Reality Check - Questions for the ladies

[CeasarBoobage]

Hey all you Lovely Ladies of Lit, I've got a few questions for you regarding a story I'm writing.

We all know that fiction, especially for most stuff here on Lit, requires a suspension of belief. That being said, I like to keep most of my stories somewhat grounded in reality, so I'd like your help with this. Could you let me know how you would act to the below questions?

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Plot line:

In the late summer, Hubby and Wife are at party hosted by a relative of his, attended mostly by his family, and almost all of the party-goers are married. It's at a house with lots of trees spread thickly across several acres, and there is a pond on part of their land. Wife has recently admitted to her hubby that she's looking to expand their sex lives by bringing another person into the mix, both M&F, and that she's possibly bi-curious, and she's willing to try bringing to life Hubby's fantasy of them both being an exhibitionist.

At this party, I'm not sure yet if this couple will be having any kind of sex with anyone else, but there will at least be some playtime, at a minimum pretending they don't know they have a silent observer watching them from behind a tree while they get busy.

Hubby&Wife want to play with others a little, and there's a few people at the party that know how to keep a secret, so the couple seeks out these people one at a time (not sure yet if they will be single or married). At the lake, there is the possibility of women flashing or going topless/nude, and for anywhere, there's the potential for groping and a little making out.

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My questions for you ladies:

I'm not sure if all of these will make it into the story, but your perspective would be greatly appreciated.
As a woman, if you were at a party and had a few drinks and were good friends with couple, what do you think you would do if:
1. Wife, who was acting very silly, made Hubby grope you on the breasts or butt?
2. If there was no one around, would you flash Hubby if Wife asked you to?
3. Again, with no one around, would you take off your top to let both of them see and touch your silicon-enhanced boobs? He's never seen/touched them in real life, and she just wants to play.
4a. You are talking to Hubby and his brother, and Wife sneaks up behind them, her finger over her lips asking you to stay quiet. Wife grabs their hands and pushes forward, making them grab your boobs. Would you laugh it off, let it happen, or punch her in the nose and walk away?
4b. (follow-up) The next time you saw her, would you make another man grope her as payback? Do anything as payback?
5. Smokers: If you forgot your pack somewhere, what would you do to get one from the couple? Kiss either of them? Flash Hubby? Be somehow exposed the whole time you're smoking?


Thanks all, and feel free to share your story if you have experienced any of these items.

Feel free to PM answers if you don't want to share with the world.

 

[CeasarBoobage]

Bump back to the first page.

Anyone care to share?

 

[sidonie45]

For your story, I think you should go with your own ideas, not ones that belong to someone else.

How can you truely immerse yourself in the character if someone is else is saying how that character should feel or do. No one knows the character more than its creator, and because of this, your characters become more believable because you have angst over what they said, feel or felt in created situations.

My 2 cents. Take it or leave it.

 

[CeasarBoobage]

For your story, I think you should go with your own ideas, not ones that belong to someone else.

How can you truely immerse yourself in the character if someone is else is saying how that character should feel or do. No one knows the character more than its creator, and because of this, your characters become more believable because you have angst over what they said, feel or felt in created situations.

My 2 cents. Take it or leave it.

Thanks for your response, sidonie45. "My own ideas" are something that comes from a man's mind, and even though I've made up lots of scenarios in different stories, it doesn't always translate very well to how a real woman would react. Hiding in my mind, based on my life experiences, I have an idea how a fictional woman may respond, but I don't know if there would be a completely different answer in her mind that she is hesitant to vocalize.

I'm still interested in hearing if anyone has a response though. Anywhere from "If the wife asked me to flash her husband, twelve seconds later we would all be having sex" to "I'd punch her teeth out", as long it's how you think you'd respond.

 

[LauraWilling]

I'll give it a shot, but my life, work and lifestyle is somewhat different than most women, but closer to most women on Lit. So here goes, best I can answer.

My questions for you ladies:

I'm not sure if all of these will make it into the story, but your perspective would be greatly appreciated.
As a woman, if you were at a party and had a few drinks and were good friends with couple, what do you think you would do if:
1. Wife, who was acting very silly, made Hubby grope you on the breasts or butt?

