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I'm 38. I have a monster crush on one of my clients. She's married, late 60's. She's moving far away in about a year. Should I spill everything just before she moves?
 
I'm 38. I have a monster crush on one of my clients. She's married, late 60's. She's moving far away in about a year. Should I spill everything just before she moves?

So you are going to wait about 11 months and then profess your undying love for her?
 
She's married and I don't want to make things awkward

Ok so she's a client? And married? Do you really need help answering that question? I have my own small business with clients and the last thing I'd do is jeopardize that professional relationship I have. That is my living why would I risk it?

She's married......please do her and you a favor and find one of the zillion women walking around that are not.
 
Ok so she's a client? And married? Do you really need help answering that question? I have my own small business with clients and the last thing I'd do is jeopardize that professional relationship I have. That is my living why would I risk it?

She's married......please do her and you a favor and find one of the zillion women walking around that are not.

Would not be so much of a problem after she moves
 
Would not be so much of a problem after she moves

What would it accomplish tho? Telling her just before she moves......for what reason? Plant an idea in her mind? Try to make her change her plans? Not sure what positive would come from doing that. You didn't say if you are married. If you are and if it got back to your wife what would the ramifications be? Nothing sparks our desires as much as forbidden fruit but sometimes it's best to let things live only in fantasy land.
 
What would it accomplish tho? Telling her just before she moves......for what reason? Plant an idea in her mind? Try to make her change her plans? Not sure what positive would come from doing that. You didn't say if you are married. If you are and if it got back to your wife what would the ramifications be? Nothing sparks our desires as much as forbidden fruit but sometimes it's best to let things live only in fantasy land.

I'm single :)
 
I'm single :)

Oh come on, you are probably so overly sweet to her that she has already figured it out. 50% of marriages end up with no sex after about 10 years so perhaps you have a good chance. Who knows, they might be like friends now and he might just let her do it, he might want to watch!
Where do you have meetings, why don't you suggest one over coffee, now not in a year. See where it goes, see how she reacts if you change the subject to small talk or flirting.
How does she dress when you meet with her, does it look like she makes any extra effort in her looks?

You're going to lose her as a client in a year I take it?

What's the 396 in?
 
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Oh come on, you are probably so overly sweet to her that she has already figured it out. 50% of marriages end up with no sex after about 10 years so perhaps you have a good chance. Who knows, they might be like friends now and he might just let her do it, he might want to watch!
Where do you have meetings, why don't you suggest one over coffee, now not in a year. See where it goes, see how she reacts if you change the subject to small talk or flirting.
How does she dress when you meet with her, does it look like she makes any extra effort in her looks?

You're going to lose her as a client in a year I take it?

yes I will
 
If it's burning at you to say something just say you're going to miss her when she leaves and you've always admired her....leave it at that.
 
I'm 38. I have a monster crush on one of my clients. She's married, late 60's. She's moving far away in about a year. Should I spill everything just before she moves?
Since she must be almost 30 years older than you and is married, I think that would not be a great idea.
 
I don't know if I hold in in when i tell her good bye....i'm having dirty thoughts about it as it is
 
Make sure you have her cell phone number before she goes. Then when she's gone, send her unsolicited sexts and dick pics. Women love those.
 
Make sure you have her cell phone number before she goes. Then when she's gone, send her unsolicited sexts and dick pics. Women love those.

i'm thinking of telling her everything when we say good bye, consequences be darned. I'm turned on by the thought
 
You already knew the answers you would get when you posted the original post. Some would say go for it and the rest will say not and to let her leave. Your going to do whatever your mind reacts to at that moment. Just tell us the outcome of your actions either way
 
I'm honestly turned on by the thought of never speaking to her again
 
Why does it seem like this is just jack off fodder and not a true concern?
 
So you have a crush on her nice. And you don't think she knows it. Question screw the age. Does she dress sexy? Does disappear or hang around when your there? If she hangs around she knows and waiting for you to make your move. She is not stupid as she is going to make you earn it. You better make your move.
 
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