Wife Wants to Share Me

[AliasRed]

My wife presented me with an interesting opportunity a few days ago. I was hoping to see if anyone else had a similar experience and any advice.

To start, our sex life has started to decline. Without going into detail, she's had some hormonal issues that have caused her sex drive to drop. When we do have sex (once a week at best) it is short and to the point. It's not just the regular sex that I miss, but all the kinky and exciting things that used to come with it.

My sex drive is still going strong, so she recommended finding me a friend with benefits on the side. We've talked about it a little bit since then, enough for me to know that she is serious, and some potential women that could fill this role, assuming they are interested. I would never have an affair behind my wife's back, but getting her permission (it was her suggestion in the first place) to relieve myself with someone else here-and-there has me really excited for those sensations I have been missing out on for quite a while.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Does she want to watch?

 

[oldnakeddad]

My wife presented me with an interesting opportunity a few days ago. I was hoping to see if anyone else had a similar experience and any advice.

To start, our sex life has started to decline. Without going into detail, she's had some hormonal issues that have caused her sex drive to drop. When we do have sex (once a week at best) it is short and to the point. It's not just the regular sex that I miss, but all the kinky and exciting things that used to come with it.

My sex drive is still going strong, so she recommended finding me a friend with benefits on the side. We've talked about it a little bit since then, enough for me to know that she is serious, and some potential women that could fill this role, assuming they are interested. I would never have an affair behind my wife's back, but getting her permission (it was her suggestion in the first place) to relieve myself with someone else here-and-there has me really excited for those sensations I have been missing out on for quite a while.

Years ago, my wife and I were naked, in bed, and playing with each other when she dropped a bomb-shell on me...she told me her strongest fantasy was to watch me and another man suck each other off, including swallowing, while she laid beside us, naked. I told her I'd do it only if she'd let us both have her entire body then and whenever either of us wanted her. We agreed, had the best sex ever but the fantasy never became reality...it was used many times, though.

 

[JackOffer]

Years ago, my wife and I were naked, in bed, and playing with each other when she dropped a bomb-shell on me...she told me her strongest fantasy was to watch me and another man suck each other off, including swallowing, while she laid beside us, naked. I told her I'd do it only if she'd let us both have her entire body then and whenever either of us wanted her. We agreed, had the best sex ever but the fantasy never became reality...it was used many times, though.

You should have gone ahead and done it. I have had sex with many, many men in front of my wife, and they have had her in front of me.

 

[crashD]

My wife presented me with an interesting opportunity a few days ago. I was hoping to see if anyone else had a similar experience and any advice.

To start, our sex life has started to decline. Without going into detail, she's had some hormonal issues that have caused her sex drive to drop. When we do have sex (once a week at best) it is short and to the point. It's not just the regular sex that I miss, but all the kinky and exciting things that used to come with it.

My sex drive is still going strong, so she recommended finding me a friend with benefits on the side. We've talked about it a little bit since then, enough for me to know that she is serious, and some potential women that could fill this role, assuming they are interested. I would never have an affair behind my wife's back, but getting her permission (it was her suggestion in the first place) to relieve myself with someone else here-and-there has me really excited for those sensations I have been missing out on for quite a while.

you should pray at her feet for the opportunity..

 

[AliasRed]

Does she want to watch?

Possibly. Possibly more.

She has had experiences with women in the past, before we knew each other. If the woman we find is into it, we'll arrange a threesome.

As for just watching me and the other woman, I don't know. We haven't discussed that yet. My goal is not just to get more regular action, but also to hopefully reinspire my wife sexually. I hope that something like the occasional threesome would lead to more good sex between just the two of us as well.

 

[oldnakeddad]

You should have gone ahead and done it. I have had sex with many, many men in front of my wife, and they have had her in front of me.

I was very willing but my wife backed out as she had issues with people seeing her exposed, even some cleavage. She had a great body and was very good looking but she didn't think so. Deep down, she wanted people to see her naked...she had no problem letting truckers see her naked...but was afraid someone she knew might see her. I tried to convince her it would be hot if our friends saw her naked.

 

[EroticRomanticMan]

I think that frequently as people age they lose their sexual libido and would just rather not bother. I think it happens to both men and women. I have often wondered if any of these people suggested that their spouse find someone on the side to take care of this need. It seems like a good idea to me.

 

[BATEMAN_PATRICK]

The Panamanian Petting Zoo: “When one force one’s partner to pick the nuts and corn out of a bowel movement. The partner then presents the nuts and corn to in a cup or a dish. One then tosses the nuts and corn onto the bed where the partner eats them like a goat or other typical petting zoo animal. “ (Can be combined with the Kentucky Klondike Bar.)

 

[mmarfox]

The Panamanian Petting Zoo: “When one force one’s partner to pick the nuts and corn out of a bowel movement. The partner then presents the nuts and corn to in a cup or a dish. One then tosses the nuts and corn onto the bed where the partner eats them like a goat or other typical petting zoo animal. “ (Can be combined with the Kentucky Klondike Bar.)

What the fuck

 

[pplwatching]

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[pplwatching]

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[magicalmoments]

My wife gave me permission see other people because she never enjoyed swapping with other couples. She enjoyed having other blokes either with me in a 3sum or one on one by herself but didn't want to carry on with couples. So she suggested I have friends with benefits and she would carry on with her guys.

Worked well for 10 years until we split.

 

[mmarfox]

Seems like a metaphor.
A thing regarded as representative or symbolic of something else, especially something abstract.

Seems like trolling

 

[Mqoi]

My ex and I had an open marriage with a few stipulations. We mainly went for threesomes with other guys. She liked two guys at once and it kept my bi side happy.

My current wife's sex drive has gone. She's told me that she'd understand if I discreetly found a girlfriend with benefits. But she doesn't want me to be with another guy which is what I'm more interested in these days.

 

[sam_thelion]

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[Lascivity]

There are plenty of options, and only you can make the final call about something like this. Only you can know whether your wife is uncomfortable and trying to placate you, or genuinely cool with you seeking an arrangement elsewhere. Either way, the way forward is through talking to her and exploring the idea some more. It sounds, from the way you write, as though she simply might be refreshingly relaxed about the whole thing, but do bear in mind that she also might just be hiding her true feelings.