Seeking a Female Play Partner

ThatOneBlindGuy

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Greetings all!

First off, to give you some idea of how horrible at this i actually am, I'll tell you that the term "play partner" was suggested by somebody else. Yeah, that's right. This thread is the result of feedback I got on a previous personal I started in which i sort of jumped the gun too early, and unintentionally frightened some folks off. So in this thread, I'm going to try very, very hard to lay everything out as best I can, and then i am going to hope for the best. Thanks in advance for reading, because this is probably gonna get long.

I am a 31-year-old blind guy. Yes, as my user name suggests, that is true. I am seeking to start a fun, yet also sexy friendship with a woman. I value good conversation and laughter, quite highly in fact, but I am definitely going into this looking for some playtime.

I also want to clarify that I'm not looking for anything more than that. I actually do have a fiance, but due to circumstances that are beyond both of our control, she cannot have sex. I am, therefore, allowed to find stimulation here, and I think a good play partner who is OK with that would be absolutely, unbelievably tremendous.

Also, to be perfectly clear, (something I have learned i was not before), I am very much OK with our conversation starting out perfectly tame. In fact, I would appreciate it if good conversation and fun and jokes and silliness were all parts of this friendship, because those things are a large part of who I am. In my head I'm imagining a scenario where we're discussing, like, a book or something, and having a fine time, and then suddenly this imaginary woman is like, "Alright, shut up about your book. I'm freakin horny!" To me, that's both silly and sexy.

Obviously I understand that I need to be flexible. i won't just brush you off if you don't have every single quality I'm looking for, I promise. As I said i like conversation, so really i'm open to giving any potential responders a shot.

A few more additional notes. (I warned you). First, anyone who responds has to be OK with the fact that I won't be online all the time. There may, on occasion, be periods of several days where I am not online at all, and I kinda need that to be OK. My life has been getting increasingly busy over the last year or so. It is another thing I will always apologize for, and I'll even apologize here if that sounds like too harsh a requirement, but there it is.

Also, if/when we do play, it will likely either be done via PM on the boards, or in lit chat if you want a more realtime experience. My chat user name is the same as this one, so should we take that route, I won't be difficult to find. This is because many messaging clients of today are far less accessible for screen reader users like myself. These boards work fine, though, as do private chats on lit chat, so either would work for me. Again, that part can be for later, but I'm trying to get everything out there now.

I think that's everything i wanted to say here. i hope it is, at any rate. I don't know what to expect from this post. I don't know if I'm asking for too much. I generally feel like I am with things like this. For now, though, i shall hope, and i shall wait. Thank you once again for reading. You're officially awesome just for getting all the way to the end. Yay!
 
Bumping this post with a still-hopeful attitude, attempting to keep that hope alive. Also, here's the thing...
I did get a response, but I think I singlehandedly screwed it up. Well, I'd like to think it was the web site's fault and not mine, but I probably should have checked. So someone did respond, and i sent back a greatful reply... About 8 times. Why? Because I got database errors everytime I attempted to send the message, so I foolishly assumed it did not go through. It had, all 8 times. I sent an apology for that, but haven't heard anything since, so... Grrr. Anyway, seriously, thanks everyone for reading, and thank you to those who consider this crazy blind dude. Haha.
 
Still keeping the hope alive. I got a lovely supportive PM that makes me think I might still have a shot. Thanks all who even look at this. I appreciate it.
 
This might be insensitive, so I apologise about asking it, but how do you read messages and reply to them, being blind?
 
Oh no worries, I don't mind questions like that at all. I use software called a screen reader, which speaks on screen text, and allows me to interact with it using commands. On PC, I use one called Jaws, and on iPhone I use Voiceover, which is built into every iPhone.
This might be insensitive, so I apologise about asking it, but how do you read messages and reply to them, being blind?
 
Oh no worries, I don't mind questions like that at all. I use software called a screen reader, which speaks on screen text, and allows me to interact with it using commands. On PC, I use one called Jaws, and on iPhone I use Voiceover, which is built into every iPhone.

That must get awkward if you accidentally open a pervy PM at work and it gets read aloud. I'm imagining some kind of 90's sitcom situation now.
 
Hey folks! Still no luck, still trying. Um, for what it's worth I have been told my avatar is fitting. Haha. Thanks again all.
 
The requested PM has been sent. Perhaps this shall be the woman I am seeking, and perhaps this thread shall end, but for now, I would like to keep it open in case there is any other interest. I say this because this wonderful woman, (wonderful immediately in my eyes because she responded to my craziness), lives in the UK, which is fine of course, but the time zone difference could present some problems. As I said to her in the PM i sent, though, maybe not. After all, we're on a message board. We shall see. Thank you all.
 
Hey folks,
I want to give this post a tentative bump because, much like the video game character PaRappa the Rapper, I gotta believe! To put this bump in context, the woman who replied to this post most recently is a lovely, kind woman, and we are still chatting. However I believe she was intrigued by me in a more pure friendship sort of way. I'm fine with that of course, indicated by the fact that we're still chatting, but I am also looking for a potential play partner, so I must oh-so-politely ask again via this bump. I thank you all a ton for your support as I continue to seek. Have an awesome day!
 
Hey folks,
I want to give this post a tentative bump because, much like the video game character PaRappa the Rapper, I gotta believe! To put this bump in context, the woman who replied to this post most recently is a lovely, kind woman, and we are still chatting. However I believe she was intrigued by me in a more pure friendship sort of way. I'm fine with that of course, indicated by the fact that we're still chatting, but I am also looking for a potential play partner, so I must oh-so-politely ask again via this bump. I thank you all a ton for your support as I continue to seek. Have an awesome day!

OMG PaRappa! I love that game! I spent so many hours on the final stage where you had to defeat all the different rap songs. I failed so hard!!!
 
It’s a very different game if you’re blind. I’m pretty good at it though. Also... bumpalicious!
OMG PaRappa! I love that game! I spent so many hours on the final stage where you had to defeat all the different rap songs. I failed so hard!!!
 
OK, here I am back again, bumping this post. You might notice that it has been a while. Well, that's because I sort of found what I was looking for. I say sort of, though, because we didn't share the same time zone, so conversations were rare and often short as one of us had to leave after only a small while. They were great, don't get me wrong, but it made things a little difficult at times. She's an amazing person who, I believe, has lost some interest in me at this point.

So here I am. I don't feel it is fair to exclude anyone, so I will say that, different time zone or not, we can still talk, and maybe work things out. I'll just add that if you are closer to my time zone, which is eastern standard time to be precise, then there's a possibility it will work out better. Honestly, I appreciate every single response I've ever gotten to this, even if iit's someone saying "You go, bro! Good luck!" Thanks all.
 
Bumping this both because I received another PM of encouragement which is awesome, and because like PaRappa, I gotta believe! Yes, that is a video game reference. Yes, I am a nerd. Thanks all.
 
Hi guys,
I'm bringing this thread back like Dunkaroos, because I am also back! It has been some time, so I'm 33 now, but everything else is the same. Thanks again to anyone who checks this, and me, out!
 
Pelvic thrusting to give this thread a bump! Sorry officer, I was just doing the Timewarp again!
 
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