Clothed female naked male initiation.

[metrifonate]

It's rather a boring story but it did set the whole ball rolling; exploring certain aspects of the kinkier recesses of my mind.
Since this event I have mostly enjoyed D/s with me as the Dom, especially the converse of this thread CMnf. However, I guess deep don the must be a little switch in me.
The incident occurred at university, I was in my final year a sharing a house with three others, two female and one male. About midterm, two the people who I shared the house with went home and remaining girl had invited a couple of her friends from home over. They arrived on Friday night and, as I was broke I stayed in as the girls did also. They were more than happy for me to join them for a drink and chat and we sat up until one am joking and chatting.
The next day the girls went into town, shopping and I just chilled and caught up with some work. One return they had decided on a BBQ and I was invited. They were a bit giggly and had obviously had a drink at lunchtime. They produced a novelty apron (a woman in bra and lacy knicker) and insisted I cook and wear it.
Eventually, I got the BBQ lit and the girls got the meat and salads. I offered some money but they laughed and whispered in coy way then said I didn't have to pay if I wore the Apron and nothing else. I was a little taken aback but my curiosity was fired and I said yes. I went to the bath room and changed into the apron and went outside to cook, to the delight and amusement of the girls. I cooked the meat and we went into the kitchen where the salads and bread was and started to load our plates. I must say I felt a little awkward but at the same time tingling with excitement. Then, I was asked by one of the girls if I was going to keep my apron on. They all joined in saying I should remove it. I was embarrassed but excited, so not wanting to ruin their fun, I removed the apron and stood naked. The girls were entertained and I felt a tingly excitement from being exposed. We ate and the girls giggles and whispered. I found this very arousing and could feel my penis hardening, I was now standing with erection, embarrassed and not knowing what to do. The girls were looking and laughing. I offered to get dressed but they said it was fine and I stayed naked for about an hour, either erect or with semi. The girls then went outside and as it was cold I get dressed and joined them. I think they had began to sober up as nothing more was said but it was exciting and led me to seek out a few similar experiences later in life.
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[XirixSeven]

That was fun to read about. Yeah, that is a fetish interest thing.
We (wife and I) occasionally go to hot springs where everyone (strangers) are nude. So there are moments of undressing where there is CFNM. But soon everyone is naked. I like it that way, because I enjoy showing off my wife and want to see other women nude. Of course, it's also fun being nude myself and know others are looking at me.

 

[hotwifeandhubby]

That was fun to read about. Yeah, that is a fetish interest thing.
We (wife and I) occasionally go to hot springs where everyone (strangers) are nude. So there are moments of undressing where there is CFNM. But soon everyone is naked. I like it that way, because I enjoy showing off my wife and want to see other women nude. Of course, it's also fun being nude myself and know others are looking at me.

We have been to some natural hot springs in New Mexico and Colorado and loved showing it all off at those locations. We so love the age spread we can sometimes find there, turns us on even more knowing we've got even much younger folks looking at my older body.

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[dragunov0066]

What do you think?

Hi,

What do you think when men who are in the nude places were aroused and erected due to watch your wife nude body? Have you ever seen that kind of men in the nude ppl places?

 

[XirixSeven]

We have been to some natural hot springs in New Mexico and Colorado and loved showing it all off at those locations. We so love the age spread we can sometimes find there, turns us on even more knowing we've got even much younger folks looking at my older body.Hot Wife

We have a similar interest. I am very turned on by sexual excitement where there is an age spread. Hot springs allows for seeing and being seen by people of many ages and that is to me a turn on.

We are not too far from one another, btw, when it comes to where we hot spring. We go to Tecopa, California, on the edge of Death Valley.

But back to your age thing. This did not involve my wife but a girlfriend before her. We were in Portugal and at a hotel in Sagres, a beach city in the Algarve. There were four rooms and it was owned by the couple who lived there. We were in our early 20s and they in their early 40s. On our last evening there, the four of us had a foursome. It was not our first, and it was more of a swing in that we stayed in our respective re-coupling and did not make a group of it. But me and his wife were only a few feet from him and my girlfriend. I found it very erotic, and the age differences exciting.

 

[XirixSeven]

Hi,

What do you think when men who are in the nude places were aroused and erected due to watch your wife nude body? Have you ever seen that kind of men in the nude ppl places?

