How to spot and avoid Fake Subs

[MeekMe]

This seems pretty important, so let's get the list started! How do you spot a fake submissive and what are some tips for avoiding them?

 

[Blue]

Check for vital signs. Plastic dolls are physically and emotionally hollow, so you shouldn't be able to feel a heartbeat.

 

[MeekMe]

Check for air valves. Also, if the sub comes with a pump or special cleaning solutions be very, very careful. It's a trap!

For serious y'all:

- avoid the ones that don't want to take responsibility for themselves

- avoid the ones that have a full list of everything they'd like you to do for/to them but don't actually offer anything in return

Tips: they only come around to complain about all the bad doms they've met and there are no "real" doms anymore. If you see this, RUN! Run fast and far because this wrecking ball is just one bad descision away from fucking up your life too.

 

[Blue]

I think compulsively lazy and demanding people should probably be avoided in general when searching for partners.

 

[Naughty69M2M]

Check for air valves. Also, if the sub comes with a pump or special cleaning solutions be very, very careful. It's a trap!

For serious y'all:

- avoid the ones that don't want to take responsibility for themselves

- avoid the ones that have a full list of everything they'd like you to do for/to them but don't actually offer anything in return

Tips: they only come around to complain about all the bad doms they've met and there are no "real" doms anymore. If you see this, RUN! Run fast and far because this wrecking ball is just one bad descision away from fucking up your life too.

Good tips, for Doms and for Subs to remember.

 

[MeekMe]

Beware of the submissive that tries to force their kinks on you and won't take no for an answer. Being dominant doesn't mean you have to automatically be into all the things.

 

[Farawyn]

It's the bread.
Real subs are made in a nice Italian loaf- crunchy on the outside with a bit of chewy give, but ultimately soft inside, not overly yeasty.

I don't think I'm a "sub" but I am submissive.

Once a person here questioned me after I guess I made a particularly strong, bold or not subby post. He said,"wait, I thought you were submissive!"
And my reply was "not to you I'm not."

I recently had this conversation with a bunch of women here...
Real subs can be called a slut, but never a Bad Girl!

All of this is tongue and cheek. I have no idea. It's all individual.

 

[Azuldrgon]

-sub tries to call all the shots of how she will be treated: There is a power transfer in these kind of situations, but it's not the sub being bossy. A true sub is willing to explore, has defined hard no's and allows the Dom to dom.

-sub tries to force the Dom to go outside their comfort zone: Dom's have limits too.

 

[_Necrosomantic_]

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YES

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NO

 

[Azuldrgon]

I did a long post in a similar thread, so I'll keep my update short and sweet.

I don't like labels. A person can have submissive qualities without being submissive. If a person wants to be a sub, it is the same as if a person wants to be a dom. Build a relationship first and explore together. It's not an instant thing. It takes time.

 

[Miles Long]

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[Farawyn]

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Shhh...
Don't tell everyone!

 

[RuneBlade]

Shhh...
Don't tell everyone!

Haha. In my head, I read the girl on the left in the voice of Cheryl from Archer.

 

[Azuldrgon]

That was cute.