The Straight Guys that Fantasize about Cock Club! Part 2

[ScottMtl]

Straight myself, but def turned on by good looking cocks. Like seeing them during group sex!

Agreed!

same here

 

[SexyLitForAll]

Straight myself, but def turned on by good looking cocks. Like seeing them during group sex!

I'm sure that I am not the only man here who is turned on by your avatar!

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

Hi all. I definitely belong in this club! I am a married, straight man, 50 years old. I am extremely attracted to women, but I also love the idea of a sexy cock. I don't want to date men, or kiss them, or be partners or be in love. I just want to find an enormous cock that I can suck and then be fucked by!

I am also a cross dresser, an activity which is extremely connected to erotic feelings for me. When I am dressed up, I always fantasize about making it with a man - Being ogled and revered, flirted with and groped, then laid down for a good hard fucking!

When I was very young, out of the blue came one of the most erotic fantasies possible. It was the idea of being underneath a woman getting fucked doggie style, and seeing that cock and balls going in and out. This has stayed with me always.

Obviously part of these fantasies has always been playing with the cock, taking it when it spurts. Also tongue tickling the woman's clit and feeling her orgasm.

So cocks have always been part of what turned me on.

 

[susurrus]

Been reading Literotica for a while, only noticed there were forums recently (this thread was noted in a comment on a story.) Took me several days to read through this full thread but saw myself here fairly early. 70, married 40+ years to a fairly inhibited wife who is not willing to share me (at least with another woman.) Recently told her I thought sucking a cock would be hot and she was non-committal. The closest I ever got was with a college room mate but we only ever shared back rubs in a dorm (although we always locked the door.)

I can trace my interest at least 25 years to my mid-40s, starting as an interest in eating a freshly fucked (by some one else) pussy to sucking another guy in an MMF to finding a suck buddy. It may never go beyond fantasy but I think I could go through to completion if the opportunity arose. Eating my cum after jacking isn't a problem (if I'm fairly quick) but the blues strike after screwing and my wife hasn't been willing to encourage me to clean her up. I think I could suck a fairly big cock (practiced on an 8" jelly dong.)

Of course the one I'd most like to suck is mine but when I was flexible in my 20s, the closest I could get was touching the tip of my dick with the tip of my tongue in a hips-over-head position. Now, from that position, I'm about 4-6" from connection, although I can mostly shoot in my mouth (although it's not really a comfortable position to jack any more.)

I think a lot of us can relate to this.

And as far as the self-sucking, I'm like you: when I was younger and far more flexible, I managed to get as far as touching the tip of my tongue to the tip of my cock, but no farther.

 

[susurrus]

Hi
I'm trying to write a lengthy story about a man who ends up sucking a younger guys cock.

What I'm looking for is the inner mind of what makes a guy want to suck cock that I can use in my story. If interested please write your thoughts here and give me permission to use it or email my author email... as I recreate this literotica forum (but I don't want to use anything on here without permission)... although I am going to use the opening forum summary and the title of the forum.

Thanks in advance and I am hoping to have it ready for release in late January or early February.

Jasmine

Thanks in advance for anyone interested in sharing their thoughts and stories...

ie:
1. Do you feel guilt if u are married after sucking cock?
2. What made u want to suck cock?
3. What did it feel like the first time u were on ur knees, had a cock in ur mouth, swallowed cum, took a facial?
4. What would u do if u could choose sucking cock or fucking ur wife/girlfriend?
5. Other?

Don't know if it's too late to throw in my two cents, but I don't know how many others, besides my buddy Briggs, have given you any input.

I think, if you've been a part of these threads for a while, you know that I'm in Brigg's boat as far as actual experience with bi sex, in that it's purely fantasy for me. I've purposely avoided reading Briggs' response, so this is my take on matters, rather than a deliberate re-hash of what he's had to say.

I went for many years uncomfortable with the concept of men having sex together. I wasn't a full-out, rabid homophobe, but whenever homosexuality came up, I was uneasy about the conversation, regardless who was having it. Somewhere along the line, I came across a "letter" in Penthouse where a young guy is recruited by his girlfriend to be a lover for her own family, her brother included. It went on to describe a scene with the girl's mother, and wrapped up with the guy's first male/male experience.

