The Real Chubby Tummies Of Lit

This thread is lovely :kiss:


I can't lie, I detest my body, especially my belly. Having put a bit of weight on recently, through inactivity due to health shit, I resent it all the more. I try to stay away from mirrors, fuck, I'd really rather have a bath in the dark too :eek:
I can't see it as anything other than repulsive, I just can't find it in me to accept myself....but then even when I was lighter, I was still the same.

It's lovely to see such a supportive thread, though.
 
This thread is lovely :kiss:


I can't lie, I detest my body, especially my belly. Having put a bit of weight on recently, through inactivity due to health shit, I resent it all the more. I try to stay away from mirrors, fuck, I'd really rather have a bath in the dark too :eek:
I can't see it as anything other than repulsive, I just can't find it in me to accept myself....but then even when I was lighter, I was still the same.

It's lovely to see such a supportive thread, though.

You are and always have been beautiful!:rose::rose::rose:
 
This thread is lovely :kiss:


I can't lie, I detest my body, especially my belly. Having put a bit of weight on recently, through inactivity due to health shit, I resent it all the more. I try to stay away from mirrors, fuck, I'd really rather have a bath in the dark too :eek:
I can't see it as anything other than repulsive, I just can't find it in me to accept myself....but then even when I was lighter, I was still the same.

It's lovely to see such a supportive thread, though.

Disregard conventional notions of body image as the unrealistic marketing ploy that they are. Instead be comfortable with good health and good friends, people are far more appreciative of a woman's curves and positive outlook then many realize.
 
Disregard conventional notions of body image as the unrealistic marketing ploy that they are. Instead be comfortable with good health and good friends, people are far more appreciative of a woman's curves and positive outlook then many realize.

It's more, for me, about how I compare the reality of myself with what I wish I looked like, than comparing with others, but I appreciate what you're saying :)

You are and always have been beautiful!:rose::rose::rose:

Bless ya :kiss:
 
This thread is lovely :kiss:


I can't lie, I detest my body, especially my belly. Having put a bit of weight on recently, through inactivity due to health shit, I resent it all the more. I try to stay away from mirrors, fuck, I'd really rather have a bath in the dark too :eek:
I can't see it as anything other than repulsive, I just can't find it in me to accept myself....but then even when I was lighter, I was still the same.

It's lovely to see such a supportive thread, though.

flip. Shush. :kiss:

What do your loved ones see when they look at you? Listen to those words. Close your eyes and run your hands over yourself and imagine what a lover might be thinking. Listen to those words. Stop saying 'fat.'. Start saying full, round, lush, ripe, bountiful... whatever seems to fit.

Your body is not wrong, it's not ugly, it's... womanly. :heart:
 
flip. Shush. :kiss:

What do your loved ones see when they look at you? Listen to those words. Close your eyes and run your hands over yourself and imagine what a lover might be thinking. Listen to those words. Stop saying 'fat.'. Start saying full, round, lush, ripe, bountiful... whatever seems to fit.

Your body is not wrong, it's not ugly, it's... womanly. :heart:

Honey your right! Anyone who doesn't see the complete lady is a fool!:rose:
 
flip. Shush. :kiss:

What do your loved ones see when they look at you? Listen to those words. Close your eyes and run your hands over yourself and imagine what a lover might be thinking. Listen to those words. Stop saying 'fat.'. Start saying full, round, lush, ripe, bountiful... whatever seems to fit.

Your body is not wrong, it's not ugly, it's... womanly. :heart:

I like what you just said Honey.
 
This thread is just so Awwwwwwwww! I love it. All of you are gorgeous... and I love seeing women supporting women.

:heart:

Fabulous thread, Wild Honey!
 
This thread is lovely - I stopped posting a while ago, I didn't really feel I belonged amongst the lovely ladies of lit but I have lurked since and it is heartwarming to see the support you gorgeous ladies have for one another, x

As someone else commented, women's bellies aren't supposed to be perfectly flat, what with our reproductive organs and stuff (errrm - yeah.. that's my excuse and it has nothing to do with excessive wine... and cheese... and bread... 🙃/ truth be told, I prefer to keep my belly and enjoy good food, I'm very miserable when I diet and no one is getting good sex when I'm miserable)

http://marcird.com/blog/does_uterus_my_make_me_look_fat

One thing that did come out of my time on lit is that the people that mattered cared more about what's 'real' - they weren't interested in a fantasy version, which took me a little by surprise.

All you gorgeous girls that have shared your belly shots are phenomenal and I take my hat off to each and every one of you, xxx
 
flip. Shush. :kiss:

What do your loved ones see when they look at you? Listen to those words. Close your eyes and run your hands over yourself and imagine what a lover might be thinking. Listen to those words. Stop saying 'fat.'. Start saying full, round, lush, ripe, bountiful... whatever seems to fit.

