Needing to feel sexual again...

[MakeMeSweat]

.....

 

[SassySheDevil]

I think we all wish for this. To feel wanted and desired.

 

[seth6138]

The most basic of human desires, to be touched.

 

[MakeMeSweat]

.....

 

[JTS4jo]

someone said it, but can't remember who,...."its not the having, its the getting, its the thrill of the chase, the excitement of the hunt, that rush you can only get by reaching for the unknown."

I think that sums up how anyone of us feels about that attractive member of the opposite sex giving us come hither looks from across the room. We don't know dick about them except they are attractive and making eye contact, presumably to invite you to take the leap and learn more.

 

[SubHarleyQuinn]

But sometimes it's the curse of online...we seek the thrill, the excitement, the chase...and then when true connections are established we get bored and start the cycle again. Too many options and it's too easy to pick up or discard someone...it makes it hard to find something meaningful.

 

[angelfish01]

It's human nature to want to be picked....be the one.......not be left out.....
It's a wonderful feeling when someone looks at you and says with his eyes.......you are the one..............

 

[EllAyyBee]

Beautifully written, lovely honest post. I feel your pain and your passion. Well done.

 

[MakeMeSweat]

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[ashesatwork]

I have come to the conclusion that what I desire/seek is never meant for me to actually have. So might as well not seek or desire it anymore in real or fantasy life.

I doubt that is truth. What you have to do is stop looking and let it find you

 

[MakeMeSweat]

.....

 

[thaneofcawdor]

I think we all wish for this. To feel wanted and desired.

Oh God, yes.... its why I am here...

 

[MakeMeSweat]

Oh God, yes.... its why I am here...

Well.. get your own thread then

Just kidding... arent we all here for that reason... some of us luck out (or in)... some of us... oh well... such is life I guess.

Oh wait, I think I am supposed to make myself seem more desirable.

 

[MakeMeSweat]

I think I should become a monk....

 

[luvsfantasies88]

I just registered with this site, because of your posts. I could have written the same things you did. I am a married female that never gets touched, so I totally get your wants and needs. Don't become a monk, I would like to connect.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

I'm actually going to throw my vote to the monastery today...

 

[MakeMeSweat]

I'm actually going to throw my vote to the monastery today...

Not sure how to take that.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Not sure how to take that.

Smile today. Remember.

 

[thaneofcawdor]

I just registered with this site, because of your posts. I could have written the same things you did. I am a married female that never gets touched, so I totally get your wants and needs. Don't become a monk, I would like to connect.

I would love to connect, as well, Luvs...

 

[MakeMeSweat]

I would love to connect, as well, Luvs...

Dude... Step off

 

[EllAyyBee]

Dude... Step off

This cracks me up! You tell him darlin!

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Not sure how to take that.

It was not intended to be hurtful. I think what you desire is normal, and most humans seek it out until they find it.

I was just feeling sad at the prospects before me, and responded in the only way that actually reflected my feelings currently on the likelihood of finding that "spark" with someone again.

 

[Illbeyourhuckleberry]

I have come to the conclusion that what I desire/seek is never meant for me to actually have. So might as well not seek or desire it anymore in real or fantasy life.

I have come to similar conclusions. After almost 10 years in the military I pretty much just work and then go to the gym for sparring. My wife won't live with me so I pay rent on two houses and pretty much see my daughter on the weekends. I remember I used to be attractive but now all I really do is work and fight. Also gave up porn which led me here. Sucks that there is so much lonliness but it's reassuring to know there are other people just as lonely.

 

[RuneBlade]

Dude... Step off

You seem to have come to the conclusion that you somehow 'own' the thread you created on a public forum and that you can exert some control over who can converse with whom and on what topics.

This is incorrect. You may wish to 'slow your roll'.