Now, I loved all the sex with the women, but for some reason, that scene between the two men was new and interesting. I found myself coming back to that story and re-reading it, particularly the homosexual scene.

I can't rightly say anymore whether that was where the ice was broken regarding my reticence with males having sex together (I've always been okay with lesbian scenes), but I'm sure it at least put a chip in it. This was in the days of video rental, and I eventually found myself renting bi tapes (not exclusively).

When the internet came along, it opened up whole new outlets for this new interest. It's a fairly strange situation for many of us "bi and bi curious" men, in that we're interested in the cock, balls, and maybe ass of the guy, but don't really give a damn about the guy attached to it. With women, we're generally good with the whole package. It's bizarre, and so many can't make the distinction. As long-time members of this thread and threads like it can attest, there are often trolls who pop their heads in long enough to say you can't have it both ways, and that, essentially, men can't be bisexual, that they're either straight or gay. It's an unfair dichotomy, that these same homophobics are just fine with the concept of female bisexuality, but if you're male, you have to be one or the other.

I have no desire to love a man. Romantically, I mean. I find no great desire to connect with a man as I do women. This means that kissing, cuddling, things like that, don't really do a lot for me where men are concerned. I don't really find men all that attractive as a complete package. In fact, I generally look at women, then at the men they're with, and think, "What the fuck does she see in him?" I've said for years that, if I ever understand the answer to that question, I'll think about turning in my straight/bi curious card for a gay one.

Going further, I think you'll find a lot of the bi curious types out there have a greater bottom tendency than top. My contention on that is that we already know what it feels like to be the one doing the penetrating, and part of the curiosity is to find out what the being penetrated part of the equation is like.

However, that is not to say that most of us want to be women. The web is rife with sissy stuff and crossdressers and all that kind of thing, but the assumption by so many that if you're male and into the notion of sucking cock and being fucked, then you want to be girl, is patently false. I have no desire to wear women's clothing, be addressed in female terms, nor have my body parts described with feminine words. I know there are plenty out there who are into that whole thing, and if that's what does it for them, good for them. However, it doesn't apply to all.

As well, the web would have us believe that men who are interested in changing roles, in the least little bit, want to be humiliated by the fact. Again, couldn't be farther from the truth. Just living each day can be emasculating enough. Often times, the sissy bit is accompanied with humiliation. Again, we aren't all into that.

Or the cuckold thing: Just because a guy would like to try sex with another guy, doesn't mean he wants his wife to fuck this guy and exclude him in the festivities. Sometimes the cuckold thing includes "forced" bisexuality, as well as humiliation, and possibly even feminization. Again, if this is what trips your trigger, good on you. However, it isn't a blanket thing.

I think those of us with female partners would love to have their buy-in to our fantasy, because, although we like the idea of cock, pussy is still our passion. Though many of us might ultimately have some difficulty with seeing our wives or girlfriends fucking another man, the sexual opportunities presented add another level to the festivities. In a situation like this, the line between cuckolding and just friends fucking comes down to the attitudes of the parties involved. I think there are a lot of guys out there who would like to have their women actively participate in their bi explorations, even if it only entails them directing the action.

I'm sure I'm leaving something out, but I think this gives one man's philosophy on bisexuality in today's world.

Getting to your questions:

1: Guilt -
I would think that any man in a relationship of some manner wouldn't feel some degree of guilt, regardless who his partner was, if his regular partner wasn't in on it. Now, the degree of guilt might depend on how strong his relationship is with that regular partner, and another factor that comes into it is his base personality. Someone who is particularly devoted to his spouse, but for whatever reason, decides it necessary to stray, would more than likely feel a great amount of guilt. Even if his regular partner gives permission to cast a wider net, the possibility of guilt is a definite possibility. There are also those who, even given permission, wouldn't be able to bring themselves to indulge.

