Endless Curiosity

[ydahecnot]

Isn't there a thread for that?

Yeah, but sometimes I stray

 

[Trekka]

Lit couples come and go so it's hard to keep track of the players sometimes.

*tickle tackle* Someone who knows about such things should make a master list that we can all reference.

Lol. What she said, Twisty! *tickle tackle*

 

[makemewet69]

Lit, once you’ve been here a while, is something of a small community. You get to know people. Some well, some just familiar faces on the board. Where are your boundaries - hypothetical or real - when it comes to picking playmates?

Is anyone fair game? Do you draw the line at interfering with Lit couples? What if you suspect you and a friend are interested in the same person? What about friend’s exes?

I met CJ on here very early into my Lit experience. I didn't know who he'd "played" with when we first met. We just clicked and everything fell into place here and in real life. I'm a flirt, he's well aware of that. Just like I'm aware that so is he. He lets me do as I wish and visa versa. I have my own personal boundaries for what I will or won't do - he's the only one I'm phone sexing or getting off with.

I've never been one to mess around with someone else's guy and since I don't mess around, it's not a concern. Flirt, yes, mess around, no.

 

[ViciousTease]

Lit, once you’ve been here a while, is something of a small community. You get to know people. Some well, some just familiar faces on the board. Where are your boundaries - hypothetical or real - when it comes to picking playmates?

Is anyone fair game? Do you draw the line at interfering with Lit couples? What if you suspect you and a friend are interested in the same person? What about friend’s exes?

In answer to the question ...

-I'm pretty selective. To be honest the person has to be able to get through the barriers I place and only a few have ever done it.

^^This.

-I try to stay away from exes if I can.

^^This is my motto both online and off.

Leave me to my bitterness....

Nope.

There you go asking about boundaries again. Lol

Hey, I like boundaries. I enjoy crossing them.

 

[ydahecnot]

I met CJ on here very early into my Lit experience. I didn't know who he'd "played" with when we first met. We just clicked and everything fell into place here and in real life. I'm a flirt, he's well aware of that. Just like I'm aware that so is he. He lets me do as I wish and visa versa. I have my own personal boundaries for what I will or won't do - he's the only one I'm phone sexing or getting off with.

I've never been one to mess around with someone else's guy and since I don't mess around, it's not a concern. Flirt, yes, mess around, no.

It's best not to think of the other's past. You'll drive yourself crazy looking for nuances in her interactions with others. Just assume we all have a Lit past and commit to the present.

 

[emsway]

It's best not to think of the other's past. You'll drive yourself crazy looking for nuances in her interactions with others. Just assume we all have a Lit past and commit to the present.

Even in the present I just assume that anyone I am talking to is also talking to others. And unless they say otherwise, probably has several playmates. I think it's safer that way.

 

[midwestyankee]

What's the question again? Type it slowly so the old man can follow it this time around.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

What's the question again? Type it slowly so the old man can follow it this time around.

We want to know how big your... harem is.

 

[curvyangel1969]

Even in the present I just assume that anyone I am talking to is also talking to others. And unless they say otherwise, probably has several playmates. I think it's safer that way.

I'm with Ems here. It is safer to assume That's the case.
I totally respect the person who admits to it freely. I may not choose to be a part of his harem but I respect it and we usually end up being friends. As for me personally. I am a one at a time type and if you're the one that's all I need. Upon reflection, I think this is why I suck at dating.

 

[Inspirinious]

Even in the present I just assume that anyone I am talking to is also talking to others. And unless they say otherwise, probably has several playmates. I think it's safer that way.

Well said.

 

[AKentuckyLady]

I'm with Ems here. It is safer to assume That's the case.
I totally respect the person who admits to it freely. I may not choose to be a part of his harem but I respect it and we usually end up being friends. As for me personally. I am a one at a time type and if you're the one that's all I need. Upon reflection, I think this is why I suck at dating.

^^ What she said, 100%.

 

[midwestyankee]

We want to know how big your... harem is.

The only way to find out is to join. First opening is in January. Chicago January.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

So, how 'bout those igneous rock formations?
I hear granite is the new "marble" when it comes to kitchen counters..

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

The only way to find out is to join. First opening is in January. Chicago January.

You want me to leave California and go to Chicago in January?? But I will miss the Great 48 Bluegrass Jam!

And bedsides, thermal underwear is not a sexy look on me.

So, how 'bout those igneous rock formations?
I hear granite is the new "marble" when it comes to kitchen counters..

ha ha ha ha ha

 

[emsway]

I'm with Ems here. It is safer to assume That's the case.
I totally respect the person who admits to it freely. I may not choose to be a part of his harem but I respect it and we usually end up being friends. As for me personally. I am a one at a time type and if you're the one that's all I need. Upon reflection, I think this is why I suck at dating.

I also mentally insert *subject to change at any time* when someone tells me about their platonic Lit friendships.

 

[DarkSimian]

I'm with Ems here. It is safer to assume That's the case.
I totally respect the person who admits to it freely. I may not choose to be a part of his harem but I respect it and we usually end up being friends. As for me personally. I am a one at a time type and if you're the one that's all I need. Upon reflection, I think this is why I suck at dating.

Did she just say she sucked?

 

[curvyangel1969]

I also mentally insert *subject to change at any time* when someone tells me about their platonic Lit friendships.

You're a wise woman.

 

[Endless_Night]

I'm still waiting for the Master List! And possibly an invitation to MWY's harem.

 

[curvyangel1969]

Did she just say she sucked?

Only the lucky fucker I choose will know that for sure.

 

[DarkSimian]

Only the lucky fucker I choose will know that for sure.

*gets out a d20 to roll for initiative*

 

[curvyangel1969]

*gets out a d20 to roll for initiative*

I love when you speak nerd!

 

[DarkSimian]

I love when you speak nerd!

They see me mowin'
My front lawn
I know they're all thinking
I'm so White N' nerdy

 

[curvyangel1969]

They see me mowin'
My front lawn
I know they're all thinking
I'm so White N' nerdy

Thanks a bunch, now I have that song stuck in my head!

 

[DarkSimian]

Thanks a bunch, now I have that song stuck in my head!

You're welcome

 

[arnoldlane84]

Frog went a-courtin', and he did ride - uh-huh...