Regular looking people.

I love the theme of this thread! As a B-cup, ordinary-looking gal, I can attest to the social pressure to look 'hot.' I resist conformity by leaving my bush full, and nobody's EVER coming near my pussy with a cosmetic scalpel, but I can't help wishing in a small way that my tits were bigger, my face prettier, my butt rounder--and on and on. Powerful, this culture stuff! Oddly enough, I'm MORE attracted to women who aren't "polished" to adopt the line of others above. In my experience, their vanity, and the effort they put into staying polished, makes them undesirable.

Just speaking for self -- what makes a really great erotic photo of a woman is her facial expression. I love the eyes, the facial expression, a confident smile. And not to forget, her lips....
 
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Beauty, as defined by media and men, is fickle and changes like the wind. The posts are amazing because they are natural. However, some of us grew up knowing that there is a level of acceptance that only comes through conforming to whatever standard is vogue. We are automatically judged by the amount of food we eat and the number of hours that we spend in the gym. It would be interesting to see this same thread showing natural men.

Also speaking for self -- I think there are some limits beyond which a woman's (or a man's) body is pleasing. Obesity is not attractive. In my own search for a partner, I am not looking for a Barbie, and I am no Adonis. But, a person who has 'let themselves go' does not appeal to me.
 
what do you look at on guys???

It's difficult to find pics of "regular guys". I'm afraid to post pics of people who aren't models. Maybe I just need better search terms.

But, for me it's mostly about how a man carries himself - confident without being arrogant. Beyond that and leaving other personality characteristics aside... Build, hair, eyes, hands, smile make up the greatest proportion of variance regarding the look to which I will be attracted.
 
It's difficult to find pics of "regular guys". I'm afraid to post pics of people who aren't models. Maybe I just need better search terms.

But, for me it's mostly about how a man carries himself - confident without being arrogant. Beyond that and leaving other personality characteristics aside... Build, hair, eyes, hands, smile make up the greatest proportion of variance regarding the look to which I will be attracted.

sounds like a job interview, not a grocery line check out gape... ;)
 
Interesting

Nice to see regular people . . . . someone I can relate to
 
This is the first thread that actually made me feel like masturbating. And I agree, we need some 'regular' guys too.
 
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