Choking during Sex

[spankmegirl23]

Thought on choking during sex.

I have thought about it a lot and it seem Hot but a few days ago I had it done to me
And it was Hot but Not sure what to think about it, Am I wrong to like it?

Please No bashing Thought would be great.

 

[girlyboi85]

You're not wrong to like it (just be careful when you do it!). Since I have a morbid fear of suffocation, I'm not into it (did try it, but it was predictably awful).

 

[spankmegirl23]

You're not wrong to like it (just be careful when you do it!). Since I have a morbid fear of suffocation, I'm not into it (did try it, but it was predictably awful).

I thought of it cause I want him to be in control but doing it a lot and hard I wouldn't like but he did it twice and really not hard

 

[John Blackhawk]

Now admittedly i don't know much about this fetish, but to put my 2 cents in id like to say it always seemed a slightly dangerous fetish. I mean if your Significant other goes too far you could end up dead or with serious brain damage. But maybe a medical professional can weigh in better on this topic than i can.

 

[Bandicoot007]

When done carefully it can be quite fun. I had a sub once who was into breath play. Remember also there more than one way to choke someone other than using your hands

Bandicoot

 

[may_I_please]

I don't like it. It makes me panic and drop out of play

Theoretically I can see why it could work, but it doesn't for me so it's never used

 

[Green_Knight]

Erotic asphyxiation is a highly dangerous practice as this Wikipedia article explains. See the list of famous cases in the article for the names of just a few people for whom it went very wrong. It is very easy for it to go wrong and between 250 and 1000 people die every year in the US from this cause.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_asphyxiation

 

[dz2681]

My wife enjoys some choke play every now and then. She always gets more excited when we do it. I love it when she takes my hands and moves them up letting me know she wants it, very hot.

 

[Username_of_Sean]

A few guidelines for breathplay Tops:

When holding someone's breath, count seconds. When you release, count the same number of seconds before starting again. Reason: It takes just as long for the blood to reoxygenate (gain oxygen) as it does to deoxygenate (lose oxygen).

If you hold someone's breath multiple times in one session, add the numbers together. Do not exceed 300 seconds (5 minutes) total between them. Reason: The brain takes longer to recover from lack of oxygen than the blood does. You don't want to risk killing brain cells.

When someone's breath is held, no matter how into it they are, they will eventually struggle. Do not hold their breath for more than 5 seconds longer once this automatic struggle starts. (I like to use this time to hold just enough longer to round up to the nearest 5 to make my mental math easier.)

Understand what a safe action is and give one to your bottom. (It's like a safeword, but doesn't require speaking. Dropping a bell is a common one, especially as it also results in a "red" immediately if they happen to go unconscious.)

Not all breathplay is choking. You can hold someone's breath by blocking off their face holes as well. An example I tend to find more intimate is the holding of my girl's nose closed while kissing her. Can she jerk away easily & start breathing? Absolutely! That makes it an even safer form of breathplay.

When choking someone, you want to press on their throat, not their arteries. A wider grip will help with that.

When choking someone, use just enough force to stop airflow, no more. If you jam their windpipe really hard, it's possible to damage it. You do want them to breathe again when you let go!

 

[FunWhileItLasted]

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[RawHumor]

Choking and asphyxiation are different, depending upon where you look for definitions. Generally, when a hand is on your throat, squeezing just right (with very little pressure), the blood flow to the brain is cut off. That's choking. This can lead to the euphoric feeling and is quite a bit safer than asphyxiation, which is more literal breath play. Asphyxiation often leads to the panic feelings.
Recovery time from choking is quite a bit quicker than from asphyxiation (though I, admittedly, have avoided asphyxiation play so I have very little experience in that).

