Sweet one... What troubles you?"

A small voice, barely a whisper.
"I'm afraid..."

A gentle smile and a reassuring hair stroke.
"What are you afraid of? Tell me your fears."

A hint of embarrassment in her shining eyes.
"I feel like I don't fit in, like I don't belong in this world."

My eyes meet hers...
"Sweet one, you do belong you do fit in. And I will show you."

A choked back sob.
"Where? Where do I belong?"

Taking her hand in mine and placing it over my heart.
"Here. Here is where your belong and here is where you rule."

Her hand quivers and tears of joy appear.
"I rule here?"

My tender kiss on her lips and a sweet whisper in he ear...
"And you always will. You have me, always and forever..."
:rose:
 
She needed to hear his voice,
To feel him caress her cheek,
His strong arms around her,
When her soul was feeling weak.

He needed her in his arms,
To feel her melt in his embrace,
His soul finding its greatest strength,
When his lap is her safe space.
 
She needed to hear his voice,
To feel him caress her cheek,
His strong arms around her,
When her soul was feeling weak.

He needed her in his arms,
To feel her melt in his embrace,
His soul finding its greatest strength,
When his lap is her safe space.

Lovely.
We need to feel needed to that is one of our greatest rewards,
 
One of the greatest things is to hear a little voice say "I need you..."

Doesn't need to be sexual, if it's not sometimes it's even more intimate, knowing she doesn't need you to please her body, she needs you to please and heal her heart mind and soul.

That is the longing I crave.
To be the one she needs, the once she depends on. And the one she runs to when she is scared. Woe be to whomever wrongs her.
 
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