Attraction to married men.

LostBabygirl3489

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I guess I shouldn't feel bad but I do. I find myself coveting married men only. I have no idea why this is. Maybe it's because they tend to be more sweet, kind, respectful than single men in my experience. And I love that they are nurturing since they are fathers and have to show their gentle side, which is extremely attractive to me. All the men I seem to attract are married, too, or taken. I fantasize about stroking them and lightly kissing their neck, making sure to not leave any marks. Whisper in his ear how I love to touch him and smell him...how I want to gag on his cock and gently suck his balls...feel his hips thrust against my loving mouth...hear him moan and feel his fingers thread through my wavy hair as he spurts his warm, sweet seed down my hungry throat. I guess I could go out there and find so many willing married men...but my conscience won't let me. But I will continue admiring...and fantasizing.

Mm.
 
I guess I shouldn't feel bad but I do. I find myself coveting married men only. I have no idea why this is. Maybe it's because they tend to be more sweet, kind, respectful than single men in my experience. And I love that they are nurturing since they are fathers and have to show their gentle side, which is extremely attractive to me. All the men I seem to attract are married, too, or taken. I fantasize about stroking them and lightly kissing their neck, making sure to not leave any marks. Whisper in his ear how I love to touch him and smell him...how I want to gag on his cock and gently suck his balls...feel his hips thrust against my loving mouth...hear him moan and feel his fingers thread through my wavy hair as he spurts his warm, sweet seed down my hungry throat. I guess I could go out there and find so many willing married men...but my conscience won't let me. But I will continue admiring...and fantasizing.

Mm.

Well it does require a lot to be a father and husband so I suppose there might be something "proven" in our actions who knows. Or maybe the forbidden fruits is the sweetest. And maybe it's it's affirming knowing a married man also wants you even though he's married. Like winning in a behind the scenes battle with another woman?
 
I guess I shouldn't feel bad but I do. I find myself coveting married men only. I have no idea why this is. Maybe it's because they tend to be more sweet, kind, respectful than single men in my experience. And I love that they are nurturing since they are fathers and have to show their gentle side, which is extremely attractive to me. All the men I seem to attract are married, too, or taken. I fantasize about stroking them and lightly kissing their neck, making sure to not leave any marks. Whisper in his ear how I love to touch him and smell him...how I want to gag on his cock and gently suck his balls...feel his hips thrust against my loving mouth...hear him moan and feel his fingers thread through my wavy hair as he spurts his warm, sweet seed down my hungry throat. I guess I could go out there and find so many willing married men...but my conscience won't let me. But I will continue admiring...and fantasizing.

Mm.

Would it ease your conscience if the man had his wife's permission to play or would that take away from the excitement?
 
I like married and single men. The main advantage with the married ones is that when i let them do something their wife won't (anal, throat pounding) they get so excited to be able to experience something they thought they wouldn't. That's very rewarding. The main advantage with single men is availability.

Yeah I think that's a huge attraction for us married men. I have a running list of things I want to try but won't be able to with my wife.
 
I like married and single men. The main advantage with the married ones is that when i let them do something their wife won't (anal, throat pounding) they get so excited to be able to experience something they thought they wouldn't. That's very rewarding. The main advantage with single men is availability.
I think excitement sounds better than availability for sure.
 
As a married guy who tends to flirt and live in the world of fantasy. It is so erotic and amazing when you find a sexual and physical connection with a beautiful girl. There is something the so erotic about the dance of discreet flirting and fun. When I was single I often found myself attracted to married women and in a few cases being that sneaky little secret their husbands didn't know about. Now that I'm married I tend to find myself attracted to the girls who find it erotic and arousing two be my little dirty Secret.
 
And isn't that just a bit sad? Supposedly, real intimacy exists inside marriage. But instead it's like the two persons are walled and shut up against each other. They "can't" free themselves to be themselves with each other. But you hook up with a single woman who loves sex and you do all kinds of wild things. And married women do the same during affairs. Things they'd never do with husbands they do with their lovers.

It can be a bit sad however if you think of sex as one aspect of the relationship that part might not be as deep or fulfilled but other areas hopefully are. For some of us sex is a larger piece of that pie of who we are or a focus in our lives. So it can be sad that that piece of the Pie isn't deep but that doesn't mean the rest is shallow if that makes sense.
 
