ORAL SERVITUDE - redux

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Well for heaven's sake. I'm gone for a few hours and look what happens!
 
It is instinctual, a reflex, to reach out and lay my hands on her head or the back of her neck when she is in the throes of it. Completely lost in the moment and only vaguely aware of my voice, but my touch conveys everything she wants to know. Digging my fingers in to say that she's doing good, massaging to reward those sighs of happiness, pulling hair to test her resolve, pushing down to stifle those little snickers of self satisfaction, and leaning forward to run my hands along her body, teasing/pinching/squeezing/gripping to spur her on. I won't be idle, can't. It's all just a natural response to her showing me that devotion, her exaltation and my acknowledgement, affectionately displayed in flesh and sensation. The kind of thing I live for.

All of this but especially this.
 
His hands on me are the ultimate. His hands in my hair, something avoided at times because I have curly hair....so he knows if it gets messed up its messed up til it's wet again, I cannot just brush it out like many women, so when his hands go in my hair it's 'because he means it' and it's my favourite thing.

He is often gentle in my mouth, despite me being more worshipful than he wants praise, I have an easy gag reflex. When his hands come into play I know that it's harder for him to hold back, and I get more excited, I'll do anything for him then. When he doesn't hold back I am excited. Our agreement is I will use a hand or two on him as needed if I gag too much, but I wait until I am gagging.

When my hair is not used, the hand at the side of the face. It's so beautiful, the most beautiful feeling, it makes me want to cry. And I want to curl my arms around him and hold onto his backside and pull myself onto him beyond my comfort and ability. There are things he enjoys more though, and I confine myself to those, because that is how it is correct to worship him. And as the tears run down my face, if he wipes them with a thumb....the joy is so huge, it feels...like my worship is heard.

Oh my heart cracked a little! This is really so lovely. :heart:
 
Fuck :eek:

As the submissive I don't get to explore him much. But his hands on me... My god. He usually lets me do my own thing when I'm down on him. If he puts a hand on my head or in my hair I know he's losing it. If he's lying down and I'm to the side of him he'll have a hand on my back or hip, his finger tips digging into my flesh spurring me on. I like to run my fingers and nails along the fronts and insides of his thighs, his hips will buck and he'll suck in a sharp breath.

All of this is so hot. This part, though - the hands on you as a sign he's "losing it" - it's just the thing, isn't it??
 
Morning worship.

As the receiver, do you want it in the morning?

As the giver, are you all about getting under the covers, taking cock (or pussy) in your mouth and starting out the day like this?

Or are you all about gettin' the day started, coffee, breakfast, hitting the gym - not the cock!?

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In the relationship in which I came to understand the difference between blow jobs and worship / servitude, I was required to have my mouth on his cock in some manner when I woke up.

In my ideal world, this sounded awesome. In my real world, some mornings I just wanted to sleep in or get up and brush my teeth and get going. He was realistic enough to say some mornings a smooch on his cock was just enough. Other days it was all about servitude: I was in no mood for a face fuck and he was.

So what say you about morning worship?
 
Mornings I can imagine the appeal yes and have seen it. But feel it's something best used as an occasional surprise rather than demanded on days when you don't feel like it.

Don't get me wrong some days I don't initially feel like it but with some foreplay am gagging, but some others it's just not going to work and that should be respected. Also if it's every morning it cesses being special. Some things should be done as a sign of commital or regularity, and some relationships hella respect to those. I've been there with some other things but don't think morning head will ever be one I'm made to do...... partly because I damn well love doing it so much, quite often, probably more than I should, that I wouldn't want it tainted as an every morning demand. I want to be able to show my giving nature 99% of the time not forced into it the other 1%

Really don't think parts of that came out right in English but
 
So what say you about morning worship?

It's a treat, but not an every morning ritual.

I wish I had more time in the mornings. I've woke him up a few times on the weekends pulling him into my mouth. Slow and lazy, him partly hard from sleep, growing ever larger and harder at my attentions. The groaning stretch turning to a sigh as his hips roll up into my mouth....*sigh*. This thread will be the death of me
 
I think the last link would be considered servitude

Hi! Yes - someone pointed that out to me earlier and I'm glad you mentioned it again. I've been thinking a lot about oral servitude and how it differs from worship. I think that picture is a good start to what offering up my mouth for oral service really is.

:)
 
Hi! Yes - someone pointed that out to me earlier and I'm glad you mentioned it again. I've been thinking a lot about oral servitude and how it differs from worship. I think that picture is a good start to what offering up my mouth for oral service really is.

:)
I agree and need to see more like that one !!
 
It's a treat, but not an every morning ritual.

I wish I had more time in the mornings. I've woke him up a few times on the weekends pulling him into my mouth. Slow and lazy, him partly hard from sleep, growing ever larger and harder at my attentions. The groaning stretch turning to a sigh as his hips roll up into my mouth....*sigh*. This thread will be the death of me

I like the idea of a "treat!" :) I'm all about rituals... for me, they're important reminders. That being said, real life is real life, right? Kids, work, stuff to do...

Yay for weekends!!

Because of my morning routine, our commitments to other living beings, morning worship is not relaxing for either, but morning sex / celebration is definitely a way G loves to start a day. It's something we usually return for bed for. Otherwise, when we are not at home ( so rare now) it's mandatory. :)

Instead i might choose to worship like a midnight mass. This kind of sleep disturbance is not considered ill timed, but I am respectful about when I would do this: not the day before a long meeting for example. Also, if I am told no, I accept it.

In the relationship I described above, it was his "thing" to have me on his cock as much as possible. In the morning, kissing or touching it was mandatory. We worked it in to the routine of waking up.

I will say, I really like how you say that you "might choose to worship like a midnight mass..." Just phrasing it like that is erotic! But it does lend itself - the act of cock worship - to being an event more than a ritual. You haven't been "commanded" or it isn't a rule you must follow. Instead, it's you initiating the worship. That makes more sense because it's coming from your desire.
 
oh my!

It makes me think we need to have a discussion about head hanging off bed position...

There is something extremely servile about that position. So utterly compliant. At his mercy for his use. The rest of your body also so available and exposed and vulnerable. His control as he ravages my throat just as deep as he wants sends me into sub space so quickly. Is it the head upside down thing? The blood rushing the wrong way? That makes it push me into that "there is no way I can even think anymore" place, in moments...

I cannot say it is my preferred position. But I do love it.
 
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oh my!

It makes me think we need to have a discussion about head hanging off bed position...

I love this position. It gives me the opportunity to fuck her mouth while I suck on her nipples. At least that is what I do when I fuck her mouth with her head hanging off the bed..... And she loves it.
 
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