Indulging partners fetishes

[GingerFireFly]

Friday night I was with a partner (the guy from my Craigslist story actually- we recently started really seeing each other). This past time we were together I did full lingerie (corset, thong, seamed stockings). I also am comfortable indulging his foot fetish doing little things like taking his boxers off with my feet, letting him rub against me, and hold or fuck my feet as he fucks me.

I've been surprised at how pleased and surprised he seems at my willingness to indulge him. I've always felt like as long as someone's kink isn't an actual turn off to me, it's not a big deal to incorporate it into our sex life.

It got me wondering. How do most people feel on that? Would you indulge a lovers kink if it wasn't your thing? Have your partners generally been willing to indulge yours?

 

[sweetnsourbunny]

Unless it involves anything illegal or harmful, I'll pretty much do anything to anyone.

 

[Jaime_H]

Unless it involves anything illegal or harmful, I'll pretty much do anything to anyone.

So accommodating..... *sigh*

 

[sweetnsourbunny]

So accommodating..... *sigh*

Hey, God gave us three holes, two hands, two feet, etc, so you might as well use 'em all.

 

[Jaime_H]

Hey, God gave us three holes, two hands, two feet, etc, so you might as well use 'em all.

I was sighing for me that they aren't available virtually.......

 

[sweetnsourbunny]

I was sighing for me that they aren't available virtually.......

I know. I was responding to the first part - a bit of the bunny's philosophy toward life - rather than the sigh.

 

[Jaime_H]

I know. I was responding to the first part - a bit of the bunny's philosophy toward life - rather than the sigh.

Gotcha, hun...... ma'am......

 

[sexywriterfla]

Hey, God gave us three holes, two hands, two feet, etc, so you might as well use 'em all.

That's fucking hot. Just saying.
Carry on.

 

[sexywriterfla]

I know. I was responding to the first part - a bit of the bunny's philosophy toward life - rather than the sigh.

When you write the book on that, I want a personally inscribed copy.

 

[sweetnsourbunny]

That's fucking hot. Just saying.
Carry on.

Thank you.

When you write the book on that, I want a personally inscribed copy.

You shall get a most personal copy indeed, don't worry.

Gotcha, hun...... ma'am......

*Sharpens axe*

 

[sexywriterfla]

Thank you.



You shall get a most personal copy indeed, don't worry.



*Sharpens axe*

Yay! And you'll get one of mine as well.

 

[mikendel]

That's what I love the most. Making fantasies come true. I will ask what theirs are and if not too crazy will make them happen. Cum on my face, down my throat, heels, feet, outfits. So much fun.

 

[willingtobeused]

You are perfect

 

[mikendel]

You are perfect

Lol. Thank you!!!

 

[txgent101]

As long as it is not illegal, hurtful, or something you just don't want to deal with:

“One Persons Kink is another's Dream Come True”

And, as Bogart's Sam Spade said about 'The Maltese Falcon': "That's the stuff dreams are made of".

 

[MrEd63]

As long as it is not illegal, hurtful, or something you just don't want to deal with:

“One Persons Kink is another's Dream Come True”

And, as Bogart's Sam Spade said about 'The Maltese Falcon': "That's the stuff dreams are made of".

I quite agree

 

[GingerFireFly]

So it makes sense to me that people here have that attitude but I'm curious, have you found real world partners have a similar attitude?

 

[roc23]

Last three women I've been with have been pretty open about their kinks. None were out of this world kinky.

Although one woman had a thing for her daughter.

And I can be into just about anything besides BDSM. Really does nothing for me. I'd like the girl to be able to move around and do whatever she wants.

 

[clistenovena]

So it makes sense to me that people here have that attitude but I'm curious, have you found real world partners have a similar attitude?

Since everyone here is real world, I'm guessing you mean face-to-face partners, right? If so, then 'yes' is my answer. I've had partners that were willing to indulge me in my freaky kinks, and I responded to their kinks in much the same way, perhaps more enthusiastically as I do adore making another's fantasies come to fruition. I've definitely pushed my own limits at times, but experiencing a partner's passionate response when they get just what they want...well, that's a high for me.

 

[RawHumor]

So it makes sense to me that people here have that attitude but I'm curious, have you found real world partners have a similar attitude?

My last few real world partners have been people I've made sure had some kinks in common with me first. That way, I knew there would be some flexibility.

 

[screwher]

My wife/fetish

I'm eagerly anticipating my wife indulging my fetish. I have this thing for other men screwing her. In the past she's dropped her panties for two other men already. But those were cheating situations with out my knowledge or approval. After she confessed her second tryst I confessed the idea of her having sex with other men turned me on. She now has my blessing for a third. And yes, I would eventually like to watch as he fucks her.

 

[carlsnake]

My primary fetish is having my wife tell me about being screwed by other men before we were married. She accommodates me during foreplay and while I'm actually eating her pussy or fucking her. Her only fetish is "forced sex" when she wants me to simulate rape, tie her spreadeagled on the bed and fuck her. Both of us enjoy that.