Where are you guys like me?

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Where are the guys like me?

So, I'm straight, let's start there. By that I mean I live a straight life. I'm attracted to women with big breasts and big beautiful round asses and I enjoy sex with women. I don't look at men and ever think about whether they are good looking or not, I just don't. Instead, I think about what his cock might look like, what it might taste like, and what it might feel like up my ass.

Ever since high school I've had these curiosities. I would occasionally act on them with my friends doing some experimental things that consisted of showing off our hard cocks to each other, humping a friends ass crack, and even touching their cocks and helping them jerk off. I always felt guilty afterwards and for years after high school I suppressed the urges.

Now I'm older and in my 30s. About five years ago the urges came back with a fury. All I could think about was sucking a cock or having a guy suck me. I wanted a cock in my hand to jerk until my fingers were sticky with cum. I even started playing with my ass and my fingers made their first trip inside along with my wife's dildo and a variety of different vegetables. I can't even eat a banana without sneaking in a room by myself first and pretending it's a cock.

I tried meeting guys on Craigslist and that was a joke. No sane or normal guys were anywhere to be seen there and I felt dirty just chatting with some of the guys who would reply to my ads. The same guy who would tell me he was inexperienced like me had a ad of his own saying he was taking as many raw loads as he could get... no thanks.

So here I am. Horny as fuck to try some dick and I can't seem to figure out where guys like me are. I know they exist, but where are they? Where is the guy like me who is normal, sane, clean, and straight, but craving a cock in his mouth? I just want to feel the soft skin on a hard dick slide into my mouth. I want to hear a man moan as my lips and tongue explore his cock as I attempt to take all of him down my throat. I want to feel his hands grabbing the back of my head as he nears orgasm. I want to feel his cum shoot into my mouth and I want to taste his load.

Where are the guys like me?
 
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I love to look at woman from head to toe, men its between the navel and knees.
a friend and i would play with each other back in high school.
were out there, just hard to find. FWB would be best, not looking for just someone.
 
So, I'm straight, let's start there. By that I mean I live a straight life. I'm attracted to women with big breasts and big beautiful round asses and I enjoy sex with women. I don't look at men and ever think about whether they are good looking or not, I just don't. Instead, I think about what his cock might look like, what it might taste like, and what it might feel like up my ass.

Ever since high school I've had these curiosities. I would occasionally act on them with my friends doing some experimental things that consisted of showing off our hard cocks to each other, humping a friends ass crack, and even touching their cocks and helping them jerk off. I always felt guilty afterwards and for years after high school I suppressed the urges.

Now I'm older and in my 30s. About five years ago the urges came back with a fury. All I could think about was sucking a cock or having a guy suck me. I wanted a cock in my hand to jerk until my fingers were sticky with cum. I even started playing with my ass and my fingers made their first trip inside along with my wife's dildo and a variety of different vegetables. I can't even eat a banana without sneaking in a room by myself first and pretending it's a cock.

I tried meeting guys on Craigslist and that was a joke. No sane or normal guys were anywhere to be seen there and I felt dirty just chatting with some of the guys who would reply to my ads. The same guy who would tell me he was inexperienced like me had a ad of his own saying he was taking as many raw loads as he could get... no thanks.

So here I am. Horny as fuck to try some dick and I can't seem to figure out where guys like me are. I know they exist, but where are they? Where is the guy like me who is normal, sane, clean, and straight, but craving a cock in his mouth? I just want to feel the soft skin on a hard dick slide into my mouth. I want to hear a man moan as my lips and tongue explore his cock as I attempt to take all of him down my throat. I want to feel his hands grabbing the back of my head as he nears orgasm. I want to feel his cum shoot into my mouth and I want to taste his load.

Where are the guys like me?


I'm the same way........looking for the right guy............someday I hope
 
There are plenty of us. Older guys who have been married a while are getting into it more and more.
It's still taboo, but I think becoming more accepted and understood
 
...Horny as fuck to try some dick and I can't seem to figure out where guys like me are. I know they exist, but where are they? Where is the guy like me who is normal, sane, clean, and straight, but craving a cock in his mouth? I just want to feel the soft skin on a hard dick slide into my mouth. I want to hear a man moan as my lips and tongue explore his cock as I attempt to take all of him down my throat. I want to feel his hands grabbing the back of my head as he nears orgasm. I want to feel his cum shoot into my mouth and I want to taste his load.

Where are the guys like me?
If I had hands grabbing the back of my head as he nears orgasm, I guess I would not be posting here.

lol...
 
I'm in the same boat. I want to explore my bi curiosity for real, but sadly, can't seem to go about finding someone sane to do it with, or to do it with discreetly. I'm in Western Australia, posted on the aussie threads but got nothing. But I understand the urges so, so badly.
 
I'm the same. I love to look at women. Kiss them, suck their tits, lick those sweet pussies. But I more and more want to taste a man's cock, feel his hot cum in my mouth. Suck and lick him until he gets hard again and fills my ass with cock and cum. Not attracted to men really, just those sweet cocks.
 
I'm the same way.looking for the right guy.someday I hope I will find someone to put there cock in my mouth laying on our side so we can suck each other at the same time
 
me as well

I just kind of wish I could go in somewhere find a cool younger guy and give him a smile, chat for a bit then go outside lean him against the car with our crotches pressed warmly together. Moving around a bit together and starting to feel his cock grow. Kiss the front of his collar bone and pulling a couple chest hairs. Move my hips and our cocks lay side by side.
 
