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I love the sensual aspect. The slow tender, enthusiastic part. I am showing my adoration. But, the other side of it is, it turns me on to have him in my mouth. To watch his reaction to the way my tongue teases. To know he's hard because of me... it's not really about control, it's a feeling of pleasure.. because I'm not in control no matter that I am the one giving the pleasure.
Do I want to take him in my throat? Oh, yes... but I like that I take my time getting there.
This post is incredibly hot, just sayin. I love the way you describe this, thank you.I love the sensual aspect. The slow tender, enthusiastic part. I am showing my adoration. But, the other side of it is, it turns me on to have him in my mouth. To watch his reaction to the way my tongue teases. To know he's hard because of me... it's not really about control, it's a feeling of pleasure.. because I'm not in control no matter that I am the one giving the pleasure.
Do I want to take him in my throat? Oh, yes... but I like that I take my time getting there.
What if he wants it before it's your time?
This 100% I can be in control that's cool but I don't want to have to micromanage the whole damn time, you should be better at it than I am anyway. I want to see what creative things she can think of to drive me wild, to please me, not just do the same thing I would demand if I controlled every step.I'm not the one in control, remember?
And, not all guys are alike. Some want to watch and see what their submissive or lover is going to do, and they lay back to enjoy it.
I'm not the one in control, remember?
And, not all guys are alike. Some want to watch and see what their submissive or lover is going to do, and they lay back to enjoy it.
This 100% I can be in control that's cool but I don't want to have to micromanage the whole damn time, you should be better at it than I am anyway. I want to see what creative things she can think of to drive me wild, to please me, not just do the same thing I would demand if I controlled every step.
This 100% I can be in control that's cool but I don't want to have to micromanage the whole damn time, you should be better at it than I am anyway. I want to see what creative things she can think of to drive me wild, to please me, not just do the same thing I would demand if I controlled every step.
I agree. Yes.
The point is... if we are serving, is it on our time?
How do I want to put it, to describe what is in my head?
My service is based on whatever he allows. He may want more and be demanding and take whatever he wants, when he wants. "Taking my time" is something he allows, therefore, he has control...so, yes, I can serve and take my time if he allows it.
If my Daddy takes me out to eat and tells me to order what I want - then, I have what I want at his discretion... cock worship is no different.
Everyone worships in different ways. Some time it hard and humiliating and make-up smeared, and some don't (both Doms and subs). For me, sometimes that's what I need and hope and plead for. I prefer sensual worship and, that's the type of Dom I want, too.
Well if I really wanted it I could ask, or order, or gently urge her down fatter, it depends on partner and dynamic I suppose.It's not about controlling her actions. Or micromanaging.
But what if you want it deep? Now.
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I'm not trying to be confrontational. I'm trying to keep the questions going!
I love it. I'm getting a lot out of it. I'm sure the lurkers are as well.
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Yeah, I will go back to lurking when discussion dies and it goes back to pic and vid posting, I think the discussions are more interesting, personally.I wish these lurkers would come out and participate!
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This post is also hot.I love giving oral. His cock in my mouth arouses me so. His moans and curses inspire me and direct my efforts. Like barefootgirl, I prefer to have time to savor the act on my terms, long and slow and sensual. I will do it my way for as long as he lets me -- and he does let me, because he loves what I do -- but I know that eventually he will take control. He will order me to make him cum (i.e., pick up the pace and intensity) and/or he will grab my head and fuck my mouth. I wouldn't have it any other way.
Yes I think it does, in those situations most of my lovers know how to make me cum fairly rapidly although I would prefer it last a little longer in that situation I am ok with them getting me off more quickly.I'm not sure I have technical skill, not as you describe it, cookie, but I have lots of enthusiasm!
The word "servitude" makes me think of tenderness. The rougher stuff feels more like service.
Also, god yes, there are times when I'm thinking "just cum already!" or running through my to-do list. Surely that happens to everyone sometimes.
Don't be offput by my dislike of pictures. I am not a visual person is all. I just have much less to offer in that situation.Whaaat? People go away when pictures are posted??
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Enthusiasm vs. technical skill. It all depends. I've learned along the way different techniques to get his cock down my throat deeper or when to take an extra breath because he's taking his time, pushing his cock all the way down my throat. Or, if I'm laying on my back my head hanging off the bed - when I can't see anything but his stomach as he's using my mouth, I've learned how to tilt my head a certain way and gauge my breathing so I don't totally freak out.
People have talked about oral being sensual and tender. Far talked about being used as a hole, the confusion of being used in a harder way. Both are valid. Both generally require enthusiasm. I see both as being in service. Offering up my mouth whether he wants me to adore his cock, worship him through his cock or just being a hole to deliver his cum. It just depends on the mood, his mood, what he requires.
At times, I've been unenthusiastic. Too tired, not feeling sexy. I just don't wanna. (Am I the only one who's been in that place??) Those times, I've still offered up my mouth because he wants it. Perhaps it's technical. Not as joyful. But I see that as super service oriented. Generally I get more, um, enthusiastic (horny?) as the blow job goes on.
When someone is eating me out, I do appreciate some technical skill. Mostly where my clit is located. I also appreciate someone who communicates. Maybe it's checking in with my pussy to see if biting my pussy lips is making me wet but also checking in with me to see if I like it hard or soft or bites or licks or whatever.