Checking my wife's interest in a threesome

[tooday]

I've been with my wife for five years,she has always been very open about her sexuality and has casually made it known to me that she's sexually attracted to women which I find very appealing. I've told her before in passing that I've had dreams where I watched her and other women make love in front of me,during sex we also make references to it in the heat of the moment. I feel like I'd want to make the leap into actually bringing it up as a reality or asking what she thought of the idea. Would you folks suggest a good way to go about this notion,anyone's previous experiences are welcome to share as well.

 

[toocurious1974]

I've been with my wife for five years,she has always been very open about her sexuality and has casually made it known to me that she's sexually attracted to women which I find very appealing. I've told her before in passing that I've had dreams where I watched her and other women make love in front of me,during sex we also make references to it in the heat of the moment. I feel like I'd want to make the leap into actually bringing it up as a reality or asking what she thought of the idea. Would you folks suggest a good way to go about this notion,anyone's previous experiences are welcome to share as well.

This is simple. She has already dropped all the hints. All you need to do, next time it comes up in the heat of the moment, is wait until you are both spent. In the afterglow, ask her: "So, were you thinking of anyone in particular, or should we try to pick someone up the next time we go out on the town?"

This simple question will open a real dialogue. Once it had started, there is no need to feel shy about it. She wants this for real, and once she knows you do too, the rest will come naturally.

And from what you have shared already, this conversation is at least five years overdue.

 

[tooday]

This is simple. She has already dropped all the hints. All you need to do, next time it comes up in the heat of the moment, is wait until you are both spent. In the afterglow, ask her: "So, were you thinking of anyone in particular, or should we try to pick someone up the next time we go out on the town?"

This simple question will open a real dialogue. Once it had started, there is no need to feel shy about it. She wants this for real, and once she knows you do too, the rest will come naturally.

And from what you have shared already, this conversation is at least five years overdue.

Thanks for the advice very much,we have a kid so getting out on the town is a bit difficult these days but we can always figure out something with our date nights. She's an open and sexual girl but sometimes it does take the post-love making moments to get out those deeper fantasies. I'm also an artist and I've actually drawn some erotica with her as the subject,she really is what I think about the most when pleasuring myself,of course often times with another woman;a friend or a neighbor. I've shown her a few of these pics and and she really likes them,I'm sometimes apprehensive about showing them but then I bust them out,maybe in a cowardly way I can show her some art depicting what I want and open the communication

 

[tooday]

I've been PMing with a few of you about some thoughts and ideas as well as sharing some more of my fantasies. I really like being able to go back and forth and giving you folks some more insight to this endeavor. PM me if you want to know more or share some good ideas,thanks!