Female Driven Sex Club

[MattWright]

So without plugging her business a former classmate of Kate Middleton runs a high end sex club that has a similar name to "slaying Kittens" The club started in London and has now opened in NYC, Miami, and Toronto. It's exclusive and selective. The parties are held in a mansion. Some of the rules.

No single males are allowed unless accompanied by a female.
No male is allowed to talk to a woman that he does not know.
All applicants are pre screened for attractiveness
Everyone wears a mask
There are age restrictions.
Single females are allowed and there is a degree of girl on girl activity.
There is little or no male on male activity.
There are playrooms and males must be accompanied by a female to enter.

I like the idea that women set the rules and conditions and I think that may encourage more women to play. Several reporters from women's mags have written reviews about these clubs.

Has anyone been? what do you think of the concept?

 

[MattWright]

Conceptually not necessary to have attended.

You do not have to actually experienced this club to comment. I am more interested in the concept. I realize that females tend to set the rules in most swinging relationships but not to this degree. The fear that most of my partners have is to feel obligated to play with someone they have no interest in.

 

[L8tnIt]

These places sound quite intriguing; dare I say Awesome!
I have always enjoyed the idea of promoting Female Sexuality without being demeaning, and the idea of such places that deliberately cultivate this thought process seems very progressive indeed!

I would welcome such a place!

 

[mmarfox]

My wife met a woman who was starting a "female driven" sex club. It was called Red Key if I remember correctly. It was a club that only women were allowed membership to, and the women were also pre-screened for attractiveness.

The idea was to have parties where the first half of the part was women only. Men were allowed in after a certain point, but only if they were there with one of the women.

We went to a Halloween party they threw a few years ago. They rented out an entire hallway of a nice hotel, and we got a room there. From about 9pm or so to midnight, it was girls only, so my wife went to it, and I sat at the hotel bar, drinking and looking around trying to guess who else was there for the party. I didn't mind the wait since I knew my wife (at that time girlfriend) was upstairs having fun, and I'd join later.

At midnight, I went upstairs and re-joined her. She told me how they started out slowly getting to know each other, but it soon turned into an orgy, where girls were taking turns being tied up and pleasured by any and everybody in the room. My wife was made to squirt many times by the time I got there.

From there, we drank some more and walked around meeting people. It was fun, but less official than I imagined. We ended the night by having a threesome with one girl. It was fun, and we enjoyed it, but we didn't go back to any more parties, mostly because we got busy and my wife lost contact with the club organizer.

But there you go. Another real life "female driven" sex club

 

[MattWright]

interaction

Apparently the party goes on for quite some time without any sex at all. Just conversation and flirting. And then as one reporter for a major magazine described it. "Everyone is fucking everywhere". The organizer seeds the party with a couple of females who's role is to get things started.

One gal grabbed some guy and pulled him down on her.

Another recruited two men to a threesome and suddenly masks came off and everyone was touching everyone and no one was asking anyone for permission to do anything. The sexual tension was built over several hours.

I do think that was a function of a long preliminary meet and greet situation so by the time the real activity started everyone had bought in. Also the female organizers pre screened the males to the point where attractiveness was not an issue. Additionally everyone paid a substantial sum to get into the party (The men paid more) I recall 60 pounds being the female price in London. Everyone has skin in the game so to speak and I presume they want a return on their investment.

 

[Maggsm]

*screened for age and attractiveness* I'd be afraid of not being allowed in!

 

[elizabeth15]

I think the idea is great. Unfortunately, there are a lot of men who think swinging is an easy entry into a cornucopianof selfish sex and that can really put a damper on things. Having women in charge helps mediate that, and I'd certainly feel more comfortable in an environment like that. I'd happily go to a party and I'd probably have a lot of fun.

 

[ericahope]

I'm not into this type of stuff so excuse my ignorance, but how does one avoid getting STDs from all this sex with complete strangers? Is everyone wearing condoms in these sex clubs?

 

[MattWright]

*screened for age and attractiveness* I'd be afraid of not being allowed in!

That is always a risk but think of it this way. If you did not fit in with this group you might not enjoy yourself anyway. I am not advocating for this particular club but I do think that putting women in charge would make for a much better vibe. Mamma needs to be happy before you are.

 

[MattWright]

I'm not into this type of stuff so excuse my ignorance, but how does one avoid getting STDs from all this sex with complete strangers? Is everyone wearing condoms in these sex clubs?

Per the reporter: comdoms, wipes, mouthwash. gum and other items were supplied in quantity. I also think this is where pre screening comes into play. She did not attest to their actual use. Given the crowd upper middle to upper class participants I think these would be extensively used. Don't forget the women are in charge so she says no condom no penetration that is the law of the land.