2: Impetus -
What makes a man want to buck society's homophobia, especially knowing the kind of ridicule and judgment that very likely would dog him should that society find out about it. The idea that many harbor that homosexual tendencies are a choice is utter bullshit, because who would choose something that would subject them to the kind of treatment the closed-minded feel compelled to dish out? Sometimes, it is a desire to give society and its unequal, unreasoning taboos the finger. For some, it's a desire to broaden one's horizons. For others, they just can't help it. For me, it's "I know what this is like, and I love it, but I wonder what it's like to do this, too?"

3: Feelings -
Having never indulged, I can only speculate as to my feelings in certain situations. I would guess that my feelings would rely heavily upon the attitude of the person I was servicing, as well as that of any potential audience I may have. It's where my dislike of humiliation comes in. I like the concept of sex to be fun and exciting, a positive experience, and for some, that humiliation is the thrill. I can't really talk on the thrill they get out of it, because I don't enjoy being belittled.

4: Choice -
I think I can speak for many here when I say, the choice would be pussy. A good many of us have spouses, and we would love our sexual encounters to be primarily with those we've chosen. However, due to whatever reasoning, something a little different once in a while might be fun.

5. Other -
I think some of us would simply like our spouses (this includes girlfriends) to play along, even if we never got the chance to indulge any curiosities we may harbor. How thrilling would it be to have your wife strap on a fake cock and pretend it's actually hers? Or while you're eating her, describe another guy getting up behind you and fucking your ass? However, this implies an acceptance of the additional/alternate role we'd like to express, and let's face it, there are as many women who espouse the binary male fallacy as there are men who do.


I'm sure this all reads like some kind of scientific report, but since I have no personal experiences to relate, I can only give ballpark ideas of things and conclusions I've reached over the years.

 

[docisin]

I was at a New Years swing party; at one point there was this amazing sexy blond with great tits; she was getting fucked doggy style, while sucking off an amazing cock in front of her I stood next to her, dropped my pants and started stroking. I reached down and started feeling her amazing tits. Then (I must admit I was pretty drunk by that time), I got on my back and slid sideways under her and started sucking her tit. I turned my head and that amazing cock was about 5 inches from my face as I kept sucking her tit. She had stopped sucking it for a minute and it was just there in front of me. I thought it was kinda dicey, and I'd be taking a risk to grab it and jerk it, because there was no bi/gay activity going on, and I wasn't really sure if the guy would have been open to it. I just stared at it while I sucked her tit, after a bit, I though, "fuck it, I'll just go for it." but just then, she'd had enough and that particular party scene ended. Damn! Still it was hot as hell in the moment....

 

[dacoach44]

Hell yes

I was at a New Years swing party; at one point there was this amazing sexy blond with great tits; she was getting fucked doggy style, while sucking off an amazing cock in front of her I stood next to her, dropped my pants and started stroking. I reached down and started feeling her amazing tits. Then (I must admit I was pretty drunk by that time), I got on my back and slid sideways under her and started sucking her tit. I turned my head and that amazing cock was about 5 inches from my face as I kept sucking her tit. She had stopped sucking it for a minute and it was just there in front of me. I thought it was kinda dicey, and I'd be taking a risk to grab it and jerk it, because there was no bi/gay activity going on, and I wasn't really sure if the guy would have been open to it. I just stared at it while I sucked her tit, after a bit, I though, "fuck it, I'll just go for it." but just then, she'd had enough and that particular party scene ended. Damn! Still it was hot as hell in the moment....

Just go for it, so erotic!

 

[docisin]

Just go for it, so erotic!

Well, yeah, but you can't just "go for it," in that environment. You have to be really really respectful, and "read" the room. If there was ANY indication of bi activity, it might have been more comfortable; as it was, it was pretty macho;

 

[BattlingSoul]

Title of this thread just boggles my mind...

If a straight guy wanting cock isn't an oxymoron, I don't know what is...

 

[docisin]

Title of this thread just boggles my mind...

If a straight guy wanting cock isn't an oxymoron, I don't know what is...

It's a brave new world, my friend!

 

[silkstockingslover]

Thanks all

The story is written... and in editing and I hope to have it released late Jan or early February ...

It's a lengthy take inspired by this forum....

 

[HomerSimpson123]

The story is written... and in editing and I hope to have it released late Jan or early February ...

