What does sex after having children feel like?

[pisces_girl]

Ladies, what changes? what's different? what are the adjustments? The thought keeps coming into my head and I don't have anyone in my immediate life who I can ask. Share if you feel comfortable.

 

[DrRickMarshall]

Best pussy I ever had was from a woman who had recently had a baby. Was a year later and she had been doing keegals nonstop. Truely amazing to be inside!

 

[suckonsimon]

I'll speak for my woman, as I remember our conversations about this.

She needed a long break - it was six weeks - before she felt ready. And then it was great from first time, for me and for her. She was deliciously snug and silky moist as ever. And, as she was breast feeding, her breasts being fuller, her nipples large and the occasional spill onto my chest was a lovely celebration of what we had.

But the really significant thing: Becoming a mother somehow freed her more into owning and enjoying her sensuality, such that the range of our play and the ease of her orgasms coming took a step up, and we never stepped down again.

She had slight stretch marks for a good long while. I think I succeeded in evaporating her concern about that by adoring her belly with kisses and hands all the more.

I guess that's another thing: For sure her man by his attitude and actions can help, or severely hinder, a woman's return to sexual fulfillment after child birth.

 

[Green_Knight]

I'll speak for my woman, as I remember our conversations about this.

She needed a long break - it was six weeks - before she felt ready. And then it was great from first time, for me and for her. She was deliciously snug and silky moist as ever. And, as she was breast feeding, her breasts being fuller, her nipples large and the occasional spill onto my chest was a lovely celebration of what we had.

But the really significant thing: Becoming a mother somehow freed her more into owning and enjoying her sensuality, such that the range of our play and the ease of her orgasms coming took a step up, and we never stepped down again.

She had slight stretch marks for a good long while. I think I succeeded in evaporating her concern about that by adoring her belly with kisses and hands all the more.

I guess that's another thing: For sure her man by his attitude and actions can help, or severely hinder, a woman's return to sexual fulfillment after child birth.

Wise and thoughtful words from Simon, as ever.

I wonder, though, if part of your thoughts are about the stretching involved in childbirth and the long-term effects that it might have. The good news is that the vagina has remarkable powers of recovery and it takes a lot to stretch it permanently. In fact, many women expand very considerably during ordinary arousal.

Having said that, all of our muscles (and the vagina is a muscle) lose something with age. That applies as much to men and their cocks as to women and their vaginas. Doing kegel-type exercises is good for both sexes and will not only keep things nice and erect/tight down there but will also help to avoid other problems of the older years such as incontinence. And they can be fun. One of my girlfriends used to get so embarrassed when I sat on a train or bus with her with a book on my lap, and proceeded to bounce it up and down.

 

[MissCautious]

I'll speak for my woman, as I remember our conversations about this.

She needed a long break - it was six weeks - before she felt ready. And then it was great from first time, for me and for her. She was deliciously snug and silky moist as ever. And, as she was breast feeding, her breasts being fuller, her nipples large and the occasional spill onto my chest was a lovely celebration of what we had.

But the really significant thing: Becoming a mother somehow freed her more into owning and enjoying her sensuality, such that the range of our play and the ease of her orgasms coming took a step up, and we never stepped down again.

She had slight stretch marks for a good long while. I think I succeeded in evaporating her concern about that by adoring her belly with kisses and hands all the more.

I guess that's another thing: For sure her man by his attitude and actions can help, or severely hinder, a woman's return to sexual fulfillment after child birth.

That's really lovely. Good man

 

[StrongMaster7]

Yeah, same here. After the first baby, a few weeks hiatus, then back to our regular, felt exactly the same as before. Same thing after the second.

 

[Lucien_Al]

My wife has had 4 children from her first marriage and when I met her she had not had sex in 4 years. She was to tight to start with that I could barely get get into her. The only change for me is that if we have a really prolonged session with toys, fingers and various position she does get quite "loose" and it does not seem to tighten very quickly but is normally back to being nice and tight the following day.

 

[SmokingFap]

I think sex after my wife having two sons felt even better than ever. The first delivery was brutal for my ex-wife. She had to be literally sewn up. But they asked her if she'd like to be a little tighter when they did it. She smiled brightly and said yes!

 

[curiouschattycouple]

Only real change was breastfeeding multiple kids reduced the sensitivity of my nipples. Stretch marks suck though.

 

[SmokingFap]

Only real change was breastfeeding multiple kids reduced the sensitivity of my nipples. Stretch marks suck though.Oh,please, don't oeven you can't even started on breastfeeding!

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

After giving birth to my son I began doing Keigel exercises to get my vagina back in shape. My OB recommended six weeks before having intercourse again. The first time we had sex after the waiting period, my husband was gentle , a bit worried to go at it at first. I asked him if he could tell a difference but he assured me there really wasn't any between the tightness before and after. It also did not lessen my desire at all except dealing with the challenges of taking care of a newborn. Sex was not as frequent as before and I was tired a lot which all women who have given birth can understand.

On a side note, after having had a full hysterectomy fifteen years ago, my sex drive actually increased. I was worried the opposite would happen as I had known of women losing interest afterwards. Thankfully that did not happen with me.