Sharing wife

[philgill11]

I noticed no matter what your sexual fetish, a common theme is to watch your wife being touched by another man - be it some sexual scene, voyeur scene, or fetish scene like some other guy playing with your wife's ass, legs, tits or feet. How common is this?

 

[bluesbreaker_69]

Quite common, it is almost like wanting visual confirmation that your wife is attractive to other men and therefore you have very good taste in women.

 

[Green_Knight]

I noticed no matter what your sexual fetish, a common theme is to watch your wife being touched by another man - be it some sexual scene, voyeur scene, or fetish scene like some other guy playing with your wife's ass, legs, tits or feet. How common is this?

Are you asking how common it is among F&S Forum members, how common among Lit members and readers as a whole, or how common is it among the overall population?

Some on here will insist that all three are about 110%. Others doubt whether asking such a question of F&S members is a sensible sample to be using if you want a meaningful answer.

 

[Justfantasies]

I noticed no matter what your sexual fetish, a common theme is to watch your wife being touched by another man - be it some sexual scene, voyeur scene, or fetish scene like some other guy playing with your wife's ass, legs, tits or feet. How common is this?

I think it is very common. I have talked about it with other guys and they all agree it is very hot. But there are different reactions to it when it really happens. Some guys who aren't the jealous type like to sit back and enjoy the show. Others who are a little shyer says they feel a funny feeling inside, like they should be doing something but are more or less paralyzed.

As for me, I love it when guys touch my wife. The hottest time was probably when I saw this guy kiss my wife on the lips

 

[philgill11]

Are you asking how common it is among F&S Forum members, how common among Lit members and readers as a whole, or how common is it among the overall population?

Some on here will insist that all three are about 110%. Others doubt whether asking such a question of F&S members is a sensible sample to be using if you want a meaningful answer.

I was thinking overall society. Otherwise it would be like thinking incest fantasies are common among the general public, when really it is only "normalized" here.

 

[philgill11]

I think it is very common. I have talked about it with other guys and they all agree it is very hot. But there are different reactions to it when it really happens. Some guys who aren't the jealous type like to sit back and enjoy the show. Others who are a little shyer says they feel a funny feeling inside, like they should be doing something but are more or less paralyzed.

As for me, I love it when guys touch my wife. The hottest time was probably when I saw this guy kiss my wife on the lips

You're right it is a catch 22 situation. On one hand you are jealous, on the other you are sexually aroused. I think it is difficult to institute in real life without causing marital problems.

 

[Green_Knight]

A study by the Kinsey Institute in 2005 found that between 2 and 4 per cent of married couples engaged in swinging. That, of course, includes cases where both partners swap as well as those in which one partner 'shares' the other. Assuming that the two groups are about equal, that means that between 1 and 2 per cent of married couples engage in 'wife sharing'.

You might want to bear those figures in mind when trying to quantify replies of "quite common" on here.

Of course, more people will have such fantasies than actually put them into practice but that is probably true of all fantasies.

 

[philgill11]

A study by the Kinsey Institute in 2005 found that between 2 and 4 per cent of married couples engaged in swinging. That, of course, includes cases where both partners swap as well as those in which one partner 'shares' the other. Assuming that the two groups are about equal, that means that between 1 and 2 per cent of married couples engage in 'wife sharing'.

You might want to bear those figures in mind when trying to quantify replies of "quite common" on here.

Of course, more people will have such fantasies than actually put them into practice but that is probably true of all fantasies.

That seems like an incredibly high number of people swinging.

 

[Green_Knight]

That seems like an incredibly high number of people swinging.

But a lot fewer than some on here would have you believe.

 

[policywank]

A study by the Kinsey Institute in 2005 found that between 2 and 4 per cent of married couples engaged in swinging. That, of course, includes cases where both partners swap as well as those in which one partner 'shares' the other. Assuming that the two groups are about equal, that means that between 1 and 2 per cent of married couples engage in 'wife sharing'.

You might want to bear those figures in mind when trying to quantify replies of "quite common" on here.

Of course, more people will have such fantasies than actually put them into practice but that is probably true of all fantasies.

It stands to reason that there are other cohorts of couples:
- where only one partner is interested in sharing,
- those that are into "open" marriages as opposed to swinging (although maybe the study didn't distinguish)
- those that have this fetish fantasy but are loath to admit it because they have been raised to believe that it is wrong
- and, as you say, those that have the fantasy but don't put it into practice

Nevertheless I think it is still a fairly small minority of people who have this fetish fantasy.

 

[screwher]

Asking a group of guys in a fetish section of a sex forum you're going to get some askewed stats. But when asking Joe Average the numbers will be a lot lower. That said though, I do believe there are a lot of husbands that have this fantasy secretly but would never share it. Even anonymously on the internet.

