Feeling lonely

[Cherrybomb400]

So I'm feeling lonely, honestly not sure of what I want. I could just want conversation, some dirty talk, or roleplaying.

Just been feeling sad because I'm thirty years old. I haven't been in a relationship since 2012, that includes sex. I'm not the kind of person who just hooks up with someone. Flirting and talking dirty with someone over PM and messenger is one thing, face to face is very different.

I also worry that if I do actually meet and connect with someone and I share with them my kinks that I'm not going to be accepted. I also don't plan on hiding Lit from them.

Anyone else in the same boat? Bored and wanting to chat?

 

[_man_]

I think I know how you feel. Except I am married. A friend recently said to me "When I got married, I had a wife, and then we had children and then she was a mother. There is a balance between mother and wife and she has become a mother." That is my situation, made worse by a lot of travel.

A lot of what I miss is intimacy. Not just sex, but the warm human intimacy that make people feel worthy and loved. Or at least appreciated.

 

[sweeeetpea]

Greetings from one lonely heart to another.

 

[Superman2008]

So I'm feeling lonely, honestly not sure of what I want. I could just want conversation, some dirty talk, or roleplaying.

Just been feeling sad because I'm thirty years old. I haven't been in a relationship since 2012, that includes sex. I'm not the kind of person who just hooks up with someone. Flirting and talking dirty with someone over PM and messenger is one thing, face to face is very different.

I also worry that if I do actually meet and connect with someone and I share with them my kinks that I'm not going to be accepted. I also don't plan on hiding Lit from them.

Anyone else in the same boat? Bored and wanting to chat?

I feel your pain. I hope you find what you're looking for.

 

[djchatter]

I know that feeling well. Yes, sex would be great, but more than that, just having someone listen, and be close, and share some kind of connection.

Always happy to chat if someone is looking for the same.

 

[luckyme99]

So I'm feeling lonely, honestly not sure of what I want. I could just want conversation, some dirty talk, or roleplaying.

Just been feeling sad because I'm thirty years old. I haven't been in a relationship since 2012, that includes sex. I'm not the kind of person who just hooks up with someone. Flirting and talking dirty with someone over PM and messenger is one thing, face to face is very different.

I also worry that if I do actually meet and connect with someone and I share with them my kinks that I'm not going to be accepted. I also don't plan on hiding Lit from them.

Anyone else in the same boat? Bored and wanting to chat?

Dear Cherry Bomb. I totally relate, I could have written the same post except that I am not 30.

Please do not think of yourself as 30 years old, rather that you are 30 years young. You are likely not even one-third through your life, take a deep breath and smile, that's it - cheer-up! Now drop me a line please.

 

[nowat41]

True.
Lonely and bored, I was planning to add a thread seeking anyone to have some conversation.

 

[just4friends]

Lots of like feelings here Cherry
Reach out to one

 

[brosephasaurus]

I can feel your pain, my wife decided completely out of the blue almost a year ago that she wanted a divorce, no signs of anything being wrong, and no real explanation. So needless to say I have yet to be able to move on

 

[brosephasaurus]

I can feel your pain, my wife decided completely out of the blue almost a year ago that she wanted a divorce, no signs of anything being wrong, and no real explanation. So needless to say I have yet to be able to move on.

 

[astra_aspera]

More to share...

True.
Lonely and bored, I was planning to add a thread seeking anyone to have some conversation.

Hi,

I'd be happy to engage in conversations beyond our RPs. Sharing the same ethnicity I think will help us explore subjects from a common ground. Drop me a line if you are inclined.

AA

 

[astra_aspera]

Nailed it....

I think I know how you feel. Except I am married. A friend recently said to me "When I got married, I had a wife, and then we had children and then she was a mother. There is a balance between mother and wife and she has become a mother." That is my situation, made worse by a lot of travel.

A lot of what I miss is intimacy. Not just sex, but the warm human intimacy that make people feel worthy and loved. Or at least appreciated.

Amen _man_,

Well said.

 

[Friendlymann]

Strange how such a populous planet can feel so lonely at times.

 

[ArthurW]

Cherryboomb400 all you have to be here is yourself. Tell what you want. Have fun and hopefully you find that connection.

 

[Whinston]

Online

I too am afraid to share my online presence in the real world. I have similar likes to you, but do not have the courage to let them out in real world relationships.

I hope you do find happiness, but do not let the pressure of needing to tell of your kinks out you off any possibilities. You may find that with the right guy you find your own kinks, together. And explore new and wonderful things. Don't go looking for a guy that will understand your online presence straight away as that is too much of an ask I think.

 

[ILuvSmalBreasts]

So I'm feeling lonely, honestly not sure of what I want. I could just want conversation, some dirty talk, or roleplaying.

Just been feeling sad because I'm thirty years old. I haven't been in a relationship since 2012, that includes sex. I'm not the kind of person who just hooks up with someone. Flirting and talking dirty with someone over PM and messenger is one thing, face to face is very different.

I also worry that if I do actually meet and connect with someone and I share with them my kinks that I'm not going to be accepted. I also don't plan on hiding Lit from them.

Anyone else in the same boat? Bored and wanting to chat?

You are not alone (at being alone). Like you, shy in real life, no mate in a looong time (longer that 2012). And like others have said, sex is missed, but intimacy is missed more.

 

[Cherrybomb400]

Thanks everyone. I'm glad to know that I am not alone. Hopefully this all passes soon. I feel better but there is still that feeling there, but it's no where near a bad as last night.

 

[donjuan15]

I'm around people all the time at work, but I feel lonely too. It's comforting to talk about how you're feeling. Therapeutic.

 

[SquishyBits]

I can feel your pain, my wife decided completely out of the blue almost a year ago that she wanted a divorce, no signs of anything being wrong, and no real explanation. So needless to say I have yet to be able to move on

I hope you and the OP have found some friendly souls to make a connection with. It has taken me awhile to find one or two who have helped to stave off my loneliness. Keep up the search there are those here who like to converse on many topics and varying levels of intimacy. When you find them they are worth the wait!

Also your username made me giggle!

 

[LostBabygirl3489]

I'm sorry that you're feeling so lonely. There are a lot of sweet people on here. No one will judge you.

 

[JTS4jo]

Sorry you're feeling lonely, I think its more and more common in our very "connected" world. Everyone can chat, text, email, skype, tweet, snapbook, and facechat, but its special to make a real connection.

 

[SquishyBits]

Sorry you're feeling lonely, I think its more and more common in our very "connected" world. Everyone can chat, text, email, skype, tweet, snapbook, and facechat, but its special to make a real connection.

I agree. I have all of these different options for communication and yet I feel like all they do is highlight my lack of connections.

 

[MrGoatee]

There is nothing worse than being in a relationship that has elements missing. These can be for lots of reasons and you don't want the relationship over, but need that missing element.

I find myself there

 

[grandprix1041]

Life is too short

Life is too short to be sad and lonely, be happy!

 

[grandprix1041]

True.
Lonely and bored, I was planning to add a thread seeking anyone to have some conversation.

you can contact me anytime on YIM golfnut543