In Search of Online Dominant Male (not necessarily a dom)

[bangbangbaby91]

Hello internet,

Just your average 25 year old female from the northeastern US here.

Okay, so recently I have been spending my time on lit looking at people's personal ads. I find it interesting to see what people are looking for as I contemplate what I am looking for. I want an online relationship, that could maybe blossom into more, with a strong mind who enjoys the company of a smart, playful young woman with a love for dirty gifs and true crime podcasts.

I am looking for a man that wants warmth, trust, praise, unabashed quirkiness, unwavering loyalty, unlimited kindness, and insatiable amount of kissing. But I also want a man who isn't afraid to treat me sternly; earn and exercise complete control over my orgasms, and call me a good girl knowing full well what that does to me.

I need someone who wants to talk about the news, tv, their favorite podcasts, or their favorite sex positions. My best friend who also happens to be my lover. I'm looking for someone to be an equal in life but a dominant in bed. Someone who is willing to teach, guide, and explore my inner slut by opening himself up and sharing his own deep desires.

I'm seeking for someone who understands that I have a mind of my own. That I can be headstrong and defiant, but only when I feel that both our needs are not being met. I want someone that I can release control to in a way that is respectful and fitting. In a way where I don't have to be willful or defiant, because I am understood and accepted.

I'm looking to share my thoughts, emotions, and deep desires and find them echoed in the mind of another.

 

[jumphigh5]

PM Sent

 

[cliteatingman]

Not sure I am the guy but very interesting ad.

Hello internet,

Just your average 25 year old female from the northeastern US here.

Okay, so recently I have been spending my time on lit looking at people's personal ads. I find it interesting to see what people are looking for as I contemplate what I am looking for. I want an online relationship, that could maybe blossom into more, with a strong mind who enjoys the company of a smart, playful young woman with a love for dirty gifs and true crime podcasts.

I am looking for a man that wants warmth, trust, praise, unabashed quirkiness, unwavering loyalty, unlimited kindness, and insatiable amount of kissing. But I also want a man who isn't afraid to treat me sternly; earn and exercise complete control over my orgasms, and call me a good girl knowing full well what that does to me.

I need someone who wants to talk about the news, tv, their favorite podcasts, or their favorite sex positions. My best friend who also happens to be my lover. I'm looking for someone to be an equal in life but a dominant in bed. Someone who is willing to teach, guide, and explore my inner slut by opening himself up and sharing his own deep desires.

I'm seeking for someone who understands that I have a mind of my own. That I can be headstrong and defiant, but only when I feel that both our needs are not being met. I want someone that I can release control to in a way that is respectful and fitting. In a way where I don't have to be willful or defiant, because I am understood and accepted.

I'm looking to share my thoughts, emotions, and deep desires and find them echoed in the mind of another.


Edit: Please don't message me if you have trust issues. This is about building trust, I don't want to start building something just to have you doubt me. It is hurtful and uncalled for.

 

[donjuan15]

Not sure I am the guy but very interesting ad.

I'm a Literotica newbie and stumbled across your post. Would love to have you as my online pen friend. I'm from India, or as people might call it, the land of Aishwarya Rai and Slumdog Millionaire. I have a passing interest in many things, including politics, sports, movies, and of course, erotica.

I'm something of a loner myself. I enjoy a good cup of coffee, watch TV shows, and enjoy riding my bicycle. I'm about half way through my first story on this site. Maybe you can review it when I'm done?

 

[Daddy4Daughter6]

Hello internet,

Just your average 25 year old female from the northeastern US here.

Okay, so recently I have been spending my time on lit looking at people's personal ads. I find it interesting to see what people are looking for as I contemplate what I am looking for. I want an online relationship, that could maybe blossom into more, with a strong mind who enjoys the company of a smart, playful young woman with a love for dirty gifs and true crime podcasts.


I am looking for a man that wants warmth, trust, praise, unabashed quirkiness, unwavering loyalty, unlimited kindness, and insatiable amount of kissing. But I also want a man who isn't afraid to treat me sternly; earn and exercise complete control over my orgasms, and call me a good girl knowing full well what that does to me.

I need someone who wants to talk about the news, tv, their favorite podcasts, or their favorite sex positions. My best friend who also happens to be my lover. I'm looking for someone to be an equal in life but a dominant in bed. Someone who is willing to teach, guide, and explore my inner slut by opening himself up and sharing his own deep desires.

