Relationship killers....a light hearted thread

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[ImSinister]

I like yours and I think mine is just a broader expression of the same idea. I can't be with someone who lacks CURIOSITY. It crushes my soul when people aren't interested in the stuff in this amazing world of ours. That "stuff" can be different for different folks - places, people, food, things, ideas, etc. but I have to have a partner in discovery.

 

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[ImSinister]

Now you have maybe made me think I could have my sensuality redirected....if really worth it. Feeling fickle today

I don't know about all of this but I do know that sexy little dimple of yours would not be a relationship killer for me

 

[Hard_Rom]

Responsibility and commitment are relationship killers for me.

 

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[ImSinister]

Thank you, but I don't flirt

I respect that - think of it as less of a flirt and more of an appreciation.

 

[Paul_Chance]

Jazz.

I have no problems with the genre itself, but there is a terrible pretentiousness in way too many jazz fans that I've met.

How the hell do you have sex to music that doesn't have a consistent beat? "Excuse me baby, I'm going to take this solo now...".

 

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[yossi]

Impatience. I have anxiety and impatience in a partner makes it worse; has me shut down unintentionally.

 

[Lorilei]

If they're rude to waitstaff, cashiers, etc., that's a dealbreaker for me.

 

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[deehere]

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You can tell a lot about someone by how they interact with people around them. But also only s fool treats people poorly. Waitstaff will often steer you away from specials that aren't so special if you have treated them like the people they are or get recipes from Chef if you love something Taxi drivers often know great andbout of the way places to eat. How people treat people from whom they cannot get great tips like these from tells you how they see people and being a person, I want to be seen well, not for what my use is. I like nice men .

My Gramma told me to watch how a man treated his mother and sisters because that is exactly how he will treat you. Observe how he treats those he meets who can do absolutely nothing for him.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Litterers. I don't care if you're messy at home, because I get that way myself. But seeing people throw trash on the ground...ugh, I wanna slap them.

No passions = we're not getting along. You need to be crazy about something that benefits you wholly. I want to appreciate that and have you show me something I didn't know about before or teach me something I might enjoy alongside you.

Talking during movies or tv shows. Even at home. Now, I understand if you need something going in the background as ambient noise because our modern age has sort of wired our brains into needing that, but don't fucking get mad at me for not paying attention to you or having a conversation when we're watching shows. I am very much a visual person who likes immersing myself fully into other people's creative pursuits, distractions are a no-no. I don't even like doing live Tweeting during fan-based shows and I definitely get doing that.

If you don't like Prince or progressive techno we might have an issue.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny

I've only had one relationship with one wife in my life. So far it hasn't killed my relationship with her. In fact we still have relations together. Now that's what we call light hearted.

 

[Radiohead]

Oral sex.

 

[thør]

So, does any one else have any seemingly silly relationship deal
Breakers?

Back rubs.

 

[BabblingBrooke]

I need my guy to be a total geek about something, doesn't have to be the same as me, but something.

Plus, and it's totally shallow, but I'm a tall girl and I don't know that I could be with a guy shorter than me.

 

[Miles Long]

She never told me she was a mime.

 

[Tigersman]

I can't stand a person who constantly has to be fashionably late. I'll drop a girl before I will tolerate it. I also can't stand the clingy type.

 

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[Radiohead]

Giving and/ or receiving?

Oh both.

Terrible, just terrible.

 

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