If I knew she was tipsy and in the conversation with here and her hubby, I would probably laugh it off, try to say something funny back to her and him, and I might stay there or politely move on. It depends on them in some ways. I've had my boobies grabbed before

2. If there was no one around, would you flash Hubby if Wife asked you to?

Yes. I am very much an exhibitionist as well as other things.

3. Again, with no one around, would you take off your top to let both of them see and touch your silicon-enhanced boobs? He's never seen/touched them in real life, and she just wants to play.

Well mine are the real deal, no fantastic plastic for me or in me, but I doubt I would take my top off, but I might raise it or open it and let them see and feel me if she was the instigator. I doubt most women would do that, but I am "that kind of girl at parties with certain friends.

4a. You are talking to Hubby and his brother, and Wife sneaks up behind them, her finger over her lips asking you to stay quiet. Wife grabs their hands and pushes forward, making them grab your boobs. Would you laugh it off, let it happen, or punch her in the nose and walk away?

If you mean her hubby, this is basically the same question as the first only adding his brother. I would do the same, so see answer to #1.

4b. (follow-up) The next time you saw her, would you make another man grope her as payback? Do anything as payback?

No. It would not have bothered me since it was just messing around and being silly. I have had similar things like this happen so I am answering to a similar real experiences.

5. Smokers: If you forgot your pack somewhere, what would you do to get one from the couple? Kiss either of them? Flash Hubby? Be somehow exposed the whole time you're smoking?

Sorry can't answer this one as I do not smoke. Although at parties like this my wardrobe is usually rather exposing anyway.

Next question....

 

[CeasarBoobage]

I'll give it a shot, but my life, work and lifestyle is somewhat different than most women, but closer to most women on Lit. So here goes, best I can answer.

Awesome, thank you LauraWilling, and you point about the 'most women on Lit' is recognized as well.
You must be popular at parties.

 

[LauraWilling]

I had my moments at parties. Probably more "moment's" than any one deserves. I had fun I guess is what I am saying.
If you have other questions, I would be happy to try and answer them. Publicly or privately. Your choice. You may not wish to layout what you are writing about to all is why I am open to either.

 

[ropebunny87]

Here's my two cents...

1. Wife, who was acting very silly, made Hubby grope you on the breasts or butt?

If I had a few drinks in me I would probably yelp "hey!" then either smack or squeeze Hubby on the ass right back (I've had many a guy friend take a smack at my ass before, and that ended up being my default response).

2. If there was no one around, would you flash Hubby if Wife asked you to?

I'd probably giggle nervously, then say "Okay, but you have to do it with me"...and then comment on her tits.

3. Again, with no one around, would you take off your top to let both of them see and touch your silicon-enhanced boobs? He's never seen/touched them in real life, and she just wants to play.

At that point, probably. Especially if after flashing she made a comment about how they look, and can she feel them. If she's doing it I would be more inclined to let Hubby have a grab.

4a. You are talking to Hubby and his brother, and Wife sneaks up behind them, her finger over her lips asking you to stay quiet. Wife grabs their hands and pushes forward, making them grab your boobs. Would you laugh it off, let it happen, or punch her in the nose and walk away?

If tipsy, probably laugh it off but promise her payback.

4b. (follow-up) The next time you saw her, would you make another man grope her as payback? Do anything as payback?

Possibly.


Hopefully that helped! When I get tipsy I'm fairly flirtatious and relaxed, so having someone touch my ass or tits doesn't make me blush like it would if I were sober.

Sounds like an interesting story is in the works!

 

[ropebunny87]

I'll give it a shot, but my life, work and lifestyle is somewhat different than most women, but closer to most women on Lit. So here goes, best I can answer.

My questions for you ladies:

I'm not sure if all of these will make it into the story, but your perspective would be greatly appreciated.
As a woman, if you were at a party and had a few drinks and were good friends with couple, what do you think you would do if:
1. Wife, who was acting very silly, made Hubby grope you on the breasts or butt?

If I knew she was tipsy and in the conversation with here and her hubby, I would probably laugh it off, try to say something funny back to her and him, and I might stay there or politely move on. It depends on them in some ways. I've had my boobies grabbed before

2. If there was no one around, would you flash Hubby if Wife asked you to?

Yes. I am very much an exhibitionist as well as other things.