I'm seeking for someone who understands that I have a mind of my own. That I can be headstrong and defiant, but only when I feel that both our needs are not being met. I want someone that I can release control to in a way that is respectful and fitting. In a way where I don't have to be willful or defiant, because I am understood and accepted.

I'm looking to share my thoughts, emotions, and deep desires and find them echoed in the mind of another.


Edit: Please don't message me if you have trust issues. This is about building trust, I don't want to start building something just to have you doubt me. It is hurtful and uncalled for.

You sound delightful.

 

[bangbangbaby91]

Thanks guys! Glad to see I caught some eyes. A little skeptical that I'll find anything real, but its nice to see that there are actual people out there looking for similar things.

 

[bangbangbaby91]

Not sure I am the guy but very interesting ad.

thank you, why don't you think you're the guy?

 

[ljgaytan]

looking..

I see you have found a few friends by now. let me know if you would like to add another that will gladly guide you andvteach you the things you should know and consider.

 

[bangbangbaby91]

Advice is always welcome, thank you

 

[MacGuffinn]

Good luck! Take your time. Have fun during that time, too.

 

[KimGordon67]

I like your description of a 'dominant male (not necessarily a dom)' - that's fairly close to what I like in a guy too, along with all the other things you describe. It'll probably be a longish search, and you'll get a fair few 'hi babe, how r u?' PMs, but stick with it - these unicorns do exist. I had an excellent year-long online thing with someone who almost exactly fits that description.

 

[bangbangbaby91]

I like your description of a 'dominant male (not necessarily a dom)' - that's fairly close to what I like in a guy too, along with all the other things you describe. It'll probably be a longish search, and you'll get a fair few 'hi babe, how r u?' PMs, but stick with it - these unicorns do exist. I had an excellent year-long online thing with someone who almost exactly fits that description.

Thanks! A lot of guys don't seem to get what I mean by that but I'm glad you do.

Want to pass that fella along? Lol, just kidding! I wouldn't touch him, girl code.

I can't wait to find my unicorn. I have high hopes, you never know what you're going to find.

 

[KimGordon67]

Thanks! A lot of guys don't seem to get what I mean by that but I'm glad you do.

Want to pass that fella along? Lol, just kidding! I wouldn't touch him, girl code.

I can't wait to find my unicorn. I have high hopes, you never know what you're going to find.

Ha ha - I totally would (because he really is lovely, and good women deserve lovely guys), but after we'd finished, he stopped coming on here. Obviously I ruined him for other women.

 

[bangbangbaby91]

Still Searching.

 

[mercurial sky]

Wishing you good luck on your search

 

[strong_daddy]

From reading your ad it sounds like you are looking for a gentle Dom, someone in control but not necessarily controlling. While my interest does vary a good bit (see my latest thread), I do enjoy many of the qualities you described in those I communicate and/or play with. Feel free to dig through some of my threads and post and let me know if you think we might click.

 

[cliteatingman]

thank you, why don't you think you're the guy?

Sorry it took me a while to respond. You seem to want an amount of exclusivity I probably can't offer.

 

[EdgeofDarkness46]

I love your post! I was just lurking in the shadows reading the personals and felt that I should log in and let you know how much your post spoke to me in regards to what I would like from a man. You've expressed yourself so well and I'm really impressed and a teeny bit envious. Hope you've found what you are seeking.

 

[Viper_Red_2000]

You'll get there

You sound like a lot of fun so I wish you the best

 

[Sir Victor]

Well written ad, do you have an age range? You might want to consider an older gent to learn from even if your main interest is a younger man.
It would help if you added a bit more to your bio especially since you have so few posts here.

 

[DaveMack]

Searching

Hi did post you a pm on 13th in reply to yours to me. Dave

 

[bangbangbaby91]

Well written ad, do you have an age range? You might want to consider an older gent to learn from even if your main interest is a younger man.
It would help if you added a bit more to your bio especially since you have so few posts here.

I am fairly open in the age department. I am definitely attracted to men who have an older, more in control air to them - one who I can learn from. Thanks.

 

[Gentledom45]

Good luck to you

 

[bangbangbaby91]

Good luck to you

Thank you.

 

[benjamin66]

did you find someone?

so, did you?