Confessions of a Sexting Junkie

[RacyWilde]

Thought it would be best to collect my thoughts, desires, experiences and erotic art in one place. This space is mainly for me, but I guess it will turn into a showcase of my sexting desires and experiences.

You're welcome to comment and ask me questions.

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Connecting with me...

For people who want to connect with me... I usually do not kik/skype with you unless I have interacted with you beforehand, either via threads or PM. I have a lot of contacts already on several apps so my time is very limited and I usually don't take on another contact unless I know I have the time - I don't like to spread myself thin. If you want to know the type of people I connect with... read along.

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[RacyWilde]

My first erotic self portrait

I love the Living Works thread II - there are some amazingly beautiful ladies on there. Even though it's a bit of fun, they, and their admirers, are also serious about their art. There are some beautiful pieces of work and the people are so friendly and appreciative - it's one of the best places to be on Lit I recommend you checking out the thread in the Amateur Pics section, and maybe even joining in. (They have a male thread too )

Here is my first erotic self portrait.... ever:

http://racywilde.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/Veiled-Female-Nude-smaller-still.jpg​

 

[The_Ghost_Man]

I love the Living Works thread II - there are some amazingly beautiful ladies on there. Even though it's a bit of fun, they, and their admirers, are also serious about their art. There are some beautiful pieces of work and the people are so friendly and appreciative - it's one of the best places to be on Lit I recommend you checking out the thread in the Amateur Pics section, and maybe even joining in. (They have a male thread too )

Here is my first erotic self portrait.... ever:

http://i.imgur.com/2pAGHot.jpg

Well in that case, you absolutely nailed it. That is a great pic. Natural light?

And how much post capture work did you do?

 

[RacyWilde]

Well in that case, you absolutely nailed it. That is a great pic. Natural light?

And how much post capture work did you do?

Oh, thank you

I just desaturated it and then heightened the exposure and contrast, to lighten the darker areas and over-expose the sunlight areas. Other than that, it's real. I think it works.

 

[The_Ghost_Man]

Oh, thank you

I just desaturated it and then heightened the exposure and contrast, to lighten the darker areas and over-expose the sunlight areas. Other than that, it's real. I think it works.

In that case, congratulations. I think it's fantastic, and it definitely works.

I look forward to seeing your next one.

 

[RacyWilde]

Naughty Confessions Week 1

(I'm just putting these here. They were in another thread but I think others are too chicken to play along )

1. Last Thursday, I was at a piano concert in the heart of the city and this guy from kik (that’s to die for) was replying to me. I had my phone resting between my closed legs on silent. The first buzz made me jump a little, but without looking, I knew it was him. So I pushed my phone further down my legs to touch my pussy, hoping he’d message me again. He did, several times in a row and each time I felt him through my pussy. I got so wet and horny I had to look up into the dome above. That’s when I remembered I was sitting on a pew in a Cathedral! 0.0…. lol

2. I time my gym sessions when the city football team is in doing their weight session. I run on the treadmill staring into space, but really I'm thinking of me being in the centre of a footballer bukkake session...lol.

3. I was getting my hair done at the hairdressers in town and my RP buddy on kik sent a really sexy instalment. I had to reply… and I got so horny and wet I had to control myself from rubbing against the chair. Then our sexting took a turn for the best just as my hair was finished. I finally got out of there and went straight to the Ladies to jack myself off while he watched…lol. But oh god, I was still horny after and was walking around the supermarket telling him everything and everyone I would fuck. I gave him a picture of bananas…lol. Got home and he so graciously satisfied me (with the help of my two best vibrators). What a nice guy.

**I now post my Naughty Confessions in a thread I started in Fetish section of the Forum.

 

[The_Ghost_Man]

Number three for me please Racy

I often Kik with a friend or two while I'm out on Sat morning (about 8 hours from now) and end up at the Supermarket. I'll wander about, sexting and wishing for a sexy woman to be doing the same.

It's the coconut oil that always gets me!

