25F Sub for Dom to help explore and correct bad habits

[Skittles27]

Hello there!

Spoiler; I'm overweight

About me

I'm a 25 year old college grad. I work 60ish hours a week between 2 jobs. I'm a submissive, but don't have an awful lot of experience in the lifestyle. I'm introverted, don't have many people I call friends, and tend to stay at home in my free time. I'm not very talkative and have always been more of a listener. I do however, have a loud voice, I'm often told I'm silly or goofy, and I love to laugh.

What I'm looking for

A Dom between the ages 22-28. I'm looking for someone who will work with me on controlling my terrible eating and exercise habits, so I can lose weight and feel better about myself. That being said I'm looking for someone who is fit/active, wants a long term (1 year or more) relationship, and is, preferably, in my area or close-ish to me (the Central Texas region, but closer to Dallas than Austin). I'm fine with online as well if we click and I feel that I can submit to you.

Interests

* Reading
* Coloring (it's relaxing)
* Music of all genres
* Video games (although I suck at playing)
* Browsing the Internet for things to learn
* Watching YouTube
* Knitting
* Sleep

Kinks

* Domination and discipline
* Bondage/gag/collar
* Edging/teasing/orgasm control
* Oral
* Anal
* Toys
* Begging
* Exhibitionism (only if my partner is physically there as well)
* Cock worship
* Choking/ breath play
* Light pain/biting/spanking

Hard limits

* Non consent
* Humiliation/degradation
* Age play
* Incest
* Fluids other than cum
* Fisting
* Pregnancy/impregnating
* Heavy pain/beating

There are some things I'm willing to try, but that will be on a case-by-case basis with a lot of discussion beforehand. If you've read through this and are interested please message me and we can go from there!

Thanks
~Skittles~

P.S. replies where I am called anything other than the name I've provided will be ignored/deleted.

 

[strong_daddy]

A few red flags here

What post history? Asking people to look through your post history when you have 1 post seem a little peculiar.
Discipline without pain, humiliation, and degradation? So someone should make you feel bad and sorry for what you did how exactly? Call you nice names?
A 22-28 year old Dom with enough experience to help you work out your obvious depression and axiety issues? Yeah, have fun explaining how much they fucked you up to a counselor / therapist / psychologist / psychiatrist one day.

 

[Primalex]

Discipline without pain, humiliation, and degradation? So someone should make you feel bad and sorry for what you did how exactly? Call you nice names?

Hopefully you don't and won't have ever kids.

Yeah, have fun explaining how much they fucked you up to a counselor / therapist / psychologist / psychiatrist one day.

Because being a supportive and encouraging person is known to cause mental issues in the people around that person.

We really need a facepalm smiley on Lit.

 

[strong_daddy]

Hopefully you don't and won't have ever kids.

Disciplining children and disciplining adult submissives is quite different. I would think someone as obviously knowledgeable as yourself would know and understand that.

Because being a supportive and encouraging person is known to cause mental issues in the people around that person.

Reading comprehension must be a skill you need to work on.

Learning to live with depression and anxiety is best done with a professional. A supportive and encouraging person is helpful, but relying on them solely can do more harm than good.

 

[jmanrules]

If i lived closer i would pm you

 

[Primalex]

Disciplining children and disciplining adult submissives is quite different.

Says who?

Oh, you. Pffft.

Reading comprehension must be a skill you need to work on.

Learning to live with depression and anxiety is best done with a professional.

If this improved reading comprehension skill results in me making up issues like depression and anxiety, I rather keep the current skill I have.