An exhibitionists dilemma

[SassyLady87]

I'm pretty sure that at one point or another we've all had an internal dilemma or struggle having to do with our sexual nature clashing with societal norms or expectations.

As someone who is very much an exhibitionist I constantly struggle with my nature vs my professional and personal reputation. If it were solely about me I'd be putting myself 100% out there. One example is my overwhelming desire to be a Cam Girl, as silly as it may seem it's a dream come true for a exhibitionist/submissive/eternal nympho. I can go on and on about the subject and why I'd love it but I won't bore you. The not is that my professional reputation and my relationship with my family/community stops me from doing it in the case it were discovered or seen by someone I know in my work or family life.

How have you dealt with that struggle? Have you ever experienced it?

 

[AverageGary]

I'm pretty sure that at one point or another we've all had an internal dilemma or struggle having to do with our sexual nature clashing with societal norms or expectations.

As someone who is very much an exhibitionist I constantly struggle with my nature vs my professional and personal reputation. If it were solely about me I'd be putting myself 100% out there. One example is my overwhelming desire to be a Cam Girl, as silly as it may seem it's a dream come true for a exhibitionist/submissive/eternal nympho. I can go on and on about the subject and why I'd love it but I won't bore you. The not is that my professional reputation and my relationship with my family/community stops me from doing it in the case it were discovered or seen by someone I know in my work or family life.

How have you dealt with that struggle? Have you ever experienced it?

Is there any way you could do it wearing a mardi-gras style mask to hide part of your face and have a plain background (maybe a plain, solid sheet draped across something) so there's nothing identifiable behind you?
Then you would just need to set aside time from the family and job where you could be undisturbed for a few hours ..

Is there any way you could take random

 

[Hypoxia]

As AG suggested, you can mask yourself and your surroundings. Or you could remain masked and expose yourself at more-or-less public places not directly linked to you. Can you enlist the aid of a friend or stranger?

 

[SassyLady87]

I've been considering that, I guess it's the weird paranoia of someone recognizing you. I'm open to suggestions though and this is a good one.

 

[TheWhiteBull]

I've been considering that, I guess it's the weird paranoia of someone recognizing you. I'm open to suggestions though and this is a good one.

If you think they might still recognize you with a mask on you could always go full coverage with a helmet...

http://68.media.tumblr.com/c0b0fed734fee4b0911b92273454f12d/tumblr_nnuh2bAAz31slurmwo4_400.jpg

Obviously it neednt be a stormtrooper helmet, but youd be the DeadMau5/Daft Punk/Whatshisface of cam girls.

 

[charterguy05]

I'm pretty sure that at one point or another we've all had an internal dilemma or struggle having to do with our sexual nature clashing with societal norms or expectations.

As someone who is very much an exhibitionist I constantly struggle with my nature vs my professional and personal reputation. If it were solely about me I'd be putting myself 100% out there. One example is my overwhelming desire to be a Cam Girl, as silly as it may seem it's a dream come true for a exhibitionist/submissive/eternal nympho. I can go on and on about the subject and why I'd love it but I won't bore you. The not is that my professional reputation and my relationship with my family/community stops me from doing it in the case it were discovered or seen by someone I know in my work or family life.

How have you dealt with that struggle? Have you ever experienced it?

I know the feeling and am glad you brought this up because I've been trying to come up with ideas as well because I can be so much naughtier if given the opportunity.

 

[Wandering11]

perhaps

start slow and sort of an oops moment.........

http://68.media.tumblr.com/c2c964043d734830cb3ce5d8257a2116/tumblr_n4dzcmcYRU1smr557o1_500.jpg

 

[HumasWanderingWeiner]

start slow and sort an oops moment.........

http://68.media.tumblr.com/c2c964043d734830cb3ce5d8257a2116/tumblr_n4dzcmcYRU1smr557o1_500.jpg

Great user name.

 

[Cabeza]

I'm pretty sure that at one point or another we've all had an internal dilemma or struggle having to do with our sexual nature clashing with societal norms or expectations.

As someone who is very much an exhibitionist I constantly struggle with my nature vs my professional and personal reputation. If it were solely about me I'd be putting myself 100% out there. One example is my overwhelming desire to be a Cam Girl, as silly as it may seem it's a dream come true for a exhibitionist/submissive/eternal nympho. I can go on and on about the subject and why I'd love it but I won't bore you. The not is that my professional reputation and my relationship with my family/community stops me from doing it in the case it were discovered or seen by someone I know in my work or family life.