 

[vibes]

1. Last Thursday, I was at a piano concert in the heart of the city and this guy from kik (that’s to die for) was replying to me. I had my phone resting between my closed legs on silent. The first buzz made me jump a little, but without looking, I knew it was him. So I pushed my phone further down my legs to touch my pussy, hoping he’d message me again. He did, several times in a row and each time I felt him through my pussy. I got so wet and horny I had to look up into the dome above. That’s when I remembered I was sitting on a pew in a Cathedral! 0.0…. lol

That is precisely where my Lit name comes from ... only she would usually be at university rather than in a cathedral

 

[RacyWilde]

Friday Night Fucks

So I've been sexting for over two Fridays now and I'm getting an unscientific pattern. I think Fridays are fuck nights for most guys. Well, not actually the night but the afternoon. I get the feeling they want to off a load before they hit the town. Kind of like a 'There's Something About Mary' thing. They need to release the week before they are ready to enjoy the weekend. It's kind of cute, really...lol.

Last Friday I got through a record number 0.0. Unfortunately, this Friday I'm saving myself for a vid session with my fuck buddy for my Dom. But, all my kik guys are cool about it. They are so lovely and supportive...

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[RacyWilde]

I often Kik with a friend or two while I'm out on Sat morning (about 8 hours from now) and end up at the Supermarket. I'll wander about, sexting and wishing for a sexy woman to be doing the same.

It's the coconut oil that always gets me!

Gosh, that's hot!

I so want to post my Ladies room masturbation pic, but the forum rules...

But, I had a fun idea, just for kicks. (I don't know if people do this on here.) To post a masturbation mission, that over a weekend people are tasked with masturbating in a certain place, with a certain object in the pic (like a smurf smiling in the background) or at the same time. Organised group masturbation all over the world...lol.

They actually do this kind of thing with dance - same choreography, danced at the same time, all over the world. If dancers can have that much fun all together, why not masturbators too

 

[RacyWilde]

That is precisely where my Lit name comes from ... only she would usually be at university rather than in a cathedral

That's a cool name. I like tag names that are earnt. My pen name was based off a dare to start with and now it's kind of stuck. I like it though, I think it describes me well

 

[fredgy]

Gosh, that's hot!

I so want to post my Ladies room masturbation pic, but the forum rules...

But, I had a fun idea, just for kicks. (I don't know if people do this on here.) To post a masturbation mission, that over a weekend people are tasked with masturbating in a certain place, with a certain object in the pic (like a smurf smiling in the background) or at the same time. Organised group masturbation all over the world...lol.

They actually do this kind of thing with dance - same choreography, danced at the same time, all over the world. If dancers can have that much fun all together, why not masturbators too

I'm in!

 

[*professorx*]

very very Interesting thread ......many good ideas indeed

 

[The_Ghost_Man]

Gosh, that's hot!

I so want to post my Ladies room masturbation pic, but the forum rules...

But, I had a fun idea, just for kicks. (I don't know if people do this on here.) To post a masturbation mission, that over a weekend people are tasked with masturbating in a certain place, with a certain object in the pic (like a smurf smiling in the background) or at the same time. Organised group masturbation all over the world...lol.

They actually do this kind of thing with dance - same choreography, danced at the same time, all over the world. If dancers can have that much fun all together, why not masturbators too

You need to Kik me. Apparently vids are easy there.

Actually, it makes me think this would work great as a Kik group.

So, should we start with a green sheet motif? Vids of you masturbating with a green sheet somewhere in frame. Oh look, I've already started.

 

[RacyWilde]

You need to Kik me. Apparently vids are easy there.

Actually, it makes me think this would work great as a Kik group.

So, should we start with a green sheet motif? Vids of you masturbating with a green sheet somewhere in frame. Oh look, I've already started.

Ooooo! Fantastic!!!

I've just PM'ed you and have joined the kik group. I've also uploaded the picture that started the idea

 

[RacyWilde]

I'm in!

