Question for the ladies of lit...

Unsolicited PMs...how many do you get on average when you log in? What's the number of PMs that you expect to see generated by posts you've made? Not from the personal section or from the amateur pic feedback section. I ask because as a guy on here I can say I've never gotten an unsolicited PM from a female.

When I had a slightly naughty user name - debbiexxx - heaps.

I don't expect to see any pms generated by the posts I've made.

I still get a few unsolicited pms but this is an erotic forum so that is to be expected. :)
 
I've had exactly one unsolicited PM from a lady. The Random Factors aligned that day. I should've played the lottery.
 
If I log on as visible, I can expect two or three howdy's. And usually when I post, a couple of friends will pop in and we'll catch up. But I'm not posting a whole lot these days. I admit that when I do, I enjoy the catch up PM's!

I had a couple of guys that used to send disgusting one liners EVERY TIME I posted. I hate to use ignore but sometimes it's necessary. I think I've been really lucky though, in that the friendships I've made on this erotic chat forum have been delightful, and meaningful, and in general, men here have shown me respect and kindness and the ladies I've met I'm proud to call friends.

Best of the holidays to everyone :):rose:
 
None for a very long time and then a handful or more out of the blue.
 
When I login in as invisible, the only dirty PMs I get are from Glynndah and Biden~Time.

When I login as visible, though, I get invites from cam girls all over the world ("Yossi-cam: all angles, all views just $8.95 a month!" "Behind the scenes with Pookie on her first adult adventure 'Beaver Cleaver'!!")
 
I now cam for $9.95 a month. I'll send you my new flyer.

Got it, thank you.

I'm having trouble with all the new features. I did something wrong and the soundtrack is now Swedish! (I think it's Swedish, anyway).

You also should put a disclaimer that the ceiling cam can cause vertigo the way it constantly rotates. Did you mount that to a ceiling fans or something?
 
I'm willing to put our past squabbles behind us if you are. We can just agree to disagree as to whether "butt sex" is one word or two. It's two, dammit!


If you're having buttsex, the time for formality has passed.



The first unsolicited PM I got here was from a certain Lit legend who asked me to please change my first av because it was creeping her out. Things did get better from there.
 
This Thread should be awarded some kind of prize. I'm pretty sure it's the first general board post in history with "Question for the ladies" in the title that does not involve questions about unladylike activity.
 
I don't get that many anymore. When I first came to Lit I got a shitload, but they've tapered off. I still get the random unsolicited PM, and most of those are okay, and borderline friendly. Of course, I get the periodic PM from the creep of the day, or the dickless loser who thinks my sole purpose on Lit is to entertain his useless ass. Even those are far and few between nowadays.
 
I don't get that many anymore. When I first came to Lit I got a shitload, but they've tapered off. I still get the random unsolicited PM, and most of those are okay, and borderline friendly. Of course, I get the periodic PM from the creep of the day, or the dickless loser who thinks my sole purpose on Lit is to entertain his useless ass. Even those are far and few between nowadays.

I remember you.... How's that "I'm gonna stay drunk until the second week in January!" pledge coming along? ;)
 
I get nada. That's okay though. The ones I used to get were drenched in slobber.
 
I remember you.... How's that "I'm gonna stay drunk until the second week in January!" pledge coming along? ;)

It's expensive, because I hate the cheap shit. But I'll tough it out as sobriety is vastly overrated.
 
But for some ludicrous trolling pm's which I highly suspect were sent by the QueerTag/Hashfag/Sanjeet /Finklestein /Darbhinder /etc. etc./ RobDownSouth & friends xenophobic franchise,
mine were almost entirely appropriate.

In that I received a few pm's from random or regular posters, and I sent out a few too.
Most of them were entirely appropriate and enjoyable, like cracking a joke for the sake of a laugh or making a well intended light observation, and they had no overt or covert sexual undertones or intent.

And from what I read so far, my own experience mirrors that of many other female posters.
Which shows that the horny younsters who are barely over 18 and a half, pretending to be real adults have lately found better avenues for their attempts or pranks.
 
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But for some ludicrous trolling pm's which I highly suspect were sent by the QueerTag/Hashfag/Sanjeet /Finklestein /Darbhinder /etc. etc./ RobDownSouth & friends xenophobic franchise,
mine were almost entirely appropriate.

In that I received a few pm's from random or regular posters, and I sent out a few too.
Most of them were entirely appropriate and enjoyable, like cracking a joke for the sake of a laugh or making a well intended light observation, and they had no overt or covert sexual undertones or intent.

And from what I read so far, my own experience mirrors that of many other female posters.
Which shows that the horny teens pretending to be adults have lately found better avenues for their attempts or pranks.

Reported.
 
Reported.

for what?
I was mainly referring to a mindset. But if you want to take it literally, I was targetting those above the age of 18. (see my edit which made it clear)

If you reallz want to be so anal, why not peruse through the "incest" categories instead of trolling me?
I'm sure you'll find plenty of stories there that slipped through the cracks.
 
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for what?
I was mainly referring to a mindset. But if you want to take it literally, I was targetting those above the age of 18. (see my edit which made it clear)

If you reallz want to be so anal, why not peruse through the "incest" categories instead of trolling me?
I'm sure you'll find plenty of stories there that slipped through the cracks.

For what I've reported you for several times, violating the rules.
 
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