Hetro male buying my first strap on

[kdb]

Ok... I like when my wife plays with my prostate and I am trying to convince her to try anal sex. I have to encourage her to finger my ass and she thinks anal is taboo.

So my thought it to buy a strap on, introduce it to her and let her fuck my ass showing her I am not asking her to do anything that I won't let her do to me.


My question is as a wife/lover would you find this hot or a turn off? Advice welcome

 

[thongpanty]

My wife will peg me when i ask her, she gets nothing sexual out of it.
When i bought the strapon i made sure the dildo was about the same size as my cock.

 

[kdb]

My wife will peg me when i ask her, she gets nothing sexual out of it.
When i bought the strapon i made sure the dildo was about the same size as my cock.

Thanks for the response. Was she shocked by it at first?

 

[blowit]

My wife has a strapon. In fact she now has a feeldoe which I bought for the same purpose as the op. However she isn't interested in pegging me. She has worn it and 'made' me suck 'her cock' but doesn't like the idea of doing me anally.
Good luck.

 

[love_269_girl]

It sounds like you are looking to pressure her into letting you take her anally. I personally would not respond well to this type of strategy. If you are looking to explore your own pleasure from anal play I would not recommend a strap-on as your first toy. I would suggest you start with a prostrate massager.

 

[kdb]

My wife will peg me when i ask her, she gets nothing sexual out of it.
When i bought the strapon i made sure the dildo was about the same size as my cock.

It sounds like you are looking to pressure her into letting you take her anally. I personally would not respond well to this type of strategy. If you are looking to explore your own pleasure from anal play I would not recommend a strap-on as your first toy. I would suggest you start with a prostrate massager.

Thanks for your input. I appreciate the advice. It is a tight rope walk

 

[slojenniferfizz]

I've pegged a few lovers. The first to ask for it was a long time ago, and yep--it was pretty surprising. It took a few more times after the request (and a THOROUGH shower before hand) before I'd finger his hole. The hornier I was, the more OK it seemed, though. The first strap-on we used was pretty clunky and awkward and although I took some pleasure in doing what he enjoyed, it was tedious. Love feeldoes, though!

If your sweetie doesn't want anal, please don't push it. And don't introduce the strapon with a quid-pro-quo argument. Just admit you want it, count yourself lucky she'll accomodate you, and let it go at that!

 

[kdb]

I've pegged a few lovers. The first to ask for it was a long time ago, and yep--it was pretty surprising. It took a few more times after the request (and a THOROUGH shower before hand) before I'd finger his hole. The hornier I was, the more OK it seemed, though. The first strap-on we used was pretty clunky and awkward and although I took some pleasure in doing what he enjoyed, it was tedious. Love feeldoes, though!

If your sweetie doesn't want anal, please don't push it. And don't introduce the strapon with a quid-pro-quo argument. Just admit you want it, count yourself lucky she'll accomodate you, and let it go at that!

Good points thanks.

 

[slojenniferfizz]

I've pegged a few lovers. The first to ask for it was a long time ago, and yep--it was pretty surprising. It took a few more times after the request (and a THOROUGH shower before hand) before I'd finger his hole. The hornier I was, the more OK it seemed, though. The first strap-on we used was pretty clunky and awkward and although I took some pleasure in doing what he enjoyed, it was tedious. Love feeldoes, though!

If your sweetie doesn't want anal, please don't push it. And don't introduce the strapon with a quid-pro-quo argument. Just admit you want it, count yourself lucky she'll accomodate you, and let it go at that!

Oh, and thank her profusely and creatively for indulging you with something she doesn't particularly enjoy.

 

[kdb]

I've pegged a few lovers. The first to ask for it was a long time ago, and yep--it was pretty surprising. It took a few more times after the request (and a THOROUGH shower before hand) before I'd finger his hole. The hornier I was, the more OK it seemed, though. The first strap-on we used was pretty clunky and awkward and although I took some pleasure in doing what he enjoyed, it was tedious. Love feeldoes, though!

If your sweetie doesn't want anal, please don't push it. And don't introduce the strapon with a quid-pro-quo argument. Just admit you want it, count yourself lucky she'll accomodate you, and let it go at that!

Oh, and thank her profusely and creatively for indulging you with something she doesn't particularly enjoy.

I always do

 

[HisGreedySlut]

Have you tried showing her videos of prostate massage or pegging, so that she can see how enjoyable it is for a man and how hard he cums?

Perhaps if she sees other women enjoying doing it and being unashamed it will help reduce the stigma for her?

If you've asked and she's not inclined to accommodate you by participating, I would by a dildo/feeldoe/strap on and use it on yourself in front of her. If she cares at all about your sexual fulfillment, I would hope she can be persuaded to be a part of it instead of just ignoring your desires.

Good luck.

ETA: I guess I didn't answer your question. I'd be turned on by it, but I'm kind of obsessed with anal, so I don't think I represent the average woman.

 

[Valendon]

Oh, and thank her profusely and creatively for indulging you with something she doesn't particularly enjoy.

Good advice, Jenny Fizzy!
(And I think maybe I see why you like my stories!!)

Val

 

[Happy4yourclam]

Good points thanks.

Very sweet and...great advice! Listen to her....

 

[FGB]

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[Hardnippled]

Ok... I like when my wife plays with my prostate and I am trying to convince her to try anal sex. I have to encourage her to finger my ass and she thinks anal is taboo.

So my thought it to buy a strap on, introduce it to her and let her fuck my ass showing her I am not asking her to do anything that I won't let her do to me.


My question is as a wife/lover would you find this hot or a turn off? Advice welcome

My gf pegs me when ever I ask it even when I don't ask lol. She does have an orgasm from doing that to me.