The_Ghost_Man has just PM'ed me to start a kik group . When we get all the particulars set up, we'll let you know

 

[RacyWilde]

A Guilde to Sexting Etiquette - Part 1


Personal insights, tips and guidance into the etiquettes of Sexting from my own insignificant experience

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✮ (¸.•´✶ (¸.•`Before First Contact​

⫷BACKGROUND⫸

If someone says “read my profile because I might not be what you’re looking for” on a Personal, they actually mean it. Most guys don’t seem to read my profile before they have contacted me, and so when I have 20 sextings in the week––like I do––it gets very tedious listing all my kinks and my intentions for the hook up. It’s much easier to say what I’m NOT into. (Scat, degrading/humiliation and everything illegal, if you wanted to know.)

But, what is most important for potential kik buddies to remember is, this girl has given you a task, that if completed, will put you in good favour. Yes, it is a test to demonstrate your willingness to please me and to test your weight as a sext buddy, giving you brownie points from the get-go. Having a buddy check out my profile when I’ve asked is the first confidence that the buddy will be worth my time and efforts.

Now, just to be clear, kinks can be different to SRPs.


⫷PATIANCE⫸

A personal story of a newbie:

It seems to be common knowledge on here that girls get a lot of offers. When I was an unknown I only had two PMs and they had been about my writing and a photo I contributed to Living Works.

I wanted to try sexting so I thought I’d look in the Personals. Practically every guy I contacted from the personals on that day didn’t get back to me. I contacted ten guys in the space of an hour. That was very unsatisfying, I must admit.

If you put up an ad to sext, make sure you can, or at least say you’ll get back to them if you’re getting busy with someone else.

Over the next three days a few got back to me, and you know what, they were really good guys. I even got a regular sexting buddy out of that group.

Four days into my new membership, I put up an ad in the personals myself just to see what would happen. Oh boy. It didn’t take long for me to have a list. When I got to 30 I decided to take down my kik contact.

So, my list was long, and I was pacing myself to get through them. I felt bad for those who had to wait but the wait wasn’t about me not being interested, it was about capacity overload.

There was three major problems with getting through my list:

1. New people were contacting me even though I had taken down my kik ID. I’m guessing they must have seen my ad and saved my kik ID for another time. So what happened: I'd get down to around 23––whoo hoo!––and then magically it worked up to 30+ again.

2. As I connected with more people, I started to get sexting keepers––buddies that I’ve unexpectedly become friends with. My intention with kik was only hook ups ––to have fun, sext and say goodbye––but there’s some great guys on here and so we’ve become something more than just sexting buddies. That’s ok, but it does mean I don’t have as much time to get through my list.

3. Some guys ween’t honouring my ‘sext and goodbye’ condition, which was found on my profile, and pre-agreed upon. My intention was not to be regular sext buddies with everyone. I’m actually an author and here to learn about the desires of others. This means I’m not a keeper. (However, from point 2, the sexting buddies that I have kept were unexpected.)
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Everyone wants to be special, but you need to develop a connection first before you can be that. Don’t expect special treatment until you prove you are special.


⫷INTENTIONS⫸

These can be found on my profile. And I usually state them upfront before sexting begins just to be clear. I’m not actually looking for long lasting relationships or to be exclusive. I don’t like being possessed, and I expect that my sexting buddies have a healthy attitude towards women who are not monogamous. (Jealousy is ugly).

It seems a lot of girls (and some guys) like a long romancing lead up to sexting, wanting to fall for the mind first beforehand, but I prefer the sexting first. You get to know a person real quick when you sext them, and then it's easier to tell if you have a connection or not. Before sexting, everyone is on their best behaviour. After sexting it gets real. The act of sexting tells you so much about a person in a very short time - their desires, their focus, their creativity, whether they are a self-satisfier (which I can't stand)... Guys are primarily physical beings so I like to study them through their natural behaviour...lol. But I think I’m very different to most girls in this regard.

And most importantly, you can’t persuade me to keep you. I don’t like being chased––it makes me feel suffocated. At the end, if we BOTH think we have a connection and wish to continue, then all is good. But, please don’t get offended if I say “thanks, it was fun and good-bye”. You are actually up against a lot. I already have a fantastic Dom, I am currently in negotiations with a pet, I have a bi guy who’s my sexting partner in crime, and I have an RP guy who is absolutely amazing with writing and keeps me on my toes. And they all love the fact that I am insatiable and have many sexting buddies. There’s only so many buddies a girl can keep .