It's a lengthy take inspired by this forum....

I'm looking forward to it.

 

[larrycando]

The story is written... and in editing and I hope to have it released late Jan or early February ...

It's a lengthy take inspired by this forum....

Illustrated? Like so many of your great stories? MM porn doesn't do it for me. Now if it was MMF with some bi action, then the illustrated feature would be fantastic.

Having a woman describing how she feels with a big cock in her as a man licks her and sucks him at the same time. All time goodness.

 

[susurrus]

The story is written... and in editing and I hope to have it released late Jan or early February ...

It's a lengthy take inspired by this forum....

I figured my diatribe would be too late, but like the rest, I look forward to reading your story.

 

[amylin456]

The story is written... and in editing and I hope to have it released late Jan or early February ...

It's a lengthy take inspired by this forum....

looking forward to reading............

 

[Mr. Briggs]

Ssremember129 Just wrote a great story
Our Sexual Bucket List. A couple dirty talking their fantasies which include the man sucking cock
https://www.literotica.com/s/our-bucket-list-ch-01

 

[Mr. Briggs]

Don't know if it's too late to throw in my two cents, but I don't know how many others, besides my buddy Briggs, have given you any input.

I think, if you've been a part of these threads for a while, you know that I'm in Brigg's boat as far as actual experience with bi sex, in that it's purely fantasy for me. I've purposely avoided reading Briggs' response, so this is my take on matters, rather than a deliberate re-hash of what he's had to say.

I went for many years uncomfortable with the concept of men having sex together. I wasn't a full-out, rabid homophobe, but whenever homosexuality came up, I was uneasy about the conversation, regardless who was having it. Somewhere along the line, I came across a "letter" in Penthouse where a young guy is recruited by his girlfriend to be a lover for her own family, her brother included. It went on to describe a scene with the girl's mother, and wrapped up with the guy's first male/male experience.

Now, I loved all the sex with the women, but for some reason, that scene between the two men was new and interesting. I found myself coming back to that story and re-reading it, particularly the homosexual scene.

I can't rightly say anymore whether that was where the ice was broken regarding my reticence with males having sex together (I've always been okay with lesbian scenes), but I'm sure it at least put a chip in it. This was in the days of video rental, and I eventually found myself renting bi tapes (not exclusively).

When the internet came along, it opened up whole new outlets for this new interest. It's a fairly strange situation for many of us "bi and bi curious" men, in that we're interested in the cock, balls, and maybe ass of the guy, but don't really give a damn about the guy attached to it. With women, we're generally good with the whole package. It's bizarre, and so many can't make the distinction. As long-time members of this thread and threads like it can attest, there are often trolls who pop their heads in long enough to say you can't have it both ways, and that, essentially, men can't be bisexual, that they're either straight or gay. It's an unfair dichotomy, that these same homophobics are just fine with the concept of female bisexuality, but if you're male, you have to be one or the other.

I have no desire to love a man. Romantically, I mean. I find no great desire to connect with a man as I do women. This means that kissing, cuddling, things like that, don't really do a lot for me where men are concerned. I don't really find men all that attractive as a complete package. In fact, I generally look at women, then at the men they're with, and think, "What the fuck does she see in him?" I've said for years that, if I ever understand the answer to that question, I'll think about turning in my straight/bi curious card for a gay one.

Going further, I think you'll find a lot of the bi curious types out there have a greater bottom tendency than top. My contention on that is that we already know what it feels like to be the one doing the penetrating, and part of the curiosity is to find out what the being penetrated part of the equation is like.

However, that is not to say that most of us want to be women. The web is rife with sissy stuff and crossdressers and all that kind of thing, but the assumption by so many that if you're male and into the notion of sucking cock and being fucked, then you want to be girl, is patently false. I have no desire to wear women's clothing, be addressed in female terms, nor have my body parts described with feminine words. I know there are plenty out there who are into that whole thing, and if that's what does it for them, good for them. However, it doesn't apply to all.

