Is Literotica Addicting?

[DonnaEcup]

Just curious if anyone else enjoys reading the stories, and chatting on Lit more than actually engaging their partner? I'm finding it much more stimulating to play here than with my husband most of the time and I find myself hoping he is away working more so I have more time to spend chatting and reading. Does anyone else feel the same??. Donna

 

[toyota7878]

Omg yes I feel the same way. It is very addictive. Love playing here. wish I had more time also.

 

[Maleboobs]

for me it's clearly highly addictive...because here I find people (men and women), who find my breasts (and all my many GIFs of them) erotic and sexy and tell me so...can't get enough...

 

[DonnaEcup]

Omg yes I feel the same way. It is very addictive. Love playing here. wish I had more time also.

Have you ever turned down your spouse's sexual advances so that you could chat with strangers instead?

 

[toyota7878]

hhhmmm. I don't think so, but Then again I don't get to many anymore. I do think about the fun chatting with strangers more than anything else.

 

[DonnaEcup]

for me it's clearly highly addictive...because here I find people (men and women), who find my breasts (and all my many GIFs of them) erotic and sexy and tell me so...can't get enough...

Wouldn't you rather have a woman's boobs to play with? I've never really wished I had a penis, except to maybe use on the odd jerk I've met. Lol

 

[DonnaEcup]

So here it is Friday night. I am supposed to meet some friends for dinner and drinks and I'm still here chatting with people I don't even know about subjects I would never mention to my friends. Pretty sad right?

 

[John Blackhawk]

Yea it probably is addicting but its safer than other addictions i figure.

 

[Belvino]

Literotica gives you the chance to indulge in your fantasies. I think this is what appeals to many that come here. I know that I enjoy both reading and writing. I can do that here, and also work collaboratively with other great minds.

 

[SophieUK]

Just curious if anyone else enjoys reading the stories, and chatting on Lit more than actually engaging their parented? I'm finding it much more stimulating to play here than with my husband most of the time and I find myself hoping he is away working more so I have more time to spend chatting and reading. Does anyone else feel the same??. Donna

Sounds familiar ...
Comes and goes in waves here ...

 

[Southern_Style]

It must be addictive. I've been on way to much in the few days that I have been a member and hadn't even chatted with anyone yet. I do enjoy a lot of the stories though.

 

[dragonkittybecca]

Yea it probably is addicting but its safer than other addictions i figure.

Yep, I concur. I'm definitely addicted, but it could always be worse.

 

[frmtutanota]

Sounds familiar ...
Comes and goes in waves here ...

Indeed.... very stimulating on so many different levels, I cannot count the ways, at least not right now, oh look, tits squirrel!

 

[DonnaEcup]

It must be addictive. I've been on way to much in the few days that I have been a member and hadn't even chatted with anyone yet. I do enjoy a lot of the stories though.

Indeed.... very stimulating on so many different levels, I cannot count the ways, at least not right now, oh look, tits squirrel!

I ended up having a great time with friends last night and for a few hours I forgot about Lit all together, but then I got home and as soon as I got into bed with a few favourite toys I checked out the chat room. This morning I felt guilty for role playing with a young man who pretended to be my son. The things I said was not what a loving caring mother would even think never mind act on. It's so easy to cross that line on Lit. Not sure thats a good thing.

 

[MaryanneB]

I enjoy the people and the forums here but show me a good dick in person and I'm gone.....

 

[DonnaEcup]

I enjoy the people and the forums here but show me a good dick in person and I'm gone.....

I agree at times but sex with my husband is getting pretty vanilla unless I've been well stimulated on Lit.

 

[tallladiesman]

I agree at times but sex with my husband is getting pretty vanilla unless I've been well stimulated on Lit.

Is your hubby not open to suggestion or are you embarrassed to make the suggestions?

 

[DonnaEcup]

Is your hubby not open to suggestion or are you embarrassed to make the suggestions?

My husband has initiated many awesome sexual encounter and discussion but I think he has finally slowed down and I haven't.

 

[imready2]

My husband has initiated many awesome sexual encounter and discussion but I think he has finally slowed down and I haven't.

Funny how one partner can do that to the other

 

[tallladiesman]

My husband has initiated many awesome sexual encounter and discussion but I think he has finally slowed down and I haven't.

Is this an aging issue? Have you tried the little blue pills?

 

[dacoach44]

Not really sad

So here it is Friday night. I am supposed to meet some friends for dinner and drinks and I'm still here chatting with people I don't even know about subjects I would never mention to my friends. Pretty sad right?

Here is not the risk of your sexual inclinations getting you in trouble. It is a wonderful source of freedom. I think it is reassuring to know that others share your delights and fetishes. There is no way in hell my vanilla friends and kids could accept the fact that I love to date sissy girls. So, Lit is a lovely outlet.

 

[Erlind]

When I was in college I was considerably more active. I had a few partners I wrote with regularly, often rapid fire writing long posts, eagerly awaiting their response so the story could continue. I think I've become a considerably better writer, but I don't have the time any more to do anything meaningful. I've tried recapturing that feeling in chat rooms when I have a night free, but it pales in comparison.

There is nothing like the rush of crafting a story that you know is just as deeply engrossing for the other person as for you. I miss it.

 

[DonnaEcup]

Here is not the risk of your sexual inclinations getting you in trouble. It is a wonderful source of freedom. I think it is reassuring to know that others share your delights and fetishes. There is no way in hell my vanilla friends and kids could accept the fact that I love to date sissy girls. So, Lit is a lovely outlet.

That is so very true when I think about it. The world of fantasy should often stay exactly that a wonderful world of escape from the pressures and judgement of our society. I think especially for women as if we showed our true sexual feeling we would be labelled as "sluts if we put out and " cock teasers" if we choose not to. Here I can be both at the same time if I wish and much more.
Thank you for your insight.

 

[DonnaEcup]

When I was in college I was considerably more active. I had a few partners I wrote with regularly, often rapid fire writing long posts, eagerly awaiting their response so the story could continue. I think I've become a considerably better writer, but I don't have the time any more to do anything meaningful. I've tried recapturing that feeling in chat rooms when I have a night free, but it pales in comparison.

There is nothing like the rush of crafting a story that you know is just as deeply engrossing for the other person as for you. I miss it.

Do you have your stories posted here? I would love to read them.
I have thought many times about sharing some of the true events I've experienced along the way. It would take a lot of time to do a proper job and I suspect much practice to become as fabulous as some of these wonderful writers.

 

[Southern_Style]

I agree at times but sex with my husband is getting pretty vanilla unless I've been well stimulated on Lit.

In my limited experience in chatting, and that was from a few years ago. I think part of it is just being unfamiliar with the person your chatting with that makes it that much more exciting. I guess it reminds more of my younger day's and the never knowing what is next that excited me. That is something that most people don't get with a spouse or long time lover after a while. But that is just my opinion.