How have you dealt with that struggle? Have you ever experienced it?

I'm with you. I'd love to show myself off to strangers, but I'm worried about getting caught / recognized. A word of warning: masks (or stormtrooper helmets) are great but there are A LOT of ways to find someone's identity on the Internet. (Or maybe I'm just too paranoid.)

 

[Hypoxia]

I'm winging this, so bear with me. My analytical id susses-out various types of exhibitionism, not necessarily exclusive. Any or all could be 'real' exhibitionism.

* Masked or unmasked
* Private (cam) or public (open)
* Static (still) or dynamic (moving)
* External touching by yourself or other(s)
* Any type of penetration by yourself or other(s)
* Display of what are generally considered kinks or fetishes
* Full nudity; or partial obstructed by costume, posture, paint, shadow

For net display or other image broadcast, almost any of these can be recorded with the necessary degree of anonymity. (Yeah, no fucking-on-the-city-park-bench stuff.) For assistance, a stranger could be shanghaied. ("Hey, here's ten bucks -- hold the cam while I frig myself, okay?") Or go someplace lonely or remote with a tripod. Maybe a Radio Shack store during lunch break.

Just an observation: you want a low-risk approach to a risky genre. Good luck.

 

[SassyLady87]

Just an observation: you want a low-risk approach to a risky genre. Good luck.

This is the best way to put it

 

[zoso682001]

Try going to Key West or Mardi Gras . There can be so much of that going on you'll be noticed but not immortalized...and everybody wears masks .

 

[SophieUK]

If you think they might still recognize you with a mask on you could always go full coverage with a helmet...

http://68.media.tumblr.com/c0b0fed734fee4b0911b92273454f12d/tumblr_nnuh2bAAz31slurmwo4_400.jpg

Obviously it neednt be a stormtrooper helmet, but youd be the DeadMau5/Daft Punk/Whatshisface of cam girls.

Morning giggle (but that mask will probably feed some fantasies!)

And beware giveaway tats..

 

[nfrrdscnnr1]

can't

Can't say that exposing my body or thoughts of doing so gets my engine revved. It seemed to a bit in my teens but that was a LONG time ago. Your desires are vry interesting . Are those the basis for the very arousing avatar of yours which brings on my thoughts of wanting to see more?
Your dilemma is very understandable, BTW. There are locations where your exposed body would be "normal". Do you think those places would satisfy your desire?

 

[SassyLady87]

Can't say that exposing my body or thoughts of doing so gets my engine revved. It seemed to a bit in my teens but that was a LONG time ago. Your desires are vry interesting . Are those the basis for the very arousing avatar of yours which brings on my thoughts of wanting to see more?
Your dilemma is very understandable, BTW. There are locations where your exposed body would be "normal". Do you think those places would satisfy your desire?

I chose my avatar image because from the second I saw it I felt that it looked so much like me and had a hint of sexiness to it. I don't think it would, it's about exposing myself to others but also getting to see or know their reaction in some way. Everyone doing it cause it's the norm takes some of that away because it's not something out of place and arousing it's just more of the same.

 

[gorgio35]

I'm pretty sure that at one point or another we've all had an internal dilemma or struggle having to do with our sexual nature clashing with societal norms or expectations.

As someone who is very much an exhibitionist I constantly struggle with my nature vs my professional and personal reputation. If it were solely about me I'd be putting myself 100% out there. One example is my overwhelming desire to be a Cam Girl, as silly as it may seem it's a dream come true for a exhibitionist/submissive/eternal nympho. I can go on and on about the subject and why I'd love it but I won't bore you. The not is that my professional reputation and my relationship with my family/community stops me from doing it in the case it were discovered or seen by someone I know in my work or family life.

How have you dealt with that struggle? Have you ever experienced it?

Absolutely understand your struggle. I too love to be seen, and love to show off, but am concerned about the wrong people seeing. I like to cam, and often am on cam on a popular cam site, but never show my face. That limits me a bit. I also can't "register" because you need to show ID, etc., which I'm not willing to do. I LOVE the idea of doing c2c with an equally exhibitionist lady, but many people are hesitant for the same reasons I'm hesitant to show my face. And some seem turned off by me not showing my face.

So, I get off on at least showing what I'm willing, while secretly wishing I could show more. I take steps to limit what is seen in the background, and never show from the neck up, never wear identifiable clothes, and try to hide my visible tats.

