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I have a deep desire to watch my wife suck a cock. It is something which I have wanted her to do for some time. Any hints on moving this forward?
 
I have a deep desire to watch my wife suck a cock. It is something which I have wanted her to do for some time. Any hints on moving this forward?

Try role playing to bring it up, maybe it something she's thought of and some names might be mentioned. Also if she has any toys can try using those as well. Has she ever mentioned wanting to be shared?
 
Try role playing to bring it up, maybe it something she's thought of and some names might be mentioned. Also if she has any toys can try using those as well. Has she ever mentioned wanting to be shared?

Good ideas, we have talked about me watching her being fucked but she has backed out...I must be doing something wrong!
 
Good ideas, we have talked about me watching her being fucked but she has backed out...I must be doing something wrong!
I would guess she is worried how you would feel afterwards. What is she liked it too much? What if she behaved differently from how she fucked you? It sounds like fun, but it can take on different couple dynamics. I'm just speculating.
 
Sounds like the idea excites you both but like someone above that mentioned she might be afraid of the aftermath. She doesn't want you to see her any different or think that she's into someone else more than you. Talk it over with her and find out what she's afraid of if anything and reassure her that things will not change on your end, took a while to find my wife's reservations but sure opened up a lot of doors and fun times.
 
Good ideas, we have talked about me watching her being fucked but she has backed out...I must be doing something wrong!

Just concentrate on her sucking another guy's cock.

And like other's have said,she might want to do it but is worried how you might react afterwards.

And you have to be totally sure you're definitely ok with her sucking another cock.
You cannot ever become jealous.
 
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You might incorporate a dildo or toy into your sex play. Find one that is realistic and that feels good. You need to be careful about texture and taste. (some have a unnatural texture/roughness and some toys just taste bad.) You can try to explore other interests like size and color if either of those push her buttons. Use it on her for warm up, then try to get her to suck it while you are fucking her.
That is kind of where we started....
 
One of the things that helped usher my wife and I into our hotwifing was my positive reaction to her talking favourably of other men. Or at least not reacting negatively. Some husbands would get possessive or show signs of jealousy. When my wife started showing interest in other men ("he's attractive", "firemen are hot") I found myself encouraging her. I soon began to get the feeling she was getting curious of other men. I was right. She ended up in another mans bed while on holiday. Which kick started the hotwife marriage weren't both enjoying.
 
I don't have any ideas. Even when my wife had sex with other men, she refused to suck their cocks. She seems to enjoy sucking mine, but she says that is only for me. If that's the way she feels, I'm not going to try to change her mind.
 
I've tried having my wife suck me off in front of a mirror. it's like watching her suck someone else off. and watching a live porn vid....much easier and less complicated trying to find another partner...
good luck
 
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