As well, the web would have us believe that men who are interested in changing roles, in the least little bit, want to be humiliated by the fact. Again, couldn't be farther from the truth. Just living each day can be emasculating enough. Often times, the sissy bit is accompanied with humiliation. Again, we aren't all into that.

Or the cuckold thing: Just because a guy would like to try sex with another guy, doesn't mean he wants his wife to fuck this guy and exclude him in the festivities. Sometimes the cuckold thing includes "forced" bisexuality, as well as humiliation, and possibly even feminization. Again, if this is what trips your trigger, good on you. However, it isn't a blanket thing.

I think those of us with female partners would love to have their buy-in to our fantasy, because, although we like the idea of cock, pussy is still our passion. Though many of us might ultimately have some difficulty with seeing our wives or girlfriends fucking another man, the sexual opportunities presented add another level to the festivities. In a situation like this, the line between cuckolding and just friends fucking comes down to the attitudes of the parties involved. I think there are a lot of guys out there who would like to have their women actively participate in their bi explorations, even if it only entails them directing the action.

I'm sure I'm leaving something out, but I think this gives one man's philosophy on bisexuality in today's world.

Getting to your questions:

1: Guilt -
I would think that any man in a relationship of some manner wouldn't feel some degree of guilt, regardless who his partner was, if his regular partner wasn't in on it. Now, the degree of guilt might depend on how strong his relationship is with that regular partner, and another factor that comes into it is his base personality. Someone who is particularly devoted to his spouse, but for whatever reason, decides it necessary to stray, would more than likely feel a great amount of guilt. Even if his regular partner gives permission to cast a wider net, the possibility of guilt is a definite possibility. There are also those who, even given permission, wouldn't be able to bring themselves to indulge.

2: Impetus -
What makes a man want to buck society's homophobia, especially knowing the kind of ridicule and judgment that very likely would dog him should that society find out about it. The idea that many harbor that homosexual tendencies are a choice is utter bullshit, because who would choose something that would subject them to the kind of treatment the closed-minded feel compelled to dish out? Sometimes, it is a desire to give society and its unequal, unreasoning taboos the finger. For some, it's a desire to broaden one's horizons. For others, they just can't help it. For me, it's "I know what this is like, and I love it, but I wonder what it's like to do this, too?"

3: Feelings -
Having never indulged, I can only speculate as to my feelings in certain situations. I would guess that my feelings would rely heavily upon the attitude of the person I was servicing, as well as that of any potential audience I may have. It's where my dislike of humiliation comes in. I like the concept of sex to be fun and exciting, a positive experience, and for some, that humiliation is the thrill. I can't really talk on the thrill they get out of it, because I don't enjoy being belittled.

4: Choice -
I think I can speak for many here when I say, the choice would be pussy. A good many of us have spouses, and we would love our sexual encounters to be primarily with those we've chosen. However, due to whatever reasoning, something a little different once in a while might be fun.

5. Other -
I think some of us would simply like our spouses (this includes girlfriends) to play along, even if we never got the chance to indulge any curiosities we may harbor. How thrilling would it be to have your wife strap on a fake cock and pretend it's actually hers? Or while you're eating her, describe another guy getting up behind you and fucking your ass? However, this implies an acceptance of the additional/alternate role we'd like to express, and let's face it, there are as many women who espouse the binary male fallacy as there are men who do.


I'm sure this all reads like some kind of scientific report, but since I have no personal experiences to relate, I can only give ballpark ideas of things and conclusions I've reached over the years.

Well said buddy We think alike.

 

[Mr. Briggs]

I was at a New Years swing party; at one point there was this amazing sexy blond with great tits; she was getting fucked doggy style, while sucking off an amazing cock in front of her I stood next to her, dropped my pants and started stroking. I reached down and started feeling her amazing tits. Then (I must admit I was pretty drunk by that time), I got on my back and slid sideways under her and started sucking her tit. I turned my head and that amazing cock was about 5 inches from my face as I kept sucking her tit. She had stopped sucking it for a minute and it was just there in front of me. I thought it was kinda dicey, and I'd be taking a risk to grab it and jerk it, because there was no bi/gay activity going on, and I wasn't really sure if the guy would have been open to it. I just stared at it while I sucked her tit, after a bit, I though, "fuck it, I'll just go for it." but just then, she'd had enough and that particular party scene ended. Damn! Still it was hot as hell in the moment....

