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Hey everyone

Hey everyone ,
I am super new to this sight ! and am glad to find this thread .... I just recently come to the realization that I was bisexual . I am looking to make some friends , and chat ( both sexual or nonsexual and see where things go. If interested in making new friends or maybe more please feel free to pm me
 
Hey everyone ,
I am super new to this sight ! and am glad to find this thread .... I just recently come to the realization that I was bisexual . I am looking to make some friends , and chat ( both sexual or nonsexual and see where things go. If interested in making new friends or maybe more please feel free to pm me

Hubby and I always welcome new friends and more :kiss:
 
Evening ladies! Why don't we start a nice conversation here instead of just running in and saying hi, before dashing back out? I'll start!

When did you realise that you were sexually interested in both women and men? Has it been a long and painful journey, or have you always been self accepting? What about your family and friends, do they accept you? What are some of the challenges you face on a daily (or not so daily) basis regarding your bisexuality?
 
Evening ladies! Why don't we start a nice conversation here instead of just running in and saying hi, before dashing back out? I'll start!

When did you realise that you were sexually interested in both women and men? Has it been a long and painful journey, or have you always been self accepting? What about your family and friends, do they accept you? What are some of the challenges you face on a daily (or not so daily) basis regarding your bisexuality?

I'll try to answer this.

I guess I was in high school when I realized that I want all the good things in life! The society I live in is very open to dating and sexuality with the opposite sex, at young ages (18+ for Lit's sake).

However, as time pass and as I get to know other people than my own (domestic and international tourists), I leaned more towards the ladies. I can't say the journey was painful, but currently I am trying to hold off the pressure from my family to marry and the struggle to find a long term same sex relationship.

I try to hide beneath Lit and lurk on fettle to feed my appetite, but the desire to touch is there..day & night.
 
I am not bisexual, but for me that's just the question I have been asked a number of times before: when did you realise you were gay?

And for those of them who were, my answer often was: Well, when did you realise you were straight?

People follow by example. If you are keen on others sharing with you something like that, which for some people might not be a pleasant thing to recall, why not share your journey into bisexuality first?
 
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I'll try to answer this.

I guess I was in high school when I realized that I want all the good things in life! The society I live in is very open to dating and sexuality with the opposite sex, at young ages (18+ for Lit's sake).

However, as time pass and as I get to know other people than my own (domestic and international tourists), I leaned more towards the ladies. I can't say the journey was painful, but currently I am trying to hold off the pressure from my family to marry and the struggle to find a long term same sex relationship.

I try to hide beneath Lit and lurk on fettle to feed my appetite, but the desire to touch is there..day & night.

I have meant to ask you, where do you hail from?

Is there a large LGBT society near you, where you can draw strength, resources and relationships from?

I don't think it's possible to hold out from your family forever in secret. You'll probably have to tell them eventually.

It's not easy to not have your desires met, that's for sure. At least lit is here to help, but it's definitely not the real thing, I know.

I can't answer that.
Why not?

i kissed and fooled around a bit with a girl at a sleepover..i was hooked. :)
I think I discovered my feelings about the same age, in a very similar manner.

I am not bisexual, but for me that's just the question I have been asked a number of times before: when did you realise you were gay?

And for those of them who were, my answer often was: Well, when did you realise you were straight?

People follow by example. If you are keen on others sharing with you something like that, which for some people might not be a pleasant thing to recall, why not share your journey into bisexuality first?
I'm going to point out a few things here, since it seems like you've taken offense. 1. I didn't ask you in specific, I asked the general population. I was trying to get a conversation going. I suppose I could have included a little bit more of my own details, but I was trying to give people a reason to talk instead of just doing a hit and run, like they have been. 2. I don't want to discount your experiences, but I didn't post this in the lesbian's only thread. I specifically posted it in the Bi Ladies' thread because I was interested in discussing bisexuality. If you want to discuss your experiences, just bear in mind, that they may not be the same as the majority of the ladies here.
 
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I truly have not taken any offense by it. It was just a comment on my part, unwarranted maybe, I can grant that. My bluntness often takes precedence. I am not above apologising if my words rung as harsh, in your eyes, which they seem to have. I regret that, but they were not written with that intention, at all. Perhaps it was my half-hazardous way to participate in a discussion which I might have been better off if I didn't.