 

[Green_Knight]

It stands to reason that there are other cohorts of couples:
- where only one partner is interested in sharing,
- those that are into "open" marriages as opposed to swinging (although maybe the study didn't distinguish)
- those that have this fetish fantasy but are loath to admit it because they have been raised to believe that it is wrong
- and, as you say, those that have the fantasy but don't put it into practice

Nevertheless I think it is still a fairly small minority of people who have this fetish fantasy.

AFAIR the study included open marriages and included 'one interested partner' marriages where those concerned were the second M in MFM situations or F in FMFs. However, it didn't explore fantasy v reality.

Please don't ask me to read through the report again. There is nothing so destructive of the libido as an academic article about sex.

 

[CindyCD478]

It is also common for the wife to want to watch her husband get fucked by another man. We trade lovers regularly.

 

[Carling229]

A few years back my wife surprised me by asking if we should look to involving other people in our sex life. We looked into it and talked about what we would like to do with another couple. I was excited by this and my wife seemed keen on the idea.

But after a couple of weeks she decided she didn't want us to meet anyone else. I have mentioned it to her the odd time but she says she's not interested. I would have like to have watched her with a couple

 

[lynn-23]

A few years back my wife surprised me by asking if we should look to involving other people in our sex life. We looked into it and talked about what we would like to do with another couple. I was excited by this and my wife seemed keen on the idea.

But after a couple of weeks she decided she didn't want us to meet anyone else. I have mentioned it to her the odd time but she says she's not interested. I would have like to have watched her with a couple

That is interesting Carling. I wonder if she had that fantasy, but after it moved from fantasy to something that might actually happen, maybe she got scared/nervous and backed off. Perhaps you should tell her it doesnt have to ever happen, but could be fun to just fantasize about or role play. Somethings are exciting but maybe better left in fantasy (at least for now.)

 

[policywank]

AFAIR the study included open marriages and included 'one interested partner' marriages where those concerned were the second M in MFM situations or F in FMFs. However, it didn't explore fantasy v reality.

Please don't ask me to read through the report again. There is nothing so destructive of the libido as an academic article about sex.

Lol - ya that is kind of why I didn't read it.

I wonder how the participants feel and whether the potentially sterile nature of it affects their responses.

 

[bsanchez2100]

How common? With me... 100%

 

[Carling229]

That is interesting Carling. I wonder if she had that fantasy, but after it moved from fantasy to something that might actually happen, maybe she got scared/nervous and backed off. Perhaps you should tell her it doesnt have to ever happen, but could be fun to just fantasize about or role play. Somethings are exciting but maybe better left in fantasy (at least for now.)

Yeah it could be that, she did even tell me that she would like to explore her bi side as well. She can be quite shy regarding sex sometimes but when she is in the mood she is very horny. I don't think she will ever want to go through with a 3 or 4some. We have not long come back off holiday and I always know when we go away she is always up for sex.

 

[o2baPrince]

How common? With me... 100%

Do you get shared?

 

[Carling229]

Earlier this year I get to do share somebody else's wife. It was exciting to have a guy watch me as I licked her and made her cum then fucked her in different positions. He fucked her after I had filled her pussy as he liked the feel of another guys cum inside her when he got to fuck her. He was also bi as well which added to the fun, she watched while we had a little play together.

 

[philgill11]

It's weird I know, but I would like to see another guy playing with my wife's feet. Yet I am in horror when I think of him doing anything else with her.

 

[mikendel]

It took years for her to agree to be shared. Then it would happen 2 times a year and we both had fun with it. Taking pictures of her with men and them we would look at them later and both get turned on again. I almost always watch and not join in. Now 20 years later it happens 1-2 a month and we have lots of videos and pictures to look at and enjoy. One thing I nave never done is forced her or pushed her to have sex.

 

[MastersDelight]

We have entertained the idea before. Master was the one who brought it up, I was the one to start putting it into motion. I would love to watch him with another woman as well as be shared myself. The more real it became the more he began to doubt so for now we just flirt and touch at parties. So far he's LOVED watching me be fondled and spanked by others.

 

[sterculius]

Ever since my wife admitted to me that she used to enjoy sucking on her ex husbands very big cock, I have dreams of watching her getting her throat fucked by some hung stud.

 

[screwher]

Ever since my wife admitted to me that she used to enjoy sucking on her ex husbands very big cock, I have dreams of watching her getting her throat fucked by some hung stud.

I wish my wife had stories like that of an ex that fucked her brains out. Unfortunately the one guy before was a dud.