WOW SO SO CLOSE! Sounds amazing. I bet the picture of his cock is vividly in your head.

 

[docisin]

WOW SO SO CLOSE! Sounds amazing. I bet the picture of his cock is vividly in your head.

Boy, I'll say...enough fantasy material to keep me going for a while! There was also a tranny there, who was trying to be cool, and trying to fit in an not be noticed. But it was clear to me. So I sat down and started to talk to her (mind you, I'm pretty drunk now), after midnight, things were pretty loose...I started rubbing her tits (she was dressed but pretty sexy). She goes "what you got in there?" Pointing to my crotch. I said, "want to see?" So I stoop up, unzipped and pulled my pants down. She grabbed my cock, started stroking and said, "yeah, well, that's nothing compared to what I got." But she said it in a way that meant, "Do you know what you're getting into here?" So I whispered into her ear something like, "Yeah, baby, and I want it." I slid my hand between her legs and started rubbing her crotch. Couldn't really feel much, so I said, "where is it?" She says, "I tuck it behind." So for next hour, I was after her to let me suck it. Eventually it became clear she was fucking with me, and not in a good way. I wasn't being overbearing or obnoxious and she never said no, she just kept teasing me, like saying "Why? Why do you want to suck my cock?" Got annoying. So finally I said, "Look, if I get a condom, will you let me suck your cock?" She says, sure, which it turns out was only to get me to take a hike. I went and got the condom, came back, she was surrounded by three other guys, one of whom she was deepthroating. Even though it was hot, it still pissed me off. So I spent the next hour just sort of checking her out. I saw her suck 3 or more cocks, never letting anyone do anything to her. SO finally, I sidled up to her and said, "Oh, I get it, you'll suck cock all night long, but you'll never let anyone do anything to you, right?" And she was like, "Yep." So, thanks very much, I moved on, thinking, damn! Close but no cigar (no pun). I really thought I was going to do it, and certainly would have!

 

[betabrad]

I keep trying to stop. But even after I think i'm over my desire to suck cock, when I look at porn and see a mans big hard cock, all I can think of is how much I want to suck it and how much I want him to fuck my ass with it.

 

[NathanButler]

Fantasies only - for now...

silkstockingslover is one of my favorites.

I've never followed through on any of my fantasies. I've never sucked a cock before. I have no interest in anal.
I did hint to my brother-in-law when we were drunk and alone once but he suggested a cold shower and no more beers. Awkward...

Many of my own stories are about men sucking cock and swallowing cum.

 

[redoak03]

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[rockoid2]

From Minnesota and would love to chat about this.

 

[Ezeerider]

Nicely thought out and stated, Susurrus. Thank you for the contribution.
There was a similar thread some years back, and I believe Briggs was a cogent contributor to that one also, and I put my own $.02 worth as well, and it is here: http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=47074278#post47074278
It seems to me that all the negatives and repression associated with this subject result from religious dogma inflicted upon us for far too many generations now. As I suggested in the cited posting, the cock has no agenda or preference except its own pleasure, and in fact couldn't care less whom or what gender is sucking it. With that said, could we not then assume that man is by nature bisexual - until subjected to artificial prohibitions or taboos?
Little boys (and girls), when left alone will invariably get around to experimenting with pleasuring each other... until someone comes along to tell them its "dirty" and "wrong," or worse yet, "sick," followed by some form of punishment.
As a result, now, even as reasoning adults, we see so many men who profess their natural curiosity, but also a fear of being caught and suffering some form of consequences. Sadly, morals are governed by factors of time and geography.

 

[Balsam123]

The guy I went down on last year (first time for him cumming in a guys mouth) contacted me last week via text with a pic jerking off stating he wants to blow another big load in my mouth. He also said he wants to "return" the favor...it would be the first cock he's ever had in his mouth and I plan on filling it with ropes of cum!!!

Just timing of hanging out now...I'm thinking he's going to have to take my cock first or might shy off if he cums first.