In my comment, I was also addressing the general audience. When I did so, my own experiences were the last thing I had in mind since they would add nothing to the conversation. They are not the experiences of a bisexual individual. You're absolutely right. My experiences are not like anyone else's nor other people's experiences are like mine. My intervention sprung more of a place where, despite the forum's nature and the relative anonymity one can relish, it can be a sensitive subject for some people.

I often regard some topics here as group meetings where some, despite wanting to share their experiences, need a bit of encouragement from hearing other people first. Not all experiences are positive. Even in the written form, I believe the principle applies. That was probably why I wrote what I wrote, not to create any distress.

I wanted to put in some smileys, but then again, it might be regarded as rudeness. Then again, if I don't put them, it can be regarded as haughtiness.

So here, have a 🍕. Every one loves pizza, right?

In the words of the biteastic Pamela Swynford de Beaufort: "Let bygones, be bygones; bi-girls, be bi-girls."

I bid everyone a pleasant evening and apologies if feelings and/or sensibilities were hurt.
 
I truly have not taken any offense by it. It was just a comment on my part, unwarranted maybe, I can grant that. My bluntness often takes precedence. I am not above apologising if my words rung as harsh, in your eyes, which they seem to have. I regret that, but they were not written with that intention, at all. Perhaps it was my half-hazardous way to participate in a discussion which I might have been better off if I didn't.

In my comment, I was also addressing the general audience. When I did so, my own experiences were the last thing I had in mind since they would add nothing to the conversation. They are not the experiences of a bisexual individual. You're absolutely right. My experiences are not like anyone else's nor other people's experiences are like mine. My intervention sprung more of a place where, despite the forum's nature and the relative anonymity one can relish, it can be a sensitive subject for some people.

I often regard some topics here as group meetings where some, despite wanting to share their experiences, need a bit of encouragement from hearing other people first. Not all experiences are positive. Even in the written form, I believe the principle applies. That was probably why I wrote what I wrote, not to create any distress.

I wanted to put in some smileys, but then again, it might be regarded as rudeness. Then again, if I don't put them, it can be regarded as haughtiness.

So here, have a 🍕. Every one loves pizza, right?

In the words of the biteastic Pamela Swynford de Beaufort: "Let bygones, be bygones; bi-girls, be bi-girls."

I bid everyone a pleasant evening and apologies if feelings and/or sensibilities were hurt.

Sorry for the delay in response. I have a bad habit of not subscribing to topics. I guess we misunderstood each other's intentions. I'm sorry for creating a disturbance. I don't want people to share if it is hurtful to them. My only intention was to get people talking.
 
I truly have not taken any offense by it. It was just a comment on my part, unwarranted maybe, I can grant that. My bluntness often takes precedence. I am not above apologising if my words rung as harsh, in your eyes, which they seem to have. I regret that, but they were not written with that intention, at all. Perhaps it was my half-hazardous way to participate in a discussion which I might have been better off if I didn't.

In my comment, I was also addressing the general audience. When I did so, my own experiences were the last thing I had in mind since they would add nothing to the conversation. They are not the experiences of a bisexual individual. You're absolutely right. My experiences are not like anyone else's nor other people's experiences are like mine. My intervention sprung more of a place where, despite the forum's nature and the relative anonymity one can relish, it can be a sensitive subject for some people.

I often regard some topics here as group meetings where some, despite wanting to share their experiences, need a bit of encouragement from hearing other people first. Not all experiences are positive. Even in the written form, I believe the principle applies. That was probably why I wrote what I wrote, not to create any distress.

I wanted to put in some smileys, but then again, it might be regarded as rudeness. Then again, if I don't put them, it can be regarded as haughtiness.

So here, have a 🍕. Every one loves pizza, right?

In the words of the biteastic Pamela Swynford de Beaufort: "Let bygones, be bygones; bi-girls, be bi-girls."

I bid everyone a pleasant evening and apologies if feelings and/or sensibilities were hurt.

Does 👍 love ❤️ pizza 🍕
 
i been doing that since high school ;) it sure slowed down drastically after i got married:(
 
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So I never really came out to my parents. I guess I never felt like I needed their approval for anything. I moved away when I was young and I still only really talk to them about the most banal of things. I can't even talk to them about politics because they're repubs, (thankfully not trumpers) so we don't even have that in common. I guess I'm wondering: do you think it's worth involving them in this aspect of my life? I'm an actual adult, we don't live on the same continent and I'm married to a guy, so they might not even believe me. What do you ladies think?
 
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