3. Again, with no one around, would you take off your top to let both of them see and touch your silicon-enhanced boobs? He's never seen/touched them in real life, and she just wants to play.

Well mine are the real deal, no fantastic plastic for me or in me, but I doubt I would take my top off, but I might raise it or open it and let them see and feel me if she was the instigator. I doubt most women would do that, but I am "that kind of girl at parties with certain friends.

4a. You are talking to Hubby and his brother, and Wife sneaks up behind them, her finger over her lips asking you to stay quiet. Wife grabs their hands and pushes forward, making them grab your boobs. Would you laugh it off, let it happen, or punch her in the nose and walk away?

If you mean her hubby, this is basically the same question as the first only adding his brother. I would do the same, so see answer to #1.

4b. (follow-up) The next time you saw her, would you make another man grope her as payback? Do anything as payback?

No. It would not have bothered me since it was just messing around and being silly. I have had similar things like this happen so I am answering to a similar real experiences.

5. Smokers: If you forgot your pack somewhere, what would you do to get one from the couple? Kiss either of them? Flash Hubby? Be somehow exposed the whole time you're smoking?

Sorry can't answer this one as I do not smoke. Although at parties like this my wardrobe is usually rather exposing anyway.

Next question....

Okay...well now I feel like I should have just copy-pasted your answers!!!

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

D(.)(.)

I'm not going back to re-read and comment on each story idea. But since I am an exhibitionist and love my boobies played with my answers are pretty much yes. I'll flash anyone anywhere there are not kids or police.
Sadly my boobs are real but squeezable.
I dont smoke so skip that part.
Skinny dipping is something we both do so that is also possible.
It's your story, write it any way you want. Most likely everything has been done in real life and in stories. Maybe even in our stories.

Speaking of wardrobes this is something I've worn for many years. Often I will unhook the top or bottom button or let a strap fall off my shoulder. As hubby says, be ready to party at all times. A mini skirt would be better worn for the party. Panties? Not unless family or kids are there.

http://i.imgur.com/BvHeh2N.jpg

 

[CeasarBoobage]

Loving these answers, thank you ladies!

 

[LauraWilling]

Okay...well now I feel like I should have just copy-pasted your answers!!!

Lol! Actually I was happy seeing your answers were so similar to mine. I was worried I was a little to accepting to those situations. I was in a business where there always seemed to be without asking and me agreeing to it. I thought I had gotten a little to accepting of that sort of thing. It happens more than most realize, just in different ways.

 

[Sheana_V]

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My questions for you ladies:

I'm not sure if all of these will make it into the story, but your perspective would be greatly appreciated.
As a woman, if you were at a party and had a few drinks and were good friends with couple, what do you think you would do if:
1. Wife, who was acting very silly, made Hubby grope you on the breasts or butt?

Okay, so all of these questions are highly contingent. Am I already attracted to this guy? Does she give any indication that I'm an autonomous individual?

Here's how it could work. She looks into my eyes while saying to her husband "Hey, you should grab her ass" and then laughs. In which case I may very well present said ass.

2. If there was no one around, would you flash Hubby if Wife asked you to?

I might do this even if she didn't ask.

3. Again, with no one around, would you take off your top to let both of them see and touch your silicon-enhanced boobs? He's never seen/touched them in real life, and she just wants to play.

It's hard for me to know if I'd feel different if I had implants. I would certainly have pause and consider whether I want things to really get sexual, because I'm sure this is going to get him hard.

4a. You are talking to Hubby and his brother, and Wife sneaks up behind them, her finger over her lips asking you to stay quiet. Wife grabs their hands and pushes forward, making them grab your boobs. Would you laugh it off, let it happen, or punch her in the nose and walk away?

Punch her in the nose. This is not okay.

4b. (follow-up) The next time you saw her, would you make another man grope her as payback? Do anything as payback?

I don't know.

5. Smokers: If you forgot your pack somewhere, what would you do to get one from the couple? Kiss either of them? Flash Hubby? Be somehow exposed the whole time you're smoking?

I really like teasing, so I'd probably agree to being exposed the whole time.

 

[CindyCD478]

In our family everyone fucks everyone, so none of this is a issue.