And isn't that just a bit sad? Supposedly, real intimacy exists inside marriage. But instead it's like the two persons are walled and shut up against each other. They "can't" free themselves to be themselves with each other. But you hook up with a single woman who loves sex and you do all kinds of wild things. And married women do the same during affairs. Things they'd never do with husbands they do with their lovers.
Regular life can ruin sex bills, kids, stress all of those things are in play with your spouse. Affairs are independent of all of those things.
 
I like married and single men. The main advantage with the married ones is that when i let them do something their wife won't (anal, throat pounding) they get so excited to be able to experience something they thought they wouldn't. That's very rewarding. The main advantage with single men is availability.

That's very true...the excitement turns me on as well...
 
I find myself very attracted to married women too...I sense a lot of them are bicurious and that turns me on...
 
In my experience I have been with both married women who have permission from their husbands as well women who are sneaking husbands backs. There is a different level of excitement to each scenario. With the husbands permission there is a sense knowing that you are doing something but not only turns her on but also him . Well behind his back there tends to be an eroticism in the fact that you were getting away with something and then me he may have no idea what you have recently done to his wife. Both are amazing but not the same
 
In my experience I have been with both married women who have permission from their husbands as well women who are sneaking husbands backs. There is a different level of excitement to each scenario. With the husbands permission there is a sense knowing that you are doing something but not only turns her on but also him . Well behind his back there tends to be an eroticism in the fact that you were getting away with something and then me he may have no idea what you have recently done to his wife. Both are amazing but not the same

That is very true...well said.
 
Hehe I'd love to pleasure her. I've only been with two women and I'm trying to change that....

I'm sure she'd welcome you eagerly,she's never had sex with another woman but just about everything else,she really wants too though and I'm supportive of that
 
Delicious opening post, LostBabyGirl!

I confess that I do enjoy the recognition I sense in others, men and women, that my wife adores me and has a zest and glow about her that hints at deep sexual satisfaction. When women flirt with me there is often an element of 'I could do with some of that' going on I think. I hadn't thought about the nurturing thing you said. I find it very rewarding that my adult children really enjoy my company and want their friends to meet me, but I'd never considered that this could be an 'attraction' about me.
 
I guess I shouldn't feel bad but I do. I find myself coveting married men only. I have no idea why this is. Maybe it's because they tend to be more sweet, kind, respectful than single men in my experience. And I love that they are nurturing since they are fathers and have to show their gentle side, which is extremely attractive to me. All the men I seem to attract are married, too, or taken. I fantasize about stroking them and lightly kissing their neck, making sure to not leave any marks. Whisper in his ear how I love to touch him and smell him...how I want to gag on his cock and gently suck his balls...feel his hips thrust against my loving mouth...hear him moan and feel his fingers thread through my wavy hair as he spurts his warm, sweet seed down my hungry throat. I guess I could go out there and find so many willing married men...but my conscience won't let me. But I will continue admiring...and fantasizing.

Mm.

As a Wife, It makes me HOT thinking about my hubby with you..... I long to taste your pussy when he gets home after a night of fucking you
 
Delicious opening post, LostBabyGirl!

I confess that I do enjoy the recognition I sense in others, men and women, that my wife adores me and has a zest and glow about her that hints at deep sexual satisfaction. When women flirt with me there is often an element of 'I could do with some of that' going on I think. I hadn't thought about the nurturing thing you said. I find it very rewarding that my adult children really enjoy my company and want their friends to meet me, but I'd never considered that this could be an 'attraction' about me.

Mhm I think it's a big factor as to why I am attracted to them. Also would explain why I lean toward daddy doms since they tend to be more nurturing and gentle and aren't afraid of affection. :heart:
 
So I'm going to a cupcake festival across the river...I think I'm going to wear my pair of denim short shorts with a tank top and my pretty black flowery kimono like shawl with a black push up bra and matching black thong. I'll try to take some pics before I leave. I'm sure there's going to be lots of married men there but I'll be good and keep to myself... ;)
 
Mhm I think it's a big factor as to why I am attracted to them. Also would explain why I lean toward daddy doms since they tend to be more nurturing and gentle and aren't afraid of affection. :heart:
And some of them can, er, ... last. For as long as you want them to and then more so. :cool:
 
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