Daddy's Little Girl

[barefootgirl69]

Something I found, thought it might be of use to the littles here. Good information I thought.

How to Spot a Fake “Daddy”

Unfortunately Tumblr is becoming filled with “Daddies” that don’t deserve to ever be called Daddy by any little, because these guys are just perverts/creeps in disguise. Here’s some ways to spot these “fuckboy fake daddies” as I like to call them, before they hurt you.

1. He asks for nudes and insists you do whatever he says within hours of meeting you.

2. Doesn’t give you structure. Doesn’t act like a Daddy. There are no rules. No bed times. Nothing.

3. His compliments exclusively focus on your appearance, so he says things like “you look great” and “your boobs are amazing”, but you never get a compliment on your personality or character.

4. Is suspiciously quick to punish you. You’re always being told you’ve “been a bad girl”, you always feel like you’re not doing enough to make him happy.

5. He’s only ever really engaged in the convo when he needs something. Other times he’s distant and barely tolerates you. You feel like you’re bugging him.

6. His profile icon is a picture of his dick, or of him shirtless, or something dumb like that.

7. He never really feels like your Daddy, the relationship feels empty and hollow. You still feel alone.

8. Calls you pet names so often that it becomes nauseating. Ends every sentence with “little one” and “princess” and “little girl”; it comes across like he’s trying too hard.

9. He doesn’t seem interested about learning more about DD/lg and BDSM. You won’t find him reblogging long text posts such as this on his blog (instead it’ll be 100% sexual content).

10. Can be very mean and hurtful when he doesn’t get his way. Doesn’t understand how sensitive littles can be and is quick to make harsh personal comments.

Please*help spread the word about these people. Reblog this. Like this. Share this with a friend. We need to put a stop to this behaviour NOW.

Thank you, Mr. T for posting this! I know when we are new to this, we can be so unaware that there are people like this, we are trusting and want to be little... I hope it will help someone not to be hurt by them.

 

[HeavyBalls]

Thank you, Mr. T for posting this! I know when we are new to this, we can be so unaware that there are people like this, we are trusting and want to be little... I hope it will help someone not to be hurt by them.

That is my hope as well.

 

[barefootgirl69]

That is my hope as well.

And, by the same token, I hope that littles realize their actions can be just as hurtful. Daddies aren't above being hurt, too, and common courtesies should be used in ALL sides of any relationship.

 

[HeavyBalls]

And, by the same token, I hope that littles realize their actions can be just as hurtful. Daddies aren't above being hurt, too, and common courtesies should be used in ALL sides of any relationship.

This is very true as well.

 

[LucyBee01]

It's okay to...

♡ call Daddy when you've had a bad dream

♡ inform him of triggers

♡ let him know when you're upset

♡ to let him know when you get anxiety attacks

♡ to use your safe word

Being little isn't always teddy bears and rainbows.

You should be able to talk to your Dominant about anything, even the hard stuff.

It is good to have these reminders

I told Daddy today that I was feeling anxious about a work thing tomorrow. He was surprised because it is something I have done several times successfully. But he was glad I told him and of course he sought to understand and then made me laugh and relax and blush

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

~~>Things About Daddy And I That Maybe Don't Fit The Tumblr Ideal:

* I'm bigger than Daddy. I probably outweigh him by close to thirty pounds. I don't care, he doesn't care. He thinks I'm hotter than snot, and he makes me feel safe and feminine and very, very sexy. It's not his size, it's his presence that makes the difference.

* Daddy hasn't worn a suit in years. He does, however, have a really nice pair of oxblood dress shoes.

* I like to lick Daddy's butt. He likes it, too. hehe

 

[just_e]

~~>Things About Daddy And I That Maybe Don't Fit The Tumblr Ideal:

* I'm bigger than Daddy. I probably outweigh him by close to thirty pounds. I don't care, he doesn't care. He thinks I'm hotter than snot, and he makes me feel safe and feminine and very, very sexy. It's not his size, it's his presence that makes the difference.

* Daddy hasn't worn a suit in years. He does, however, have a really nice pair of oxblood dress shoes.

