Edging

[kdb]

I see lots of comments about edging. Who's into it? Do people perfect this as a solo masturbation thing or with someone who controls the pace. Having never edged I'm curious....

 

[Conchabar]

tbh, i think it depends who's doing it etc... it can enhance sexual experiences greatly.

I love doing it to a woman, prolonging the feeling, sometimes denying orgasm completely before bringing back to the edge again before letting that one final push to take them over the edge.

Its just my personal preference though

 

[Bigspurt]

For myself, it's just how I take care of myself when I am by myself. The difference between edging and plain old jacking off is that edging prolongs the eventual orgasm. It takes practice, but to stop in time and maybe ooze some semen with out the contractions is key. Tasting always makes me enjoy it even more, however tasting also encourages the eventual orgasm so I have to be careful. Sometimes I ooze so much that when the final contractions arrive, there isn't much left to spurt.
Another benefit is that I have been able to apply the technique when I have my wife sucking my cock. She will never willingly suck me to CIM. Never. But if I ask her to stop and I ooze a little, it catches her by surprise and that's always fun.

 

[SwtSassyNrse26]

tbh, i think it depends who's doing it etc... it can enhance sexual experiences greatly.

I love doing it to a woman, prolonging the feeling, sometimes denying orgasm completely before bringing back to the edge again before letting that one final push to take them over the edge.

Its just my personal preference though

Webster didn't describe it quite this nicely

 

[Beadishly]

I think it is useful to have the skills. Solo, it allows longer play and often a more intense finish. With others, the greater control over pacing allows much more flexibility in meeting the needs and desires of all involved (see also benefits of Solo).

 

[fieryredbbw]

Almost always when I play solo I end up edging and playing for a pretty long time (except for the solo quickies on break at work ), seeing how long I can hold out and then when I finally give in its almost an overwhelming orgasm.

With a partner I do it less often but when I do for me it is more of a control thing, I enjoy being teased to the edge and back over and over, never knowing when I'm going to be pushed over the edge, being desperate for it yet loving the tease of it. And again the overwhelming pleasure when I am finally pushed over.

 

[Tallulah82]

tbh, i think it depends who's doing it etc... it can enhance sexual experiences greatly.

I love doing it to a woman, prolonging the feeling, sometimes denying orgasm completely before bringing back to the edge again before letting that one final push to take them over the edge.

Its just my personal preference though

Exactly

Personally I love a day or two of edging. To bring myself up to that constant level of turned-on (be it through reading Lit stories, flirting and beyond). Whilst there are solo moments of masturbation it is not to find that final glorious explosion. At least, not for a while.

If you have not tried edging before then I would highly recommend it

 

[Friendlymann]

I enjoy the feeling of being close to orgasm for a long time. I've found that one of the best ways to achieve that, without giving in too quickly, is chatting with someone else doing just the same, building up mutual tension.

 

[WalterRaleigh]

Exactly

Personally I love a day or two of edging. To bring myself up to that constant level of turned-on (be it through reading Lit stories, flirting and beyond). Wilst there are solo moments of masturbation it is not to find that final glorious explosion. At least, not for a while.

If you have not tried edging before then I would highly recommend it

This.

 

[grant8064]

I've never managed a day or two (life comes first) but sometimes i'll do 5 - 7 hours in the evening. Lots of lube and having dinner before starting would be the only tips I would suggest!

For me it is the only way I can make a solo orgasm satisfying...quick 5 minute morning wanks are purely to ease a need and not especially exciting or enjoyable.

 

[ticklemyclit_]

I've never managed a day or two (life comes first) but sometimes i'll do 5 - 7 hours in the evening. Lots of lube and having dinner before starting would be the only tips I would suggest!

For me it is the only way I can make a solo orgasm satisfying...quick 5 minute morning wanks are purely to ease a need and not especially exciting or enjoyable.

Agree with you on this. I love spending hours to myself of an evening to just to take myself to the edge and back. It does make such a difference when you finally let go too. Bliss!

 

[Jonny G]

Love taking as long as possible , it's so very erotic , much prefer to be connected with a like minded female to relax and play with , edge for ages then over the edge

 

[mightyquinnj7]

Agree with you on this. I love spending hours to myself of an evening to just to take myself to the edge and back. It does make such a difference when you finally let go too. Bliss!

That release after hours of getting so close is amazing! My favorite lube is precum and a little saliva. Rubbing up and down, caressing the head, teasing and barely touching...

 

[happyplayer]

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Am an Edging addict. At this stage if I don't edge for hours I don't feel I have cum properly. It's amazing to keep at that higher level for so long. The brain is in a different place and the stimulation is unreal. Lit is a perfect haven for Edgers. Love to hear from fellow edgers (female) to discuss

 

[nathan122]

over the course of days

I love it as well, and would often go for hours each evening when I was single. Lately, when my privacy is harder to find, I find that I can stimulate my body and mind on and off throughout the day, sometimes closer to the edge, sometimes not, and allow the desire to build over the course of days, or even weeks, until... an incredibly mind-bending release. I agree with Bigspurt too... I love to lick the precum along the way. On occasion, with good time close to the edge, I have even generated copious amounts of precum, which is an incredible experience all by itself. Now it's one of the things I strive for along the way.

 

[nsymserotica]

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