Your body is not wrong, it's not ugly, it's... womanly. :heart:

:kiss: :kiss:

The funny thing is, I have a man who tells me, all the time, that he cannot get enough of me. I, often, disbelieve him :eek:

Your way is a much kinder way than I allow myself, thank you for reminding me of the need for kindness :rose:
 
I just finished reading every post on this thread, and I have tears in my eyes. I could quote so many of your posts, but then this would be a page long.
I always used to be the "skinny one", the tall slender one. Even after my two kids.
Then came some medical issues, surgeries, and early menopause due to a hysterectomy. Even with HRT, I watched my body change before my eyes, and I didn't like it. Still dont. My skin texture changed, the underlying structure of my skin changed, so areas like my butt, my thighs, and my belly became different than they used to be. No longer did I have a flat belly where I could balance a ruler across it on my pelvic bones and see space under the ruler. My belly rounded and my middle became thicker. And that bumpy cellulite texture that no amount of exercise would get rid of just seemed to spread from my butt, to my thighs to my belly.
Of course I was much more critical of it than anyone else. No one ever rejected me in bed or otherwise because of my body flaws. Luckily my boobs still looked great, and so I always tried to dress to draw attention to them, and draw attention away from my middle.
And I tend to do that here on Lit. I post often on Titty Tuesday, but when my partner posts pictures that show my thick middle, or belly, or the creases in my middle when I sit or bend, I just cringe.
He tells me He loves the whole package, that my perception of my body flaws aren't his perception of flaws, they're just part of me. I need to learn, at age 60, for heavens sake, to just fucking accept that. I mean, I'm not going to turn back time and get that 25 year old body back, and I really don't want to. He loves my whole package, and I need to also.. He puts his hand on my butt and tells me how he loves it. He rubs and kisses my belly without qualification...it's just a part of me. If he can do that so easily, why is it so hard for me to do?
I finally, at least don't tense up when he rests his head on my belly, or gives me a massage and gets to those areas. Now I need to learn to not feel that I have to be so vigilant about cropping the pictures we post, and just letting the belly show.
But, man, it's tough.
This pic has never been viewed publicly. I've edited this post several times, wondering whether to include it or not. Here goes.
 
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tnt, you have absolutly nothing to be worried about. you have a beautiful body. you allso have a wonderful careing husband it sounds like. i have enjoyed all the pictures i have seen of you. you look so beautiful an sexy. i hope to see more pics of you
 
I just finished reading every post on this thread, and I have tears in my eyes. I could quote so many of your posts, but then this would be a page long.
I always used to be the "skinny one", the tall slender one. Even after my two kids.
Then came some medical issues, surgeries, and early menopause due to a hysterectomy. Even with HRT, I watched my body change before my eyes, and I didn't like it. Still dont. My skin texture changed, the underlying structure of my skin changed, so areas like my butt, my thighs, and my belly became different than they used to be. No longer did I have a flat belly where I could balance a ruler across it on my pelvic bones and see space under the ruler. My belly rounded and my middle became thicker. And that bumpy cellulite texture that no amount of exercise would get rid of just seemed to spread from my butt, to my thighs to my belly.
Of course I was much more critical of it than anyone else. No one ever rejected me in bed or otherwise because of my body flaws. Luckily my boobs still looked great, and so I always tried to dress to draw attention to them, and draw attention away from my middle.
And I tend to do that here on Lit. I post often on Titty Tuesday, but when my partner posts pictures that show my thick middle, or belly, or the creases in my middle when I sit or bend, I just cringe.
He tells me He loves the whole package, that my perception of my body flaws aren't his perception of flaws, they're just part of me. I need to learn, at age 60, for heavens sake, to just fucking accept that. I mean, I'm not going to turn back time and get that 25 year old body back, and I really don't want to. He loves my whole package, and I need to also.. He puts his hand on my butt and tells me how he loves it. He rubs and kisses my belly without qualification...it's just a part of me. If he can do that so easily, why is it so hard for me to do?
I finally, at least don't tense up when he rests his head on my belly, or gives me a massage and gets to those areas. Now I need to learn to not feel that I have to be so vigilant about cropping the pictures we post, and just letting the belly show.
But, man, it's tough.
This pic has never been viewed publicly. I've edited this post several times, wondering whether to include it or not. Here goes.
you are looking pretty damn sexy to me!
 
:kiss: :kiss:

The funny thing is, I have a man who tells me, all the time, that he cannot get enough of me. I, often, disbelieve him :eek:

Your way is a much kinder way than I allow myself, thank you for reminding me of the need for kindness :rose:

You look amazing, and that smile in your profile picture, is just wow.
YOU ARE SEXY and SENSUAL.
:kiss::rose::rose::rose::kiss:
 
