Wife Texts

[WonderingHubby21]

Has anyone else ever found inappropriate text messages in their wife's phone at all?

I have, and they've been a fantastic source of jerk off material!

 

[stormin515]

I've seen nude and semi nude pics my wife has sent her girl friends. If that counts?!

 

[wildp]

yeah and then she lied and lied about it until she finally just started leaving and staying gone all night.

 

[peter99jackson]

I share my Wife and its great read her messages to her Boyfriend which are extremely intimate .

 

[Bluesky8888]

Can we see some screengrabs (if you have em)? These are a tough commodity

 

[Justfantasies]

My wife and were separated for several years. We stayed friends and I paid some of the bills. I have to admit that I did this as a way of figuring out if my wife was doing other guys.

A few months after we split up I found calls to another town in our state. I managed to trace the number and it belonged to a guy who fitted the profile of the kind of man Cindy would sleep with.

When we finally got back together I asked her about this guy and she admitted that she had been having sex with him regularly. Then she giggled and told me that my telephone snooping hadn't been as successful as I had thought. I had never found out about the eight other guys she had let fuck her during the time we were apart

 

[suckonsimon]

I find the very notion of peeking at my wife's personal exchanges on her mobile to be so creepy. Likewise I know she would never do that with my phone unless there was some kind of dire emergency. Is loving and cherishing not about respecting personal space?

 

[davenjenn]

I find the very notion of peeking at my wife's personal exchanges on her mobile to be so creepy. Likewise I know she would never do that with my phone unless there was some kind of dire emergency. Is loving and cherishing not about respecting personal space?

I wouldn't mind at all if my husband found out about one of my lovers from phone bills or texts. I don't tell him everything and I think he would find it kind of hot

 

[Nezhul]

I find the very notion of peeking at my wife's personal exchanges on her mobile to be so creepy. Likewise I know she would never do that with my phone unless there was some kind of dire emergency. Is loving and cherishing not about respecting personal space?

Agree. If you suspect your wife of cheating - confront her about it in a measured, adult conversation. Not by trying to spy on her or invading her personal life.

She's your wife. But not your possession.

 

[WonderingHubby21]

Agree. If you suspect your wife of cheating - confront her about it in a measured, adult conversation. Not by trying to spy on her or invading her personal life.

She's your wife. But not your possession.

It truly never ceases to amaze me how quickly people leap to judge one another on here. If you're not interested in a post then you move along to the next one instead of trying to attack the poster with why you think they're wrong.

No one has made any claim of possession at any point. To think that as a married person, male or female that you are entitled to private personal life with your phone is a joke to me though.

Anyway that's my blurb, I don't write it to offend anyone, simply to point out that if you're coming on here to pass judgement on others, we really don't want to read it.

 

[JackOffer]

I would only consider it inappropriate if she turned someone down for sex with either of us. We never turn down sex.

 

[Nezhul]

Um. Ignore me, then? Ignore half the forum also.

It never ceases to amaze me how people think that posting on forums is there only when you agree with someone.

Forum is a conversation. And judgments, both negative and positive - are an integral part of any conversation.

And fucking YES, you damn-well ARE entitled to your privacy even when you are married. If YOU think it's OK to read your wive's texts, her phone history and trace the people she talked to - then you may live that life as you like, but don't cry when it slaps you back across the face later for being a dick

 

[screwher]

My wife

I understand that everyone is entitled to their space and privacy. Most of the time I have no interest in anything on my wife's phone, purse, etc. But I have no problem going through either of them if needs be. Just as I have no reservations handing over my wallet and phone to her.

 

[WonderingHubby21]

Um. Ignore me, then? Ignore half the forum also.

It never ceases to amaze me how people think that posting on forums is there only when you agree with someone.

Forum is a conversation. And judgments, both negative and positive - are an integral part of any conversation.

