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[FallenLeaf]

Have you/would you have/had sex with your wife/girlfriend/fuck buddy during 'her-time-of-the-month'?

 

[suckonsimon]

Have you/would you have/had sex with your wife/girlfriend/fuck buddy during "her-time-of-the-month"?

Just a few times we did, when she was horny and desperate which didn't often happen during her periods hence just a few times. I never initiated it as there was no appeal for me and I knew she'd be glad to fuck once it was through. But those few times she couldn't wait, I rolled on a skin and got in there, and we'd both shower after.

The context for me as a married man: I get plenty of sex which is 'just for me' as well as the sex which is for both of us; so the least I can do is give her the sex which is 'for her' the few times it's that way.

 

[FallenLeaf]

Just a few times we did, when she was horny and desperate which didn't often happen during her periods hence just a few times. I never initiated it as there was no appeal for me and I knew she'd be glad to fuck once it was through. But those few times she couldn't wait, I rolled on a skin and got in there, and we'd both shower after.

The context for me as a married man: I get plenty of sex which is 'just for me' as well as the sex which is for both of us; so the least I can do is give her the sex which is 'for her' the few times it's that way.

Thank you for your insight and I agree with the points you made. My view on it: I don't understand the fascination with sex durung menstruation. I never get 'hot and bothered' when I'm on my cycle, plus I get heavy periods so the thought of sex does not cross my mind. My bed would look like a damn crime scene! I was always 'closed' during my cycle while I was married, though he wanted to try... it was a fetish he wanted to fulfill.

 

[WalterRaleigh]

Just a few times we did, when she was horny and desperate which didn't often happen during her periods hence just a few times. I never initiated it as there was no appeal for me and I knew she'd be glad to fuck once it was through. But those few times she couldn't wait, I rolled on a skin and got in there, and we'd both shower after.

The context for me as a married man: I get plenty of sex which is 'just for me' as well as the sex which is for both of us; so the least I can do is give her the sex which is 'for her' the few times it's that way.

Great answer. Agree on all points. Likewise a few times when she was needy.

However towards the end of her period, she does become 'needy'. I'm happy to do my bit for us.

 

[NightL]

Have you/would you have/had sex with your wife/girlfriend/fuck buddy during 'her-time-of-the-month'?

My bed would look like a damn crime scene!

it was a fetish he wanted to fulfill.

Ah what!? I have no issue that it may not have been your thing but I would have thought in 2016 this is really just common knowledge that many, maybe most, place zero issue on penetrative sex during menstruation. Why should this be deemed a fetish unless it was sought over and above as a preference to sex at any other stage of the cycle.

There are more places to have sex than a bed - if you are worried about using a washing machine for clean sheets - maybe sex in the shower - perhaps have a handy towel if bed is the only place.

For me I just find the question odd.

If it does not feel good for you fine - unless cramping or headaches were an issue I have never had a partner who thought sex during menstruation a problem. Many felt more horny at that time and some used orgasm as a way to relieve cramps and headaches.

I have had casual partners turn up regular as clockwork each month - nothing to do with my thoughts on the matter - they were just horny.

 

[FallenLeaf]

Ah what!? I have no issue that it may not have been your thing but I would have thought in 2016 this is really just common knowledge that many, maybe most, place zero issue on penetrative sex during menstruation. Why should this be deemed a fetish unless it was sought over and above as a preference to sex at any other stage of the cycle.

There are more places to have sex than a bed - if you are worried about using a washing machine for clean sheets - maybe sex in the shower - perhaps have a handy towel if bed is the only place.

For me I just find the question odd.

If it does not feel good for you fine - unless cramping or headaches were an issue I have never had a partner who thought sex during menstruation a problem. Many felt more horny at that time and some used orgasm as a way to relieve cramps and headaches.

I have had casual partners turn up regular as clockwork each month - nothing to do with my thoughts on the matter - they were just horny.

Hang on there a second, he told me it was his fetish, I'm not terming it that way. It's always off the table for me for 2 reasons: No. 1: The mess. And No. 2: Because I have endometriosis, sex in general is painful for me and during my period, the pain I physically deal with is even more excruciating. I'm sorry for the mixed message.

 

[Bigspurt]

Done it but now that we are past menopause it goes away as an issue.

Sexual activity during a period can be many things. Oral on him clit rub to orgasm for her. You can tie her up and tease her to orgasm.

 

[GauchoMan]

Strangely it is my wife who invariably initiates during that time, and me who is a bit hesitant.