I've always questioned the need for the "straight but love cock" label. Why isn't "bisexual" a more accurate description for someone who is attracted to both male and female? The reason I bring this up at all is that it seems to me that if those who enjoy both male and female would more fully embrace their bisexuality, perhaps it would be easier to find a decent man. As a confirmed bisexual, I can say that the "straight guy" thing doesn't much appeal to me...if I'm just to be an "object"...a cock, for your pleasure then why bother?
 
Why straight with desire and not bi?

Yukon -

That's a great question, and one I've thought about a lot.

Honestly, I don't consider myself bi for the reason you said, I'm not attracted to men. If I was, I would probably identify with the bi label more.

But the truth is, for me at least, any sexual contact with a man is just for the sex. I don't mean to be crass, and I don't mean to try and speak for anyone else, but my "desire" is for the sex, not the person. I don't feel attracted to men. I don't want a "relationship" with a guy.

That's not to say I don't want to get along with them. In fact, I'm not very likely to just have sex with someone I haven't gotten to know and like. I'm looking for a situation like watching a movie or ball game with a buddy, getting horny, getting each other off, and getting back to what we were doing/watching. Nothing intimate.. just sex.

I know that wouldn't appeal to some (most?) people, but from what I've seen here on Lit, that's not an unusual state of mind for the "not attracted to men but crave cock club." And I would never try to hook up with someone who "did" want more than that.

So I'm definitely not gay (like women too much for that), and don't consider myself bi for the reasons I laid out. Doesn't leave a lot of options as a descriptor. Straight with a craving seems to meet that label for many guys here. Personally, I just consider myself "sexual," and leave it at that, though I know it's hard not to try and put some kind of label (even positive ones) on ourselves.

Hope that helps :)
 
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There are tons of guys like you. We love women, are attracted to them overall, want to cuddle and kiss and love them (and fuck them), and have no desire to kiss or date a man, but love the idea of sucking an awesome rock hard cock. I'm still looking to take the plunge myself. You'll probably like my tumbler stuff: https://www.tumblr.com/blog/bicuriousbostonguy
 
If i wasn't married with kids I'd be dating top pre-op trans women and taking them balls deep on a nightly basis. I'd wear panties under my clothes every day and sleep in lingerie every night.
 
I think the reason some people emphasize 'being straight but liking cock' is to avoid the implication of being 'attracted to men', but the former doesn't necessarily mean the latter (though, if you think about it, you probably do have specific types of guys in mind that you would and would not want to suck ;); also, 'bicurious' pretty much means 'not entirely straight' :D ). You can be bisexual and enjoy sex with other guys while still being heteroromantic - interested only in relationships with, or being attracted only to, members of the opposite gender. One neither implies nor invalidates the other.
 
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I'm exactly the same. There are no shortage of us, especially on Lit.

Only difference is I like to wear panties and lingerie, and I have had some success finding cock on a gay dating website, but I'm in no way attracted to the men I meet. I don't even cum or allow them to get me off (although they want to); it would burst the bubble...

I do like to watch closeup clips of guys masturbating, as long as I can only see the cock and hand. If I can actually see the man, I lose interest.
 
I think this is something a lot of us go through especially when we get older. Love women 101% , never look at men when I am out and about, just keep checking out those adorable ladies. But the thought of going down on a guy and taking that thing in my mouth and really enjoying it gets me rock hard to say the least. When I have this fantacy there is no face , just a nice rock hard cock. I may be a bit submisive because I also fantasize about him taking me analy . Just before he is about to come from me giving him head, he gets up and comes behind me, drops my pants and rubs that thing all over my ass, takes me to the bed and lays me down on my stomach, lubes that thing up really good , gets on top and inserts that thing and before you know it we are both moaning from the pleasure. This of course is a fantacy, maybe or maybe not it will ever happen. But just thinking about gets me really hot.
 
OP... You should be finding that there are plenty of guys here that you described.

I've been surprised at how many have the same interests and curiosities and willing to chat about them... sort of a validation
 
I think this is something a lot of us go through especially when we get older. Love women 101% , never look at men when I am out and about, just keep checking out those adorable ladies. But the thought of going down on a guy and taking that thing in my mouth and really enjoying it gets me rock hard to say the least. When I have this fantacy there is no face , just a nice rock hard cock. I may be a bit submisive because I also fantasize about him taking me analy . Just before he is about to come from me giving him head, he gets up and comes behind me, drops my pants and rubs that thing all over my ass, takes me to the bed and lays me down on my stomach, lubes that thing up really good , gets on top and inserts that thing and before you know it we are both moaning from the pleasure. This of course is a fantacy, maybe or maybe not it will ever happen. But just thinking about gets me really hot.

So the same way...want it but when one I don't really look for it...yet want it lol
 
I'm exactly the same. There are no shortage of us, especially on Lit.

Only difference is I like to wear panties and lingerie, and I have had some success finding cock on a gay dating website, but I'm in no way attracted to the men I meet. I don't even cum or allow them to get me off (although they want to); it would burst the bubble...

I do like to watch closeup clips of guys masturbating, as long as I can only see the cock and hand. If I can actually see the man, I lose interest.
On the other hand I love when they get me of them want it and I enjoy when they get off.
 
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