Looking for someone to teach me

[fsr_22]

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[MysteryToAll]

The very best of luck in your search

 

[Primalex]

I'm looking for someone intelligent, not older than 35 to chat to about this kinky world and see where it goes. The only other thing is that they have to be taller than me, so 6"1 or over!

Do tall people chat especially well? Seriously, there is no indication in your profile where the fuck you are in the world, but you worry first about matching in size instead of location for the "see where it goes"?

 

[RnResquire]

Good luck

Good luck with your search - it can be an overwhelming topic so take your time. I unfortunately am outside of your age range - but wish you well.

 

[Conager]

Do tall people chat especially well? Seriously, there is no indication in your profile where the fuck you are in the world, but you worry first about matching in size instead of location for the "see where it goes"?

Plus no boob size listed. How will the gentleman know whether she is compatible with them for chat?

 

[DrRickMarshall]

A more complete profile would be helpful

 

[Primalex]

Plus no boob size listed. How will the gentleman know whether she is compatible with them for chat?

Damned good argument.

 

[Aegon_The_Unlikely]

I think I could be a good match for you, except for the fact that I am not 6"1.

 

[Primalex]

I think I could be a good match for you, except for the fact that I am not 6"1.

Hm.

There are three requirements:
intelligent
6'1" or above
< 36 years

Let's skip the first requirement for a second.
You fail the 6'1" requirement.
I assume you pass the third requirement that you are below 36.

So you fail 50% of the last two requirements and assume you are a good match. Now we can go back to the first requirement and conclude that you fail that one, too. This makes it a 33% match.

Don't shoot the messenger.

 

[fsr_22]

Right, I was planning on ignoring these slightly spiteful comments but now I can't help myself. I know when to stand up for myself.
As I mentioned, this is my *first post*! I made the profile the same day as the post, so yes, it is a little incomplete. And frankly, I don't see why I shouldn't make a few 'requirements'. I'm not attracted to people more than around 15/18 years my senior, so shoot me.
I was hoping for slightly kinder feedback to a young student just wanting to find out more about herself.

 

[DaddyMcCool]

Just ignore them young lady, it's your personal, you have the right to ask for anything that makes you feel comfortable talking to someone about something that is only the business of the two of you.
If people don't meet your requirements or for some reason find them unreasonable then they should just leave you be.
It's your choice and yours alone.

 

[Aegon_The_Unlikely]

Hm.

There are three requirements:
intelligent
6'1" or above
< 36 years

Let's skip the first requirement for a second.
You fail the 6'1" requirement.
I assume you pass the third requirement that you are below 36.

So you fail 50% of the last two requirements and assume you are a good match. Now we can go back to the first requirement and conclude that you fail that one, too. This makes it a 33% match.

Don't shoot the messenger.

Well, there's a lot you can infer from a person by the way she expresses her self. From what I gathered, she is the kind of woman I like to guide and teach. Hence, it is a pity, for me, that there is one requirement I fail to comply with. Happy now?

 

[ann21red]

Th choice is yours take no notice, and remember the Slave/slut as all the power You can walk away at any time.

 

[Primalex]

Well, there's a lot you can infer from a person by the way she expresses her self. From what I gathered, she is the kind of woman I like to guide and teach. Hence, it is a pity, for me, that there is one requirement I fail to comply with. Happy now?

Hm.

What we know about her:
18, blonde, tall with blue eyes, shy

What we know about you:
I am an experienced Dom looking for a sub that likes anal insertions for Skype or Hangouts play.

Hm.

Your guidance is not going to include how to fuck her ass on cam?

 

[Aegon_The_Unlikely]

Go fuck yourself.

 

[sot1974]

Hm.

There are three requirements:
intelligent
6'1" or above
< 36 years

Let's skip the first requirement for a second.
You fail the 6'1" requirement.
I assume you pass the third requirement that you are below 36.

So you fail 50% of the last two requirements and assume you are a good match. Now we can go back to the first requirement and conclude that you fail that one, too. This makes it a 33% match.

Don't shoot the messenger.

lmao! Can't argue with math.

 

[Bandicoot007]

Just my 2¢, since I don't meet either of your requirements. If you are just looking to chat and learn more about the Lifestyle. Then age and height shouldn't be an issue. What you should be looking for is someone with experience living this life. As a Dominant male in a D/s relationship, if my girl was new and didn't know anything and went looking for advice, I would tell her to look for someone who knew what they were doing and had no ulterior motives. Ask yourself this, would you rather talk to someone about the Lifestyle who is under 35 and over 6'1 but has no idea or very little experience? Or someone possibly older and shorter but has been living this for years? This Lifestyle is based on trust, first and foremost. With that being said I wish you all the best luck on your journey.

