Being bisexual

[Wild1977au]

I have a question to all, how do ppl feel about a person being bisexual, say if the male is bisexual. How do the women of lit feel about that?? And from a males point of few, how do you explain to your partner that u r bisexual and want to swing both ways.

 

[CindyCD478]

I have a question to all, how do ppl feel about a person being bisexual, say if the male is bisexual. How do the women of lit feel about that?? And from a males point of few, how do you explain to your partner that u r bisexual and want to swing both ways.

My wife and I are both bisexual, so were our parents, and so are our children. We all love it.

 

[Wild1977au]

My wife and I are both bisexual, so were our parents, and so are our children. We all love it.

It is a pity we r so far from each other as it would've been great to actually sit down and talk about it all

 

[littlegrizz02]

I have a question to all, how do ppl feel about a person being bisexual, say if the male is bisexual. How do the women of lit feel about that?? And from a males point of few, how do you explain to your partner that u r bisexual and want to swing both ways.

I've never been with a guy before but I believe I'm Bisexual. I always wanted to try being with a guy. I told my wife about it and it ruined our marriage. One day I'll try it. I also hope both my kids get to explore their Bi side if they have it. I truly believe ever one has a Bi side at one time or another in their life.

 

[CindyCD478]

It is a pity we r so far from each other as it would've been great to actually sit down and talk about it all

Yes it is! We love to get together with others of like interests.

 

[Calguy69]

Closet Bi

I am bi-sexual. I cannot tell my wife. She would never understand. I have raised the subject in general and she sees it as a perversion. As a result I have little chance at enjoying male company.
Another problem is that I have been in a celibate marriage for several years. The frustration is immense. I have an unsatisfied and intense sex drive.

 

[SueVanDouser]

A person being bisexual doesn't bother me in the slightest.
I have a few bisexual friends, both male and female.

 

[JenniBean]

I don't think I am bisexual but I did once have sex with a girlfriend. Still, I do prefer men.

 

[CindyCD478]

I am bi-sexual. I cannot tell my wife. She would never understand. I have raised the subject in general and she sees it as a perversion. As a result I have little chance at enjoying male company.
Another problem is that I have been in a celibate marriage for several years. The frustration is immense. I have an unsatisfied and intense sex drive.

Get a new wife who understands you!

 

[luv2chat4u]

more and more people are embracing bisexuality

I have a question to all, how do ppl feel about a person being bisexual, say if the male is bisexual. How do the women of lit feel about that?? And from a males point of few, how do you explain to your partner that u r bisexual and want to swing both ways.

Being bi can be truly lovely. It's the best of both worlds. I have a number of female friends who actually prefer their partners being bi especially if they are into swinging. There can be so many things to enjoy in a 3sum or 4sum.

 

[bunny4med]

i'm bisexual , but my hubby isn't. it's just how we are. he encouraged me to explore my bisexuality. it allowed me a certain freedom to completely be myself and he loves me for it. it hasn't changed our relationship, if anything it is stronger because i love the fact that he has the inner strength and trust to let me fully become the person i am today.

 

[Bottomlover]

I have a question to all, how do ppl feel about a person being bisexual, say if the male is bisexual. How do the women of lit feel about that?? And from a males point of few, how do you explain to your partner that u r bisexual and want to swing both ways.

Might you fall in love with a man, or do you want a NSA type deal? In my world it makes a difference, but either way, be honest with your partner if you decide to act. There's a huge difference between homosexual sexual desire and infidelity, but dishonesty is always infidelity.

 

[Dotarsojat1696]

Being bisexual was difficult for me to come to terms with but as it was an internal struggle I made it through fine. Most of the people I know and interact with would be both surprised and disgusted by the knowledge, the world is what it is. Female bisexuality is much more acceptable than male. I told my wife and it caused a rift in our relationship that took several years to repair and the only way she can deal with it is to pretend I never told her. I told my cousin and it forever damaged our relationship. I am happy being who I am and in living this manner, I still play around but never where it can be found out. I think the illicitness is part of the charm. The one thing I miss is having someone to share my experiences with I think that would be cool.

 

[Wild1977au]

Being bisexual was difficult for me to come to terms with but as it was an internal struggle I made it through fine. Most of the people I know and interact with would be both surprised and disgusted by the knowledge, the world is what it is. Female bisexuality is much more acceptable than male. I told my wife and it caused a rift in our relationship that took several years to repair and the only way she can deal with it is to pretend I never told her. I told my cousin and it forever damaged our relationship. I am happy being who I am and in living this manner, I still play around but never where it can be found out. I think the illicitness is part of the charm. The one thing I miss is having someone to share my experiences with I think that would be cool.

I hear everyone's thoughts and feelings, it is great to hear of people's experiences. The person I was with didn't understand anyway as to her she was hoping she was enough for me but there is a difference between playing with something that is fake and the real thing, which I have not done in a very long time and would love to do again, to feel a cock pulse in my mouth, taste the precum as it leaks. Mmmmmmmmm am getting horny just thinking about it

 

[malefica]

I've had negative experiences with bisexual men in the past. Not because of them being bisexual, but due to how they brought it to my attention by cheating, and then telling me after the fact. While I can respect being nervous about coming out, saying 'I'd like to be with a male partner as well' or 'I'd like to experience this' is going to be taken a lot better.

Since being poly, none of my partners - casual or otherwise - have been bisexual but I think I'd still push for the same standard and quality of open communication.

 

[Wild1977au]

Hi there again

Is anyone in Melbourne that might be able to help me out with my bisexuality

 

[Wild1977au]

Being bi can be truly lovely. It's the best of both worlds. I have a number of female friends who actually prefer their partners being bi especially if they are into swinging. There can be so many things to enjoy in a 3sum or 4sum.

