Looking for a female submissive

[DomBen]

Hello,

I’m an older Dom with 20 years of BDSM and D/s experience. I’m looking for an adventurous, female sub for an online relationship with the possibility of progressing to real life if things work out.

Age and experience is not important to me. What is important is a desire and willingness to please. I’m also looking for a sub who is open to trying new things and exploring her limits.

Control is an important aspect of a D/s relationship. I will control a sub through specific, one-time, tasks as well as on-going rules and rituals. These tasks may be fun for the sub, or they may be painful and/or humiliating. I expect that the sub who answers will be able to take her pleasure from knowing she has done a good job and pleased me, and not necessarily from the task itself.

I understand that limits important and I will take the time to learn my subs limits. The perfect sub would be one who wants to push her limits somewhat and explore how far she can go to please her Dom.

If you’re a female submissive and this sounds interesting to you, message me and let’s talk further so I can give you more details of what I’m looking for.

DomBen

 

[DomBen]

Bump

Bumping

 

[theSubmissiveonegirl]

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[KinkyBoyUK]

Don't really know how to use this website so assist.

Click on the thread starter's name and a drop down menu will appears, then click to send a private message and send this to them.

 

[theSubmissiveonegirl]

Click on the thread starter's name and a drop down menu will appears, then click to send a private message and send this to them.

Thank you.

 

[aysha77]

a sub, but

Dear DomBen,
I am a born submissive woman, and been taken to bed few times. I feel a tremendous desire to be controlled the way I read about in erotic literature. is it real or a myth? I will be much obliged for your guidance about the matter. aysha

 

[dead_niinja]

Dear DomBen,
I am a born submissive woman, and been taken to bed few times. I feel a tremendous desire to be controlled the way I read about in erotic literature. is it real or a myth? I will be much obliged for your guidance about the matter. aysha

Aysha needs to turn on her private message so dominant men can chat to aysha.

 

[DomBen]

Don't really know how to use this website so assist.

You have a PM.

 

[DomBen]

Dear DomBen,
I am a born submissive woman, and been taken to bed few times. I feel a tremendous desire to be controlled the way I read about in erotic literature. is it real or a myth? I will be much obliged for your guidance about the matter. aysha

Hello aysha77. I'd love to offer you some guidance, but as has already been pointed out, you need to turn on PM's so others can message you.

 

[DomBen]

I've had a few reply's but nothing serious has developed. Still looking.

 

[firefighterscott]

 

[slavemelanie]

Good morning Ben,

I felt compelled to reply to your post in hopes that maybe W/we have compatible desires. I am a 40 year old married mother of two children that has been exploring and trying to understand her slave heart online for the past 2 years. To be honest I am not very experienced or knowledable about this as it sounds You are. If You are willing to take the time and have patience with someone inexperienced that I would be open to discussing your needs and the possiblites of a online relationship.
with hope and respect,
melanie

 

[DomBen]

Good morning Ben,

I felt compelled to reply to your post in hopes that maybe W/we have compatible desires. I am a 40 year old married mother of two children that has been exploring and trying to understand her slave heart online for the past 2 years. To be honest I am not very experienced or knowledable about this as it sounds You are. If You are willing to take the time and have patience with someone inexperienced that I would be open to discussing your needs and the possiblites of a online relationship.
with hope and respect,
melanie

PM sent.