Know your sexting buddy’s intentions upfront and live up to them.


⫷EXPECTATIONS⫸

Have none. Expectations are what fuels disappointment. Drop all your expectations before ‘Hello’.

I have no expectations. I enter a sexting session open and accepting. I like everyone, so I’m pretty easy going and very kinky, though, I can do vanilla. I love all people, whether they’re male, female, trans, Black, White, Asian, Arabic, Islander, or Martian , just legal or mature. Though, if married, I do insist their partner is supportive of their sexting. And because I don’t get emotionally intimate, sexting is happy and fun.
Demanding people are a big turn off. And people who are unappreciative too.

If you are given something, whether that be an answer to a scary question, a pic or vid, be very appreciative. There’s nothing worse than someone saying “Nice, but I want more”.



⫷CAN'T REMEMBER THEM ALL⫸

Ok, now we are getting real.

I currently have 22 guys and one couple on my active list (no solo girls, unfortunately). I have said good-bye to about 100+. And, I only have 21 on my waiting list at the moment – phew. The only reason why I am currently chatting with 22 is because we either haven’t had time to sext properly, they are my friends, or they are guys that just won’t let go.

There are four problems with remembering my buddies:

1. If I haven’t chatted with them in a while, I can’t remember our conversation or our connection. I’ve likely had twenty other hook ups in between our contacts.

2. Kik deletes chats after a certain amount of time, so I can’t go back and research who they are. (Normally the pics/vids help.)

3. I’ve deleted them because I thought we were finished or we haven’t chatted in over a week. So, all their info has been wiped from kik.

4. Their kik name is so similar to someone else. Kik buddies I have had are A, a, AB, AD, ad, M, W. A girl can get very confused without any real identifying names or pictures. No matter how good a buddy was, I am bound to confuse them with someone else. And yes, I’ve had to get a few guys to resend dick pics so I can identify them…lol.​

It will make life a lot easier for people to remember you if you have a significant name and picture.


(NOTE: If you are wondering why I put a lot of effort into my posts... I'm obsessively creative. I'm learning how to format documents on different sites.)

 

[RacyWilde]

Naughty Confessions Week 2

1. There was a pro breakdancing crew holding a workshop before their performance. I just had to go (girls aren't known to be able to do breakdancing––weight distribution and such––but I held my own). Oh god, the guys were honeys. Love men who can acro. Must had made an impression––which was my intention, of course ––as through out the performance the guys kept singling me out for their improv and focus points. I would have jumped at the chance to be in their hotel room last night, but I was hijacked by a colleague, ugh...lol. Was the eye candy worth getting down on the floor spinning on my back like an upturned turtle for an hour? Hell yeah, but oh god, today... my aching muscles!

2. Gosh, this morning I had a kik/vid session with a bi couple. They had just come home from a Halloween party and were in pirate costumes! I love me some pirates. She was so sexy with her make-up smearing on her face, and gosh, he was great at camera. We saw, we came (and I came again). I've simply fallen in love with both of them. It was a great start to the day.

3. Mmmmmh. Was at the gym on Sunday night when all the hardcore guys come out. I was doing my yoga stretches on the floor mats after a run and a guy was doing handstand push ups against the wall very close to me. I closed my eyes to listen to his grunts and breath. Gosh! It sounded just like he was fucking me! So turned on. I hope he is there next Sunday .

**I now post my Naughty Confessions in a thread I started in Fetish section of the Forum.

 

[frmtutanota]

I love the Living Works thread II - there are some amazingly beautiful ladies on there. Even though it's a bit of fun, they, and their admirers, are also serious about their art. There are some beautiful pieces of work and the people are so friendly and appreciative - it's one of the best places to be on Lit I recommend you checking out the thread in the Amateur Pics section, and maybe even joining in. (They have a male thread too )

Here is my first erotic self portrait.... ever:

http://i.imgur.com/2pAGHot.jpg

Simply gorgeous

 

[mellowyellows]

Interesting concept. I would love to join but am a bit confused on how to qualify.