I am a candaulist and VERY turned on by other men seeing my wife in the nude.

I have never experienced what you describe. At the nude resort and springs I have gone to, every guy is generally flaccid during the event and none of them is being obvious or sexual in any way. Perhaps others have had different experiences, but mine have never been sexual. That is not to say that couples do not use such places as precursors to hook ups for sexual play afterward and in private. That happens all of the time. But having an erection at a hot springs is more rare than otherwise, from my experience.

 

[hotwifeandhubby]

Hi,

What do you think when men who are in the nude places were aroused and erected due to watch your wife nude body? Have you ever seen that kind of men in the nude ppl places?

I personally love knowing other men get hard from looking at me either nude or partially undressed. It is a hot compliment for me and hubby is always understanding and gets turned on if they make open advances towards me or us.

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[hotwifeandhubby]

I am a candaulist and VERY turned on by other men seeing my wife in the nude.

I have never experienced what you describe. At the nude resort and springs I have gone to, every guy is generally flaccid during the event and none of them is being obvious or sexual in any way. Perhaps others have had different experiences, but mine have never been sexual. That is not to say that couples do not use such places as precursors to hook ups for sexual play afterward and in private. That happens all of the time. But having an erection at a hot springs is more rare than otherwise, from my experience.

Thank you for sharing that word, "candaulist". We are much the same way, and had someone introduce us to the phrase but then couldn't remember it. "Cuckold" or cuckolding never quite fit us as the male always seems so submissive and that isn't the case with hubby. He loves showing and sharing me with others or knowing that I've shared myself willingly when he wasn't around.

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[XirixSeven]

Thank you for sharing that word, "candaulist". We are much the same way, and had someone introduce us to the phrase but then couldn't remember it. "Cuckold" or cuckolding never quite fit us as the male always seems so submissive and that isn't the case with hubby. He loves showing and sharing me with others or knowing that I've shared myself willingly when he wasn't around.

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Yes, cuckold has nothing to do with this whatsoever. Often, there is a dual edged sword with this, in that candaulists like myself, not only want to put their girlfriend or wife on display, but also want to see other women as well. So candaulism meets exhibitionism meets voyeurism.

When I was younger, this caused me to a bit wrongful, showing my girlfriend off to a friend of mine and my brother, without her permission, and their doing the same with their girlfriends for our visual pleasure. But that matured into where I am now, in the realm of consensual candaulism.

 

[hotwifeandhubby]

Yes, cuckold has nothing to do with this whatsoever. Often, there is a dual edged sword with this, in that candaulists like myself, not only want to put their girlfriend or wife on display, but also want to see other women as well. So candaulism meets exhibitionism meets voyeurism.

When I was younger, this caused me to a bit wrongful, showing my girlfriend off to a friend of mine and my brother, without her permission, and their doing the same with their girlfriends for our visual pleasure. But that matured into where I am now, in the realm of consensual candaulism.

We totally understand and agree, our mutual pleasure and one that keeps our sex life thriving. You are only the second individual we've run across who uses or knows anything about the term or its pleasures.

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[XirixSeven]

You are only the second individual we've run across who uses or knows anything about the term or its pleasures.

I learned this very early and realized I was unusual. Now I understand it is an actual fetish, but at the time I did not know that. At the time I didn’t know it was a “thing” that other guys had.

I was 17 when I first discovered this, and not in a positive way. My high school girlfriend was very modest, and when we had for each of us our first "second base experience", I was 17 and in 11th grade and she was 16 and in 10th grade, and I eventually asked her whether I was the first guy to see her (fantastic Playboy) tits. She said I was, but then checked her comment and said a few months earlier she had to lower her gown before a doctor, not her regular one who was a woman, but a young guy because she went in without an appointment, on a chest cold related problem, and she was extremely embarrassed. And strangely, at that moment, I realized that what had happened to her turned me on. And that I was also turned on by her being embarrassed over it happening to her. This was of course all new to me, and at 17 years old, I had no idea of candaulism, or a man being turned on by the fetish of Embarrassed Nude Female of his own girlfriend or wife – I didn’t know about any of this. Of course I also understood medical situations were not per se sexual ones, so I didn't necessarily think it the same way as some creep tearing off her top and checking our her naked tits. Still, in my own fantasies and while spanking it, I imagined this doctor I never met, going home and spanking it to seeing my girlfriend nude.

