I need some help. You read these stories about how a handyman goes into a widows place to do some work and they somehow get it on. Well I recently found myself in this type of situation less the getting it on part. How do you get the ball rolling? I would love to jump all over it but I am not sure I want to say anything I don't want her to get freaked out. I'm doing work for some of her friends to. Just how great would it be to get a couple of these older woman. Can anyone help?
Help with getting older woman
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capri31
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If she invites you to sit down, do. Compliment her appearance. If she shows you her bedroom, comment casually on how comfortable the bed looks. If she sits on the bed, sit down next to her. Eye contact... gently kiss her lips. File for unemployment.
Life isn't a porno. Older women are just actual people. You get them the same way you get any other girl. Unless you are shockingly attractive and an extremely smooth talker you're just going to have to ask them to dinner.
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If you are being paid and need the income then the phrase "Don't shit where you eat" springs to mind. As K said, life is not porn and most of what you read here is either embellished or plain B.S. The last thing a handyman needs is lecherous reputation.
If it's personal favors then maybe the previous poster's advice will work for you. A little respect, courtesy, and genuine dialogue can go a long ways.
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Not enough writers and directors to go around?
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Many lives are like pornos.
Only, not yours.
Regrets.
Writers? Porno is written?
My whole life growing up all I ever heard was 'all a girl wants is to feel special' I'd say I finally realized the truth to this in my late 20s. Truman Copote claimed he slept with all the straight people in Hollywood! He claimed that in his experience no one can resist the attention someone gives when they want them.
I'd say treat her like you treated your other crushes! Be sweet to her, compliment her, show her extra attention. Make her feel like a young woman that's attractive, or an older woman that still has it. Bring her a plant for her home, one that flowers the next time you do work for her. Tell her you don't normally buy things for customers, but you enjoy your time with her and are grateful for her kindness. If she tries to talk to you about anything, give her your total attention, don't answer your cell, or look away. And always let the conversation be about her, not you. If she asks about you then tell her, women like it when men share things with them, but show interest in her thoughts.
Just make her feel special, the rest will fall into place.
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Compliment and flirt. If you are near her, like opening the door for her. Put your hand on the small of her back. Innocent touching can lead to more. If she returns the touching or flirting she may be interested.
I once was interested in an older married woman (neighbor) and flirted, rubbed up against her. Put my hand on the small of her back. Even took a chance and put my hand on her ass as she bent over. I got a look from her and was told I needed to leave. The next day she showed up to my house in a tight outfit. She must have thought more about my advances and was interested. Completely made up a story about needing help with a framed picture, to have a chance to push things. So I could touch her some more. I told her I needed her help with a picture I was hanging over the sofa. I had her stand on the sofa and hold it up. She had a nice ass and the sofa cushions were squishy and she was wobbly. I held her up with my hands on her ass. I rubbed all over them. She pushed her ass into my hands. After a little touching I decided to see if I could do more. So I stood behind her and pressed my hard cock into her ass. We were fully clothed. She pushed back and rubbed her ass all over my cock. After a little bit of it. I reached around to grab her large breasts. She moaned at my touch. I think she really wanted to go farther, but got scared and said she had to go home. That was as far as that went unfortunately. But it was fun.
I've had others that went farther from flirting, compliments, and touching.
I once was interested in an older married woman (neighbor) and flirted, rubbed up against her. Put my hand on the small of her back. Even took a chance and put my hand on her ass as she bent over. I got a look from her and was told I needed to leave. The next day she showed up to my house in a tight outfit. She must have thought more about my advances and was interested. Completely made up a story about needing help with a framed picture, to have a chance to push things. So I could touch her some more. I told her I needed her help with a picture I was hanging over the sofa. I had her stand on the sofa and hold it up. She had a nice ass and the sofa cushions were squishy and she was wobbly. I held her up with my hands on her ass. I rubbed all over them. She pushed her ass into my hands. After a little touching I decided to see if I could do more. So I stood behind her and pressed my hard cock into her ass. We were fully clothed. She pushed back and rubbed her ass all over my cock. After a little bit of it. I reached around to grab her large breasts. She moaned at my touch. I think she really wanted to go farther, but got scared and said she had to go home. That was as far as that went unfortunately. But it was fun.
I've had others that went farther from flirting, compliments, and touching.
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Good luck and report back how things go.
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