 

[RacyWilde]

Simply gorgeous

Awww, thank you

 

[RacyWilde]

Images that haunt my desires

Restrained but strong... determined. Just beautiful. My most favourite, the one that haunts my dreams.

http://66.media.tumblr.com/18b9cfb709917af542d1fcb917071864/tumblr_n01tfiHRyZ1sfz7sko1_1280.jpg



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Beauty and submission tied up in one.

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Natural. Primal. Real. The way I enjoy humans.

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I think this one just fascinates me. The Gothic aura. The stillness.

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Pleasure in making art.

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[RacyWilde]

Are you scared yet?​

You should be. ​

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[RacyWilde]

I confess... my heart is broken

Don’t. Ever. Fall In love with me.

Yes, I’m heartbroken. I’ve had a whirlwind relationship with my perfect Dom and he’s just let me go. I’m left devastated, that even though I did nothing wrong––I’ve been a very good naughty girl––I have to deal with the consequences of him leaving me so abruptly… so vaguely.

Goodbye, Sir. I hope I forget you, though the lessons you have taught me have become a part of who I am now. They will keep me well and protect me. So thank you. *crush*

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Four days after Sir…

I may not be able to eat, but I sure still fuck.

Two weeks… In two weeks I will be back to normal. I’m relying on it.

But the things I have learnt so far in my pain:

• I can love. Deeply.
  
• Goodbye is final in the BDSM world.
  
• A good Dom provides after care, even after a break up. A good Dom never leaves his sub broken. He will never leave without explaining why… he will never leave without ensuring his sub is in a safe place.
  
• A Dom can offer you all the comfort in the world, but he can never offer you security that it will be there when you need it most. Comfort is used as a tool for reward but a Dom has the power to take it away whenever he wants. The stealing away of comfort for punishment, and as a finality, is his right but also his cruelty. In this, the relationship between a Dom and sub is tragic as there can be no real comfort without security.
  
• For me, “punishment” is a delight… I love a good spanking, I crave it and will be naughty on purpose for it. As such, it is not really a punishment. Instead, my Dom quickly learnt that abandonment is the only action that will ‘punish’ me. Though abandonment is not a true punishment, it is abuse. Abandonment is destructive and heartless… selfish. It can only break, not make a relationship stronger.
  
• Justice and Mercy - They must both be a part of a Dom’s power. Yes, justice––punishment for disobedience––but without mercy, justice is incomplete. Punishing someone because of disobedience is right, but when the sub hasn’t been taught first what the Dom wants and is punished because of innocent ignorance, justice has become vengeance. Mercy enables forgiveness and nurtures true submission. Mercy is not weakness but strength in a Dom. Justice comes from the mind but mercy comes from the heart. A tender heart and a righteous mind makes the perfect Dom.

Two weeks... I know, Casper. Two weeks... You better be right or I will kick your ass!

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Eight days after Sir.

I am bewildered and a little lost. I don’t understand how a well-practiced Dom could end something so suddenly when there was nothing wrong, nothing bad, just two people liking each other too much. I feel like I’m being punished for something I didn’t do. Meanwhile, I’m having the best kik fucks of my life. First threesome this week and it was AWESOME! But in the quiet moments, when I’m left on my own, the hurt comes creeping back in.

One week down, one more to go. I’m starting to lose faith, Casper.

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Two weeks and two days after Sir

Yes, I deleted everything... every connection, every image, every nuance... like I promised myself after two weeks.

I am petrified that I will come across him again and have the pain come flooding back. Other Doms contact me but they are never strong enough, smart enough, Dom enough. I end up eating them alive.

In the last few weeks there has been one contact who has never said he was a Dom, and has never tried to Dom me. But he has made me want to totally submit. He doesn't know it, of course. He doesn't know he hit my trigger that switched me from a feisty Brat to a perfect submissive. I would have done absolutely anything for him in that moment. And every time he contacts me now I can't help giving him everything. It's dangerous. I want to stop connecting with this contact but I can't.... He has me, and he doesn't even know it.

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[sexywriterfla]

This is nothing new here. Unfortunately. Or not. Rather typical, honestly, of those partaking in the whole online dom sub thing.