 

[Username_of_Sean]

Choking and asphyxiation are different, depending upon where you look for definitions. Generally, when a hand is on your throat, squeezing just right (with very little pressure), the blood flow to the brain is cut off. That's choking. This can lead to the euphoric feeling and is quite a bit safer than asphyxiation, which is more literal breath play. Asphyxiation often leads to the panic feelings.
Recovery time from choking is quite a bit quicker than from asphyxiation (though I, admittedly, have avoided asphyxiation play so I have very little experience in that).

Cutting off blood flow to the brain can kill a person in about 8 seconds... The choking that people do recreationally is a form of erotic asphyxiation & gives the same high as holding the face holes closed does; an oxygen deprivation high.

 

[CaptJTH]

Tried it occasionally. Wasn't for me but I had a former girlfriend who was into it. I was always of the opinion that if you're into it, go for it.

 

[Misshotndeep]

Yes please! There is actually a section in the Asian version of the Karma Sutra where the woman holds her head under water while being fucked. The woman's vaginal walls start to convulse and throb as her body reacts to try to stay alive. Choking is a simulation of the more fatal version. Not to mention all the added blood to that region makes it more sensitive and well.... yummm!

 

[Username_of_Sean]

...the woman holds her head under water while being fucked. The woman's vaginal walls start to convulse and throb as her body reacts to try to stay alive...

That sounds incredibly sexy!

 

[Misshotndeep]

That sounds incredibly sexy!

Never done the head under water bit. But the choking really takes the sex to the next level.

 

[Green_Knight]

Choking and asphyxiation are different, depending upon where you look for definitions...

A court won't be fussed about such distinctions when you're on trial for homicide, manslaughter or whatever it's called in your jurisdiction.

 

[sterculius]

The only experience I've ever had involving breath denial was with my best friend Larry to whom I used to give blowjobs daily. His cock was VERY large and he eventually was able to force it completely down my throat, blocking my airway and making it impossible for me to breathe. At first this would panic me and I'd immediately push him off. But over time I was able to anticipate when he was going to do this and I became accustomed to the erotically thrilling sensation of being able to accept the complete length of his thick cock all the way down into my throat and by using my throat muscles to squeeze and massage the cock embedded in my throat, I was able to make him cum. I would need to pause periodically and expel his cock from my throat to take a breath, then take it down again to continue the process. He would occasionally hold my head preventing me from coming up for air and I would begin to feel light headed but he could recognize the signs and let me up before I passed out. It hasn't happened with anyone else since that time but it was extremely exciting. I would often cum myself while doing it!

 

[live4thebj]

There was this one girl we did it several times. It really induced her orgasms and I was the only person she tried this with. But the last time we did it she wasn't coming to and I had to really slap her. That scared us both even though the orgasms were so intense for her we both agreed it was getting too risky. Wouldn't want to go to jail for killing someone when all we were doing was intensifying the female orgasm.

 

[Arianne6947]

Only choking I like is from a large cock buried deep down my throat

 

[live4thebj]

Only choking I like is from a large cock buried deep down my throat

That made my girl squirt.

 

[coacheric]

Wife and I tried choking a few times. It was more by accident while moving around and she asked me to squeeze a little more. She came like crazy. Tried a few other times but she seemed to dislike it more each time

 

[live4thebj]

Wife and I tried choking a few times. It was more by accident while moving around and she asked me to squeeze a little more. She came like crazy. Tried a few other times but she seemed to dislike it more each time

One-handed or two? I ask for while I was strong enough to do one, seemed like evenly doing two was easier on her and more enjoyable.

 

[dz2681]

Only choking I like is from a large cock buried deep down my throat

Mmmmm, love when my wife does this... Deep throating to where she chokes a little but keeps sucking... Very hot!

 

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Dollie

Only choking I like is from a large cock buried deep down my throat

I disappoint my husband and others. I can't take more than the head or I do choke and get sick. I try to make up for this by taking it deep someplace else.
Everyone can't be Linda Lovelace. I say that because people used to think I was her costar for many reasons.

Anyway please don't choke me.