 

[just4friends]

Just share with those you have grown to trust. If you really know them, you will know that... and perhaps go ahead to share anyways

 

[crashD]

I'm pretty sure that at one point or another we've all had an internal dilemma or struggle having to do with our sexual nature clashing with societal norms or expectations.

As someone who is very much an exhibitionist I constantly struggle with my nature vs my professional and personal reputation. If it were solely about me I'd be putting myself 100% out there. One example is my overwhelming desire to be a Cam Girl, as silly as it may seem it's a dream come true for a exhibitionist/submissive/eternal nympho. I can go on and on about the subject and why I'd love it but I won't bore you. The not is that my professional reputation and my relationship with my family/community stops me from doing it in the case it were discovered or seen by someone I know in my work or family life.

How have you dealt with that struggle? Have you ever experienced it?

You can always post pics here. Block out your face.

Not as good as real life exhibition but much safer

 

[ThunderbirdCumsalot]

Just share with those you have grown to trust. If you really know them, you will know that... and perhaps go ahead to share anyways

You can always post pics here. Block out your face.

Not as good as real life exhibition but much safer

I agree with these. And trust me: You can trust me.

 

[centrum1000]

I chose my avatar image because from the second I saw it I felt that it looked so much like me and had a hint of sexiness to it. I don't think it would, it's about exposing myself to others but also getting to see or know their reaction in some way. Everyone doing it cause it's the norm takes some of that away because it's not something out of place and arousing it's just more of the same.

Have you ever tried doing a video chat with a guy?

I'm the same way as you and very paranoid about my two works colliding and someone from my personal or professional life knowing about it.

I tried it once with a mask and though I felt good about the disguise it turned to be a little more awkward than I expected...

My suggestion would be to try connecting with someone in a different city over email first and build a little trust and make sure that kinks align. That way you should be able to confidently reduce the likelihood of being outed to nearly zero.

I'm open to exploring if you're looking. I'm in NY for what it's worth.

 

[docisin]

I'm pretty sure that at one point or another we've all had an internal dilemma or struggle having to do with our sexual nature clashing with societal norms or expectations.

As someone who is very much an exhibitionist I constantly struggle with my nature vs my professional and personal reputation. If it were solely about me I'd be putting myself 100% out there. One example is my overwhelming desire to be a Cam Girl, as silly as it may seem it's a dream come true for a exhibitionist/submissive/eternal nympho. I can go on and on about the subject and why I'd love it but I won't bore you. The not is that my professional reputation and my relationship with my family/community stops me from doing it in the case it were discovered or seen by someone I know in my work or family life.

How have you dealt with that struggle? Have you ever experienced it?

I feel ya; you've been given a lot of perfect solutions here, and I'm sure one or more will work for you. I'm in the same boat, I LOVE being watched (love watching too), but as a M, fewer people are into that. Most would LOVE to watch a woman, but more men want to be watched than people wanting to watch them. At least that's what it seems like....

 

[luvdoublepenetration]

I'm pretty sure that at one point or another we've all had an internal dilemma or struggle having to do with our sexual nature clashing with societal norms or expectations.

As someone who is very much an exhibitionist I constantly struggle with my nature vs my professional and personal reputation. If it were solely about me I'd be putting myself 100% out there. One example is my overwhelming desire to be a Cam Girl, as silly as it may seem it's a dream come true for a exhibitionist/submissive/eternal nympho. I can go on and on about the subject and why I'd love it but I won't bore you. The not is that my professional reputation and my relationship with my family/community stops me from doing it in the case it were discovered or seen by someone I know in my work or family life.

How have you dealt with that struggle? Have you ever experienced it?

I do understand what u are going through... Am am a hardcore exhibitionist my self...Am married and a mom of 2....I try being modest when at home...I used to work...but it clashed with my hobbies so i left the job...I take frequent trips to let my true self out...I drive to places 1 or 2 hours from my home to indulge in my fantasies...When i leave my home i tend to leave my panties, thongs and bras behind so that i can exhibit my self...I love being cocktease and also love being able to indulge in as many gangbangs as i can and want...

 

[VancouverGuy2]

tried to pm you, luv double

but your box is full, ( just as I expect you like it to be):>)

 

[jaF0]

Look up the various masquerade/erotica ball events. Travel to a distant city where no one knows your name. Strip down and have a blast.

 

[Olderthanthat]

I suggest avoiding showing your face in any way. One can, indeed, be burned badly!