I believe I may have been unusually strange about this. I WANTED my best friend and my brother to see my girlfriend nude, and fortunately they were turned on by our "trading" checking out one another's girlfriends in a voyeurist way. But I never asked either of them whether they were turned on by showing off their own girlfriends/wives, or mere did this as part of a "trade".

Because I presume every other guy is like me, I always believed that when my wife undresses at the hot springs, the other men are watching her surreptitiously just as I am theirs. I wonder if they have the same sexual thoughts of her as I am of their wives? I'll never know. Writing with you I get the idea that you and your husband are like me, in that you enjoy this combination of children at play in nature, with sexual excitement of the body.

 

[hotwifeandhubby]

I learned this very early and realized I was unusual. Now I understand it is an actual fetish, but at the time I did not know that. At the time I didn’t know it was a “thing” that other guys had.

I was 17 when I first discovered this, and not in a positive way. My high school girlfriend was very modest, and when we had for each of us our first "second base experience", I was 17 and in 11th grade and she was 16 and in 10th grade, and I eventually asked her whether I was the first guy to see her (fantastic Playboy) tits. She said I was, but then checked her comment and said a few months earlier she had to lower her gown before a doctor, not her regular one who was a woman, but a young guy because she went in without an appointment, on a chest cold related problem, and she was extremely embarrassed. And strangely, at that moment, I realized that what had happened to her turned me on. And that I was also turned on by her being embarrassed over it happening to her. This was of course all new to me, and at 17 years old, I had no idea of candaulism, or a man being turned on by the fetish of Embarrassed Nude Female of his own girlfriend or wife – I didn’t know about any of this. Of course I also understood medical situations were not per se sexual ones, so I didn't necessarily think it the same way as some creep tearing off her top and checking our her naked tits. Still, in my own fantasies and while spanking it, I imagined this doctor I never met, going home and spanking it to seeing my girlfriend nude.

I believe I may have been unusually strange about this. I WANTED my best friend and my brother to see my girlfriend nude, and fortunately they were turned on by our "trading" checking out one another's girlfriends in a voyeurist way. But I never asked either of them whether they were turned on by showing off their own girlfriends/wives, or mere did this as part of a "trade".

Because I presume every other guy is like me, I always believed that when my wife undresses at the hot springs, the other men are watching her surreptitiously just as I am theirs. I wonder if they have the same sexual thoughts of her as I am of their wives? I'll never know. Writing with you I get the idea that you and your husband are like me, in that you enjoy this combination of children at play in nature, with sexual excitement of the body.

Yes indeed so very true. More in a pm to you

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[dragunov0066]

Nice explanation about candualism and what a candualist man think about. I wonder what do females/wifes think about candualims like their husbands?

 

[XirixSeven]

Nice explanation about candualism and what a candualist man think about. I wonder what do females/wifes think about candualims like their husbands?

The problem about that is the signals you're sending out.

If you're a guy, and your best friend walks in and you let him sneak a look at your girlfriend in the shower, he gives you a thumbs up and gets out of there and does not presume you are inviting him to show up later for a threesome.

If a girl shows off her man in similar fashion, would she be surprised if he and the girlfriend end up in bed together with an affair?

Generally, it doesn't work. You have to find unusual men and women, Bohemian types, who are okay with sex shared with others and having no consequence.

 

[hotwifeandhubby]

The problem about that is the signals you're sending out.

If you're a guy, and your best friend walks in and you let him sneak a look at your girlfriend in the shower, he gives you a thumbs up and gets out of there and does not presume you are inviting him to show up later for a threesome.

If a girl shows off her man in similar fashion, would she be surprised if he and the girlfriend end up in bed together with an affair?

Generally, it doesn't work. You have to find unusual men and women, Bohemian types, who are okay with sex shared with others and having no consequence.

Yes indeed and it is a fun lifestyle for those who can be so open about it in a sexual way.

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[growin_n_showin]

I had this happen to me once. What initiated it was walkin down a hotel hallway in my towel and having two ladies "dare" me to drop it. I don't think they thought I would, or at least I don't think they were expecting the view they got. Luckily they loved it.