And fucking YES, you damn-well ARE entitled to your privacy even when you are married. If YOU think it's OK to read your wive's texts, her phone history and trace the people she talked to - then you may live that life as you like, but don't cry when it slaps you back across the face later for being a dick

See there you go. I said not one thing derogatory to you, and you accuse me of being a dick, without having asked a single thing about the situation or the post itself.

And yeah 100% I don't have any issue handing my phone to my wife and she has never locked hers or had a problem with me looking at it. If you think having complete privacy from your spouse with your devices is good, great for you, really not the intent of this thread.

 

[Nezhul]

Handling a phone is OK, although I don't see many reasons to ask for it.

But going through their phone behind their back - is totally not OK.

I don't see how that can be a hard concept.

Also I didn't call you a dick. I said you would be a dick if you think it's OK to invade your wife's privacy behind her back, and I still stand by my words.

 

[WonderingHubby21]

Handling a phone is OK, although I don't see many reasons to ask for it.

But going through their phone behind their back - is totally not OK.

I don't see how that can be a hard concept.

Also I didn't call you a dick. I said you would be a dick if you think it's OK to invade your wife's privacy behind her back, and I still stand by my words.

No one but yourself mentioned "behind their back". That's my issue here. You've construed my initial post into something completely different based on your own experience/prejudice on the situation. That's why I sy it's worthwhile to ask questions and divine meaning before passing judgement. The whole point is moot thoigh. Have a good one.

 

[Nezhul]

Excuse me but when a guy says:
1) A few months after we split up I found calls to another town in our state.
2) managed to trace the number
3) When we finally got back together I asked her about this guy
4) she told me that my telephone snooping hadn't been as successful

this clearly implies that he was monitoring her calls and she didn't know about it. To me, that's the definition of "behind her back"
Moreover, I fail to see how you can mistake the phrase "telephone snooping" for something that's been done with permission.

Oh no! Clearly that's a case of a totally open exchange of cellphones with further innocent stalking of the owners of unfamiliar numbers. Totally legit. And not invading no-one's privacy at all.

 

[WonderingHubby21]

Excuse me but when a guy says:
1) A few months after we split up I found calls to another town in our state.
2) managed to trace the number
3) When we finally got back together I asked her about this guy
4) she told me that my telephone snooping hadn't been as successful

this clearly implies that he was monitoring her calls and she didn't know about it. To me, that's the definition of "behind her back"
Moreover, I fail to see how you can mistake the phrase "telephone snooping" for something that's been done with permission.

Oh no! Clearly that's a case of a totally open exchange of cellphones with further innocent stalking of the owners of unfamiliar numbers. Totally legit. And not invading no-one's privacy at all.

1) That wasn't my post that you're using to justify calling out my thread.
2) Let it go dude. This is supposed to be a fun place to hang out and chat, let me
Know if you're having fun with this argument cuz it's just become tedious to me. You're obviously right in all things and the rest of us are in awe.

 

[Nezhul]

I never said anything about your thread though. Just commented on another person's post, which is what you get on open forums.

 

[twister947]

It's poor form to read others' mail. Always.

 

[WonderingHubby21]

Wow. This escalated quickly, and it's not even the GB.

Right?! Lol

 

[Justfantasies]

It amazes me that people take what's written on a porn site so seriously.

 

[justherhusband]

I understand that everyone is entitled to their space and privacy. Most of the time I have no interest in anything on my wife's phone, purse, etc. But I have no problem going through either of them if needs be. Just as I have no reservations handing over my wallet and phone to her.

This is exactly how my wife and I are. We know each others' passwords on all devices, but neither of us feels the need to check. If I ever did, I wouldn't hesitate though. We don't believe there is any such thing as "expectation of privacy" in a marriage (to use legal jargon). Betraying your spouse compared to snooping is like comparing shoplifting to murder. That's how we live our lives, others obviously can live theirs however they both agree.

 

[Cdub255]

I found all sorts of pics that wee sent to my wife from exes and her old boss. I wish I saw what she returned.

 

[hex2112]

I've seen dick pics and sexy messages on her phone. I never say anything. I just love reading and seeing cocks.