* I like to lick Daddy's butt. He likes it, too. hehe

Who cares about the Tumblr Ideal? It's what you're like in your head and in your heart that matters. We are all bombarded on a daily basis with what the media think everyone ought to look like when it's how they treat others that they shoud concentrate on.
As long as you're both happy, which you obviously are, that's wonderful. Plus he has the benefit that there is more of you to 'explore'
Honey you rock!

 

[barefootgirl69]

Who cares about the Tumblr Ideal? It's what you're like in your head and in your heart that matters. We are all bombarded on a daily basis with what the media think everyone ought to look like when it's how they treat others that they shoud concentrate on.
As long as you're both happy, which you obviously are, that's wonderful. Plus he has the benefit that there is more of you to 'explore'
Honey you rock!

You rock, too, E!!!

 

[HeavyBalls]

Who cares about the Tumblr Ideal? It's what you're like in your head and in your heart that matters. We are all bombarded on a daily basis with what the media think everyone ought to look like when it's how they treat others that they shoud concentrate on.
As long as you're both happy, which you obviously are, that's wonderful. Plus he has the benefit that there is more of you to 'explore'
Honey you rock!

What ever makes you two feel good. We are not cookies cut out perfectly, all of our loves are beautiful.

 

[SweetiePieBabygirl]

https://78.media.tumblr.com/389d0f975d9b3bd9acce2c64c83eb35b/tumblr_oyqwq1SRUC1u578vho1_500.jpg

finger in my mouth...pushes on all kinds of buttons...

LOVE this! Sweet, sexy, and intimate all at once. I miss this.

 

[HeavyBalls]

LOVE this! Sweet, sexy, and intimate all at once. I miss this.

It's a wonderful thing.

 

[Melancholy_Baby]

I find this thread comforting, I come here just to self sooth sometimes.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I find this thread comforting, I come here just to self sooth sometimes.

I do the same thing. It is my favorite thread.

 

[justasimplegirl]

.....

 

[HeavyBalls]

I find this thread comforting, I come here just to self sooth sometimes.

Happy to have you.

 

[HeavyBalls]

There are some lovely images and prose here. What a beautiful tribute to Daddy's and their little girls. I'll be checking this thread often.

Welcome.

 

[justasimplegirl]

Welcome.

Thank you!

 

[barefootgirl69]

I had some time while waiting for my Trailblazer to be serviced yesterday at WalMart... so, I helped them by properly arranging some things in the Bike section...

https://78.media.tumblr.com/09d27c73910c576ed0e6f57d083c5029/tumblr_ozj6mrkvcC1ue69k4o1_540.jpg

hold on, I'm trying to figure out how to reduce the size! LOL

Update #1 *says really bad words cause I can't figure it out!*

Update #2 *beaming* Thank you, Just_e for resizing it for me! *kisses your cheek*

 

[HeavyBalls]

barefoot, do I have to start buying these for all of you ladies now?

 

[barefootgirl69]

barefoot, do I have to start buying these for all of you ladies now?

Nooooo, just me! LOL

 

[HeavyBalls]

Nooooo, just me! LOL

Uh huh...

 

[Nzerxx]

Nooooo, just me! LOL

NOOOO BFG! and meeeeee too

 

[Nzerxx]

I had some time while waiting for my Trailblazer to be serviced yesterday at WalMart... so, I helped them by properly arranging some things in the Bike section...

https://78.media.tumblr.com/09d27c73910c576ed0e6f57d083c5029/tumblr_ozj6mrkvcC1ue69k4o1_540.jpg

hold on, I'm trying to figure out how to reduce the size! LOL

Update #1 *says really bad words cause I can't figure it out!*

Update #2 *beaming* Thank you, Just_e for resizing it for me! *kisses your cheek*

love this

 

[cascadiabound]

https://78.media.tumblr.com/25fd1ea5a15fe60b3404d549b7e12e04/tumblr_otdmraEVdv1rrugpso1_500.gif

TGIF... cuddling would be lovely

 

[barefootgirl69]

https://78.media.tumblr.com/25fd1ea5a15fe60b3404d549b7e12e04/tumblr_otdmraEVdv1rrugpso1_500.gif

TGIF... cuddling would be lovely

Cuddling in a blanket fort *nod*