The biggest problem for Litsters like me, who actively search for an on-line partner, is that it's a pure coincidence, whether someone like us, who might be just the one we are looking for, reads our ad or not. Or whether we happen to see a sign of her somewhere on Lit, which prompts us to react to her.
A possible solution is bumping one's ad; either by self-bumping or by getting help from a friendly soul who reads the ad. This way our wishes + desires become better visible for another day. But there are limits to that. That is why today I am making a new attempt instead. Hoping for another coincidence, which works out better than the previous ones, when I capture the limelight one more time for a short moment:
I am NOT looking for superwoman. In fact what kind of a woman you are exactly is immaterial, as long as you WANT THE SAME out of an on-line relationship as I do.
I am missing sufficient closeness (and intimacy in fact) with a woman, who craves erotica and lust as much as I do.
That is my problem in a nutshell. And the only solution to my problem I can see, is finding a woman who feels like I do, AND who wants to attack our common problem by exchanging intimate mails with one another. It's as simple as that.
That is not a perfect solution – I know that – but under the circumstances that prevail for me, it is the best one I know. And the woman I look for should be convinced of that as well. And be willing to try this solution with me.
My signature post outlines what I hope such a mail exchange will bring both of us. If each of us is prepared to give as much as you and I want to get out. Once again here, in short, I hope for (erotic) excitement, for (interpersonal) empathy, and for (intellectual) intercourse involving erotica, but not stopping there. And – as a result – for an additional overall feeling that eliminates some of the emptiness in that respect, which we felt, before we began sending each other mails.
In case BOTH OF US want all that, preferably ALL of the above, and to a strong degree ideally, I see no reason why our wishes and desires should not materialize. After all, each of us is a special person, so why shouldn't it work out?
A possible solution is bumping one's ad; either by self-bumping or by getting help from a friendly soul who reads the ad. This way our wishes + desires become better visible for another day. But there are limits to that. That is why today I am making a new attempt instead. Hoping for another coincidence, which works out better than the previous ones, when I capture the limelight one more time for a short moment:
I am NOT looking for superwoman. In fact what kind of a woman you are exactly is immaterial, as long as you WANT THE SAME out of an on-line relationship as I do.
I am missing sufficient closeness (and intimacy in fact) with a woman, who craves erotica and lust as much as I do.
That is my problem in a nutshell. And the only solution to my problem I can see, is finding a woman who feels like I do, AND who wants to attack our common problem by exchanging intimate mails with one another. It's as simple as that.
That is not a perfect solution – I know that – but under the circumstances that prevail for me, it is the best one I know. And the woman I look for should be convinced of that as well. And be willing to try this solution with me.
My signature post outlines what I hope such a mail exchange will bring both of us. If each of us is prepared to give as much as you and I want to get out. Once again here, in short, I hope for (erotic) excitement, for (interpersonal) empathy, and for (intellectual) intercourse involving erotica, but not stopping there. And – as a result – for an additional overall feeling that eliminates some of the emptiness in that respect, which we felt, before we began sending each other mails.
In case BOTH OF US want all that, preferably ALL of the above, and to a strong degree ideally, I see no reason why our wishes and desires should not materialize. After all, each of us is a special person, so why shouldn't it work out?
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