Looking for a Submissive With a Goal

[MotiveMotif]

Greetings all,

I'm looking for a submissive with a goal in mind she's been wanting to accomplish, but having trouble with and could use the guidance and motivation that can come from being sexually dominated in pursuit of that goal.

Not to imply a lack of sexual content, orgasm control, obedience training, and degradation are all great tools towards that end.

I'm fairly open regarding the contents of that goal, be it career / academic achievement, fitness, quitting bad habits, social issues.

If you're interested, post below or send me a PM with a bit about you and what you'd like to accomplish.

 

[ChatonGia]

hmmm.... that sounds very interesting.

I've finished a novel, but I've had some trouble focusing on editing and getting it ready to self-publish. Though I am very undisciplined when it comes to certain sexual desires.

Have you done this sort of thing before?

 

[MotiveMotif]

I have, it went reasonably well, though it ended before we were all the way to our goal. Mostly my fault for getting distracted with my own life chaos.

 

[watsit2ya]

motive

Dear sir:
I am highly intrigued by your post.
I find the descriptions of your methods very sexually arousing.
I found myself highly aroused with the orgasm denial, which by the way, is one of my favorite things and a real motivational tool for me.
I have several goals that I would like to accomplish but I find that I am unmotivated, lack initiative and can be just plain lazy.
If we can find a connection I would be interested in a strong dom who is not afraid to use the weapons in his arsenal to motivate this lazy submissive.
My goals are to lose weight and to quit smoking.
I look forward to your response

 

[MotiveMotif]

Loquacious bump

 

[MotiveMotif]

Had some success, but dropped off due to scheduling incompatibilities. But my schedule is freeing up for the fall so I'm looking again.

 

[debbiev]

Had some success, but dropped off due to scheduling incompatibilities. But my schedule is freeing up for the fall so I'm looking again.

too bad you weren't free a couple months ago...you disappeared on me. but your loss there.

 

[MotiveMotif]

Well, I never truly disappeared on you, my schedule just caused me to have to go the better part of a week sometimes before I was able to check in.

Which is not to say I didn't fail to uphold the expectations I had for myself as well as those I lead you to believe you could rely upon.

And I am sorry, it is indeed my loss, Debbie is a fabulous sub for any out there taking note of such things