I would love to hear more about ur experiences

 

[JackOffer]

My wife and I are both bisexual, so were our parents, and so are our children. We all love it.

Wow! Our family is so much like yours. I wish we could hook up!

 

[DaddysLilLolly]

I'm pansexual, so it certainly doesn't bother me at all. I love open people.

 

[jackbird]

Being bisexual was difficult for me to come to terms with but as it was an internal struggle I made it through fine. Most of the people I know and interact with would be both surprised and disgusted by the knowledge, the world is what it is. Female bisexuality is much more acceptable than male. I told my wife and it caused a rift in our relationship that took several years to repair and the only way she can deal with it is to pretend I never told her. I told my cousin and it forever damaged our relationship. I am happy being who I am and in living this manner, I still play around but never where it can be found out. I think the illicitness is part of the charm. The one thing I miss is having someone to share my experiences with I think that would be cool.

yes hear u on this one

 

[ChrissyCD64]

Being bisexual was difficult for me to come to terms with but as it was an internal struggle I made it through fine. Most of the people I know and interact with would be both surprised and disgusted by the knowledge, the world is what it is. Female bisexuality is much more acceptable than male. I told my wife and it caused a rift in our relationship that took several years to repair and the only way she can deal with it is to pretend I never told her. I told my cousin and it forever damaged our relationship. I am happy being who I am and in living this manner, I still play around but never where it can be found out. I think the illicitness is part of the charm. The one thing I miss is having someone to share my experiences with I think that would be cool.

I have never experience these issues. I am bisexual and a cross-dresser and always have been.
My parents accepted me as I am and allowed me to dress as a girl except to go to school, although they at first thought of me as gay. They tried to get me interested in girls by my Mom having sex with me, and that changed me to bi, but I was still only interested in sex with her until my dad and his friend introduced me to the friends daughter who was only interested in girls and we hit it off. We have been happily married fro nearly 50 years and have raised a wonderful, bisexual family even though she still likes women more that men and I like men more than women.

 

[Astroman72]

I'm bisexual, but my attraction to men and women are very different. With women, I'm attracted deeply on every level. With men, it's a shallow (although powerful) purely sexual desire.

Because of that, I'm celibate when it comes to gay sex. Not to say that I'd be able to resist if the perfect scenario presented itself, but I don't go seeking it. I satisfy those desires with masturbation, fantasy and Literotica.

I'm single now, but I'm monogamous by nature and wouldn't have any problem remaining faithful to a woman. Just speaking for myself, I have such a wide range of types that I'm sexually attracted to (even just among women) that no one person is ever going to embody all of them, so for me, being in a faithful relationship necessarily means putting some of my sexual desires into the "fantasy only" box, and I'm fine with that.

I've never had a relationship end because I told the woman I have some gay urges--, and if a woman would end it just because of my desires (which I can't control) and not my actions, then I'm probably better off without her.

 

[cuckoldedhusban]

We are both bi as well. My wife is the one who pushed me into bi sex with her exhusband so she could satisfy her desire to watch 2 men together. Being submissive i of course lean to being a bottom. I love having a man use me as his own personal sex toy. And my wife loves watching a very aggressive rougg man use me for his pleasure.
She loves eating pussy much more than having hers ate by a girl. But she prefers to be in an fmf over just being with a female. She loves being with a married couple and being fucked by the husband while she eats the wifes pussy

 

[sub2femdom]

I am bi-sexual. I cannot tell my wife. She would never understand. I have raised the subject in general and she sees it as a perversion. As a result I have little chance at enjoying male company.
Another problem is that I have been in a celibate marriage for several years. The frustration is immense. I have an unsatisfied and intense sex drive.

I was in the same boat. After 2 years of no sex with my wife, I finally decided to take the plunge. I signed up for swinger sites, went to meet and greets and sex parties, and eventually got to be with a few men, and plenty of women too.

At first I was morally conflicted, it took me 2 years after being cut off just to start looking, and it was years before that when our sex life started waning off, so I consider it to be many years of wanting to take the plunge before I did. I had only ever cheated once before in my life, when I was 18, I kissed another girl and felt like shit for months about it... I wasn't sure I could handle cheating on my wife.

My only regret? Not doing it sooner. Doing all these things now... It's like a whole new world of gender identity, exploration, and kink have fallen into my lap. My latest struggle is simply that I'm having a hard time figuring out what I want from this life, I have so many kinks that are so different that I can't figure out which one to commit to. A good problem to have compared to my problems 5 years ago when I was in a sexless marriage and frustrated.

I say do it. Keep it secret, don't upset the apple cart unless you are willing to leave the relationship. I sure would myself with exception that we have a special needs child who needs both parents, so I can't just leave. It's forced us to make it work, but she's not interested in sex (with me?) at all.

 

[docoral]

I'm bisexual, but my attraction to men and women are very different. With women, I'm attracted deeply on every level. With men, it's a shallow (although powerful) purely sexual desire.

Because of that, I'm celibate when it comes to gay sex. Not to say that I'd be able to resist if the perfect scenario presented itself, but I don't go seeking it. I satisfy those desires with masturbation, fantasy and Literotica.

I'm single now, but I'm monogamous by nature and wouldn't have any problem remaining faithful to a woman. Just speaking for myself, I have such a wide range of types that I'm sexually attracted to (even just among women) that no one person is ever going to embody all of them, so for me, being in a faithful relationship necessarily means putting some of my sexual desires into the "fantasy only" box, and I'm fine with that.

I've never had a relationship end because I told the woman I have some gay urges--, and if a woman would end it just because of my desires (which I can't control) and not my actions, then I'm probably better off without her.

Very well put. Sex with men is pure sex but with women the sky's the limit. Would love to find a married guy who could also enjoy an occasional blowjob without jeopardizing his relationship with his SO.