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DaRkDeSiRe13

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Just curious if anyone has a virgin kink? Being the first guy to thrust into a girl sounds like it would give you a feel of control and domination.
 
Coming from a girl's point of view, their first-time isn't usually conducive to pleasure. With virgins comes an extreme lack of experience and unless you'd like to teach every single thing, it can become a bit of a hassle.
 
Flirtyfairy said:
Coming from a girl's point of view, their first-time isn't usually conducive to pleasure. With virgins comes an extreme lack of experience and unless you'd like to teach every single thing, it can become a bit of a hassle.
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Teaching an apt pupil is a pleasure in itself
 
It has a tendency to require extreme patience. If you have such patience, then this kink works for you. As a switch, I have been a teacher and a student.
 
There is many ways to show control and domination rather than having showing by having sex with Virgins. I do understand and each to their own. Besides the fact most will lose their virginity before 18. Finding older Virgins are quite rare.

But At the age where us girls generally lose their virginaity it's normally not to older experienced guys. It's the young ones that only care about their own needs. The amount of guys I have meet that don't know where a girls clit is...like cmon and generally they don't have patience and expect you to know every trick in the book when they don't know crap besides fucking like a bunny.

Pretty much flirtyfairy is right you can expect a virgin to know how to move exactly etc and turn into a pornstar overnight. Realistically losing your virginity hurts and does for the next couple times but just not as bad.

I've actually heard some stories from girlfriends with how they were treated when they lost their virginity, not nice. Most I know for some reason regret who they lost there virginity too.

I personally would not want a Virgin male at all...soooo many cons hahah I like my men naughty and experienced. Take that over a boy any day.
 
MissSweetTemptations said:
There is many ways to show control and domination rather than having showing by having sex with Virgins. I do understand and each to their own. Besides the fact most will lose their virginity before 18. Finding older Virgins are quite rare.

But At the age where us girls generally lose their virginaity it's normally not to older experienced guys. It's the young ones that only care about their own needs. The amount of guys I have meet that don't know where a girls clit is...like cmon and generally they don't have patience and expect you to know every trick in the book when they don't know crap besides fucking like a bunny.

Pretty much flirtyfairy is right you can expect a virgin to know how to move exactly etc and turn into a pornstar overnight. Realistically losing your virginity hurts and does for the next couple times but just not as bad.

I've actually heard some stories from girlfriends with how they were treated when they lost their virginity, not nice. Most I know for some reason regret who they lost there virginity too.

I personally would not want a Virgin male at all...soooo many cons hahah I like my men naughty and experienced. Take that over a boy any day.
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You are right
yet there is space for more
 
Being a person who has deflowered a couple of virgins, I must say that it is not a kink of mine. Actually find it an honour to be trusted to have done so. While I was the experienced person in the relationship I always tried to make the experience as pleasurable a possible.
 
MissSweetTemptations said:
There is many ways to show control and domination rather than having showing by having sex with Virgins. I do understand and each to their own. Besides the fact most will lose their virginity before 18. Finding older Virgins are quite rare.

But At the age where us girls generally lose their virginaity it's normally not to older experienced guys. It's the young ones that only care about their own needs. The amount of guys I have meet that don't know where a girls clit is...like cmon and generally they don't have patience and expect you to know every trick in the book when they don't know crap besides fucking like a bunny.

Pretty much flirtyfairy is right you can expect a virgin to know how to move exactly etc and turn into a pornstar overnight. Realistically losing your virginity hurts and does for the next couple times but just not as bad.

I've actually heard some stories from girlfriends with how they were treated when they lost their virginity, not nice. Most I know for some reason regret who they lost there virginity too.

I personally would not want a Virgin male at all...soooo many cons hahah I like my men naughty and experienced. Take that over a boy any day.
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I know there are other ways to show control but it seems like taking a females virginity whould (usually) come with being allowed a good deal of power.I guess this is interesting to me, being a 20 year old female virgin myself( I'm talking complete virgin, none of that anal dosnt count shit).Id like to think I've trained myself a little already; I know it can't compare to my actual first time but I hope to please when the time comes.And from what I know, the first time doesn't have to be painful if its done right.
Not arguing here just discussing from my point of you and putting others into consideration as well.Thanks for joining.😊
 
DaRkDeSiRe13 said:
I know there are other ways to show control but it seems like taking a females virginity whould (usually) come with being allowed a good deal of power.I guess this is interesting to me, being a 20 year old female virgin myself( I'm talking complete virgin, none of that anal dosnt count shit).Id like to think I've trained myself a little already; I know it can't compare to my actual first time but I hope to please when the time comes.And from what I know, the first time doesn't have to be painful if its done right.
Not arguing here just discussing from my point of you and putting others into consideration as well.Thanks for joining.😊
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I have to agree, taking a girls virginity should not be about control. For me as I mentioned earlier it shouldn't be about control, should be about privilege.

It great your prepared but I hope you find the right person to give it too.
 
I actually had the pleasure of taking a virgin once. I was a virgin, too. Not by much but never the less I had never penetrated a vagina. The experience wasn't so great. There was no hymen to break. As I understand many a hymen is broken long before the first fuck. Secondly, she was so paranoid. First, we were in the basement where I slept while visiting and her mother and grandmother were upstairs. Secondly she insisted on two condoms. I couldn't feel a thing. And lastly I didn't last long. She then went into a period of anxiety and angst which lasted several months. That was the summer of 1969. We are still friends, both married with grown children. I would love to have another intimate molment with her some day. Likely never to happen.
 
Being the first to "thrust into a girl" - as the OP put it - usually creates a long (even life) lasting kind of bond but is hardly a matter of control or domination, in my opinion
 
justcurious1972 said:
Being a person who has deflowered a couple of virgins, I must say that it is not a kink of mine. Actually find it an honour to be trusted to have done so. While I was the experienced person in the relationship I always tried to make the experience as pleasurable a possible.
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I 100% agree. For me, it was so special that she wanted me to take her virginity.
 
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