I think that for me it is the actual physicality of the act at that stage which makes me reluctant. I've never analysed my reaction but it probably has to do with blood.
A bit immature I think, but there it is.

 

[Hulk781]

I have and will continue to

 

[NightL]

For any young people reading this, penetrative sex during menstruation is perfectly normal. A woman should never be considered or made to feel unclean, dirty or depraved for desiring affection or simply sexual release during menstruation.

For the young men, be supportive of your partner. Never ever let her feel less than totally cherished at all times during sex. So what if it gets a little damp or a lot with menstrual blood while having sex. If you are mature enough to have sex then you are mature enough to help clean up after. Don’t be shocked or laugh at something that is perfectly normal. If you both had great sex, why would you not want that to happen again and again for both of you? One immature response may mean the last time she will let you near her while menstruating and you would be the jerk that created the situation.

Have sex in the shower if it worries both of you – but so what if the sheets get messy, that is what washing machines are for. Have a towel handy. Have tissues ready. Remake the bed for your partner. Be a loving caring partner, be a man and not an immature jerk.

However, respect your partner if she is feeling less than desirable or feeling physical discomfort/pain during or prior to her period and is not interested.

 

[Bigspurt]

I recall a time when we made love and I was all bloody when I pulled out. She said, "I thought I was getting my period". I agreed that she had in fact.

 

[Biker_Type]

is this a serious question? of course, although i have to admit that since my OL hasn't had 'that time of the month' in years it's just a memory. we did EVERYTHING even when she still had 'the curse'!

 

[kismet999]

Never understood the fuss. Sex can be messy. Sometimes the mess was tinted pink to reddish brown. I would clean up afterwards. No big deal plus it seemed to help with the wife's cramps and such.

 

[craiger58]

Have you/would you have/had sex with your wife/girlfriend/fuck buddy during 'her-time-of-the-month'?

Doesn't every guy have his "red badge of courage"? Isn't that why they make navy blue or black towels?

 

[L0GIC]

Ah what!? I have no issue that it may not have been your thing but I would have thought in 2016 this is really just common knowledge that many, maybe most, place zero issue on penetrative sex during menstruation. Why should this be deemed a fetish unless it was sought over and above as a preference to sex at any other stage of the cycle.

There are more places to have sex than a bed - if you are worried about using a washing machine for clean sheets - maybe sex in the shower - perhaps have a handy towel if bed is the only place.

For me I just find the question odd.

If it does not feel good for you fine - unless cramping or headaches were an issue I have never had a partner who thought sex during menstruation a problem. Many felt more horny at that time and some used orgasm as a way to relieve cramps and headaches.

I have had casual partners turn up regular as clockwork each month - nothing to do with my thoughts on the matter - they were just horny.

Fetish does not equal taboo. Foot fetishes are normal. BBW fetishes are normal. The list goes on. And a fetish isn't something desired more than sex itself.

There's just too much going on with your response. You're exaggerating the use of the word fetish to mean something drastic or obsessive.

 

[Sugarfoot10]

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[hotoldrguy]

Have you/would you have/had sex with your wife/girlfriend/fuck buddy during 'her-time-of-the-month'?

sure have and we both enjoyed it

 

[sexymanlick69]

I have multiple times in the shower

 

[kismet999]

I always get horny as a three peckered goat during mine.......but the hubby is religious and I am considered unclean so.

If your hubby cuts you off each month, I recommend that you cut him off as well except for those days when you are most fertile. After all, he shouldn't be tempted to have carnal events for anything other than reproduction. Anything other than that would be sinful.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

No longer reevant to me

but when I (and any women I was with) was much younger, it didn't bother me at all. Quite the opposite actually.

 

[roc23]

No. Never have intentionally.

One time by accident when I was young.Having sex in her room. The lights were out. I go to the bathroom and notice there's a little blood on my cock. I start flipping my dick around looking for a cut.

She had just finished with her period. I just got some residual.

 

[NightL]

There's just too much going on with your response

Then read it slower

Perhaps place in context with my other post.

 

[Tigersman]

Have you/would you have/had sex with your wife/girlfriend/fuck buddy during 'her-time-of-the-month'?

I tried it with both my ex-wife and my girlfriend. My ex didn't care much for sex during her cycle but my girlfriend enjoyed it.

 

[mikendel]

31 years and we never have. She has other ways of "helping out" during that time of the month. Now at 50 its a day or 2 and done.

 

[kdb]

Have you/would you have/had sex with your wife/girlfriend/fuck buddy during 'her-time-of-the-month'?

It's a non issue. Even licked her clit. Blood never stops a warrior. Lol