I just finished reading every post on this thread, and I have tears in my eyes. I could quote so many of your posts, but then this would be a page long.
I always used to be the "skinny one", the tall slender one. Even after my two kids.
Then came some medical issues, surgeries, and early menopause due to a hysterectomy. Even with HRT, I watched my body change before my eyes, and I didn't like it. Still dont. My skin texture changed, the underlying structure of my skin changed, so areas like my butt, my thighs, and my belly became different than they used to be. No longer did I have a flat belly where I could balance a ruler across it on my pelvic bones and see space under the ruler. My belly rounded and my middle became thicker. And that bumpy cellulite texture that no amount of exercise would get rid of just seemed to spread from my butt, to my thighs to my belly.
Of course I was much more critical of it than anyone else. No one ever rejected me in bed or otherwise because of my body flaws. Luckily my boobs still looked great, and so I always tried to dress to draw attention to them, and draw attention away from my middle.
And I tend to do that here on Lit. I post often on Titty Tuesday, but when my partner posts pictures that show my thick middle, or belly, or the creases in my middle when I sit or bend, I just cringe.
He tells me He loves the whole package, that my perception of my body flaws aren't his perception of flaws, they're just part of me. I need to learn, at age 60, for heavens sake, to just fucking accept that. I mean, I'm not going to turn back time and get that 25 year old body back, and I really don't want to. He loves my whole package, and I need to also.. He puts his hand on my butt and tells me how he loves it. He rubs and kisses my belly without qualification...it's just a part of me. If he can do that so easily, why is it so hard for me to do?
I finally, at least don't tense up when he rests his head on my belly, or gives me a massage and gets to those areas. Now I need to learn to not feel that I have to be so vigilant about cropping the pictures we post, and just letting the belly show.
But, man, it's tough.
This pic has never been viewed publicly. I've edited this post several times, wondering whether to include it or not. Here goes.

Oh sweetie, you are sexy, and so love your pictures. And your smile. You are one sexy sensual lady.
:kiss::rose::rose::rose::kiss:
 
I so love this thread, and all of your ladies.
I can't post pictures here, because I m one of those skinny ones.
Always have been sticks and bones, what is not always great either. I finally start to get some curves thanks to meds I m taking to keep my cancer from spreading.
But all you ladies are just sexy, and sensual, and sweet.

As most of you know, I have breast cancer, double mastectomy , chemo, radiation.
I had one of these sessions of how to deal with cancer. And one question came up.
How do you rate your body now.
I told her, I always loved my body, with all its imperfections, and I love my body even more now, scars and all. Its me, the outside is different, but I m still the same, happy, smiling, silly,


Our bodies is a shell, who we are is coming from inside.

So my sweet wonderful ladies, I embrace you all. You are ALL WONDERFUL, SEXY, SENSUAL.

ANOTHER GROUP HUG :D
:kiss::kiss::kiss::rose::rose::rose::heart::kiss::kiss:
 
My wife is a bbw. I've been married to her for 45 years. Each year she's more amazing looking to me than the year before. She'll always be my fantasy girl.

I love all the large ladies, because that is definitely my preference. Personally, I don't care what others think and never have. Since we started including others in our fun 20 or so years ago, I've had the privilege of having sex with other large ladies and loved every minute of it.

Everybody has their preferences, but I feel pity for those who don't love you ladies...oh, well, more for me :D

This is hot. Does your wife have any issues believing she's your fantasy girl? That seems to be a theme. We don't trust the men in our lives who tell us we are sexy (and prove it with their hard on!!) --- we tend to believe the demons in our head (or media or lit pics or...) instead.

:heart: for such an affirming thread
 
I just finished reading every post on this thread, and I have tears in my eyes. I could quote so many of your posts, but then this would be a page long.
I always used to be the "skinny one", the tall slender one. Even after my two kids.
Then came some medical issues, surgeries, and early menopause due to a hysterectomy. Even with HRT, I watched my body change before my eyes, and I didn't like it. Still dont. My skin texture changed, the underlying structure of my skin changed, so areas like my butt, my thighs, and my belly became different than they used to be. No longer did I have a flat belly where I could balance a ruler across it on my pelvic bones and see space under the ruler. My belly rounded and my middle became thicker. And that bumpy cellulite texture that no amount of exercise would get rid of just seemed to spread from my butt, to my thighs to my belly.
Of course I was much more critical of it than anyone else. No one ever rejected me in bed or otherwise because of my body flaws. Luckily my boobs still looked great, and so I always tried to dress to draw attention to them, and draw attention away from my middle.
And I tend to do that here on Lit. I post often on Titty Tuesday, but when my partner posts pictures that show my thick middle, or belly, or the creases in my middle when I sit or bend, I just cringe.
He tells me He loves the whole package, that my perception of my body flaws aren't his perception of flaws, they're just part of me. I need to learn, at age 60, for heavens sake, to just fucking accept that. I mean, I'm not going to turn back time and get that 25 year old body back, and I really don't want to. He loves my whole package, and I need to also.. He puts his hand on my butt and tells me how he loves it. He rubs and kisses my belly without qualification...it's just a part of me. If he can do that so easily, why is it so hard for me to do?
I finally, at least don't tense up when he rests his head on my belly, or gives me a massage and gets to those areas. Now I need to learn to not feel that I have to be so vigilant about cropping the pictures we post, and just letting the belly show.
But, man, it's tough.
This pic has never been viewed publicly. I've edited this post several times, wondering whether to include it or not. Here goes.

You are one incredibly sexy woman with nothing to be ashamed of. I would give you a double take in a crowd without a doubt. Thanks for posting, :rose:
 
What a great thread! So many sexy photos and really theres nothing more attractive than a confident woman. 'Real' photos from 'real' women are so much hotter to me than airbrushed pics of unattainable models.

Everyone has hangups but if you accept it and rock it, it's so sexy.
 
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