Bandicoot

 

[cookiecat]

It's online. For all you know, I'm a 6'1 30 year old guy. Or an 18 year old tall blonde shy sub.

 

[Bandicoot007]

It's online. For all you know, I'm a 6'1 30 year old guy. Or an 18 year old tall blonde shy sub.

Lol true Cookie. But I try to give people the benefit of the doubt.

Bandicoot

 

[AscendantBD]

Just my 2¢, since I don't meet either of your requirements. If you are just looking to chat and learn more about the Lifestyle. Then age and height shouldn't be an issue. What you should be looking for is someone with experience living this life. As a Dominant male in a D/s relationship, if my girl was new and didn't know anything and went looking for advice, I would tell her to look for someone who knew what they were doing and had no ulterior motives. Ask yourself this, would you rather talk to someone about the Lifestyle who is under 35 and over 6'1 but has no idea or very little experience? Or someone possibly older and shorter but has been living this for years? This Lifestyle is based on trust, first and foremost. With that being said I wish you all the best luck on your journey.

Bandicoot

Excellent advice.

Best of luck in your search, fsr_22.

 

[Bandicoot007]

Excellent advice.

Best of luck in your search, fsr_22.

Thank you Ascendant. Too many times online and in RL have I seen someone with an genuine desire to learn about this lifestyle only to see or hear about how they hooked up with the wrong person based on certain criteria and end up with bad results or worse yet abused. I was lucky when I was starting out and found a couple of older couples to take me under their wings and teach my girl and I. And while there was definitely an attraction to my girl from one of the Doms, he never crossed the line or disrespected me or my girl. I was just lucky I guess. Though the man is an artist with all things whio related lol

Bandicoot

 

[RunningJib]

I'm curious

Why the restrictions?

Why do you find 'older' master / daddy / domme unpalable? After all, 'we' may just have the experience and expertise that you are seeking.

However, I do appreciate your prespective. As I've discovered, young ladies, no matter how articulate, rarely have the maturity and knowledge to be challenging and worth the time

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Why the restrictions?

Why do you find 'older' master / daddy / domme unpalable? After all, 'we' may just have the experience and expertise that you are seeking.

However, I do appreciate your prespective. As I've discovered, young ladies, no matter how articulate, rarely have the maturity and knowledge to be challenging and worth the time

"challenging or worth the time"
A bit dismissive. Are we?

I wish the OP great luck in her quest.
Here, however, is not where she's going to find it.

OP, you should look into real-time play with real people who have real intentions on sticking with you to guide you if you are truly interested.

Online is not a very good medium for subs as the online Doms tend to tire and disappear. Subs require a good deal of attention, so unless you're simply wanting to "play sub" or are satisfied with being the beta toy to his assuredly real life wife or SO, I would not recommend an online thing.

It might work for you, but it might easily not. Online games are difficult to overcome if they just up and go *poof* . The relationship is just as much psychological as physical. That sudden withdrawal from contact is emotionally damaging at best.

I wouldn't want you (or anyone for that matter) to fall prey to someone who gets his thrill out of tearing you down just so he can build you back up again.


P.s. I realize I'm probably giving advice to someone who is neither 18, nor female, but in case she is... There's my take on it..

 

[RacyWilde]

"challenging or worth the time"
A bit dismissive. Are we?

I wish the OP great luck in her quest.
Here, however, is not where she's going to find it.

OP, you should look into real-time play with real people who have real intentions on sticking with you to guide you if you are truly interested.

Online is not a very good medium for subs as the online Doms tend to tire and disappear. Subs require a good deal of attention, so unless you're simply wanting to "play sub" or are satisfied with being the beta toy to his assuredly real life wife or SO, I would not recommend an online thing.

It might work for you, but it might easily not. Online games are difficult to overcome if they just up and go *poof* . The relationship is just as much psychological as physical. That sudden withdrawal from contact is emotionally damaging at best.

I wouldn't want you (or anyone for that matter) to fall prey to someone who gets his thrill out of tearing you down just so he can build you back up again.


P.s. I realize I'm probably giving advice to someone who is neither 18, nor female, but in case she is... There's my take on it..

Very solid advice

You are so right! I know what it feels like to have someone who has become important to have them vanish without explanation. It damn hurts. Because of it, I cannot even bare to think about getting into another D/s relationship, not something that lasts any significant amount of time.

 

[WykdWytch]

Very solid advice

You are so right! I know what it feels like to have someone who has become important to have them vanish without explanation. It damn hurts. Because of it, I cannot even bare to think about getting into another D/s relationship, not something that lasts any significant amount of time.

RA...you give great advice and if I were the OP I would heed it. I only wish I had come across someone like RA a lot sooner. ))

Good Luck To You