Cmnf - where to start?

[sam_thelion]

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[MeekMe]

If this is the wrong forum, please feel free to move it.

Been reading missmixalot's post on Cmnf parties, and this may be a dumb question, but I honestly don't know where to find an answer.

1. How does one find and get involved with these kind of events? Is there like a double - secret handshake involved?

2. Are there ever 'mixed' parties? What I mean is, do some of the women remain clothed? I'm thinking maybe first timers who might not be comfortable baring all?

Google search your area for munches and clubs. A munch is a gathering at a cafe/bar/restaurant designed to meet other kinky people. Typically this is strictly for meeting and getting to know people so kinky topics are at a minimum and dress code is non-kinky. They'll usually have rules posted for you to follow.

The people you meet may have the info you seek. Your local club may have a themed night for this type of event or if you get to know people you might be invited to a private party.

Joining fetlife may give you some info as well.

 

[metrifonate]

As others have said look for clubs on fetlife. If you aee in the uk there is an organisation ukcmnf rhat holds parties twice a year and has lots of active members and contacts

 

[missmixalot]

There are lots of CMnf types from mild to BDSM. Fetlife has a number of groups but it is really about the right group of people.

 

[sam_thelion]

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[missmixalot]

I've heard not so good things about Fetlife. Guess a lot of people on here have left for one reason or another. Is it still a decent resource?

It has declined in recent years but there are still a few good groups.