ORAL SERVITUDE - redux

[fitdaddy6936]

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This thread is quickly becoming one of my favorites. I love the images above.

 

[cookiecat]

This thread is quickly becoming one of my favorites. I love the images above.

I'm curious, from a guy's perspective, if going down on a woman is just going down or if there are elements of worship and servitude??

For sure some guys (and women in a F/f relationship) just love eating pussy. Yay! Some guys might do it just because it's a little of "this for that" -- not so yay....

But when does oral become more than just lickin' pussy? Is it something that's a "stand-alone" activity.... you don't need it to lead to anything else because you're showing her your devotion through her pussy. Or is it just lickin' pussy????

 

[cookiecat]

No. Your thoughts are on point, and this thread is helping me think about things.
You are good.

Food - er. ummm - cock for thought!? I'm here to help.

 

[cookiecat]

I'm never over here in BDSM but this thread ...

My woman has always spent delicious ages on me with her mouth and hands. And yet, since I started wearing a chunky steel cockring around my junk, her attention is at a new level. She gets lost in a world of man-meat and, yeah, worship is the only word. From time to time I move her in order to french kiss and get the taste of my cock and my pre-cum from her mouth. And then she'll look at me humbly and say, "Can I have some more?"

When we are in a good position for it I eventually give her some attention with my fingers at her pussy. And just sometimes I'll take her to orgasm that way while her mouth is jammed on my boner and I'm holding her head there. Wow the thrashing and flayling of her body when she can't express her joy with verbals. So deeply satisfying for me to experience her wonder and gratitude when she's right there at my thighs and pubes and bulged-up balls and phallus at her face all glistening with her saliva. Yeah nice. Fuck very nice indeed.

Well, I'm glad you wandered over this way and shared this! How could you not stop by with a name like yours!?

I may or may not have checked you out elsewhere *wiggles eyebrows atchya* -- Actually, I've enjoyed the openness in which you've talked about your relationship. Plus, well - you know, the AV....

I think I might need more information about the chunky steel cockring. Just for scientific purpose, mind you.

Bringing her to orgasm with a mouth full of cock. Perfect. Cock conditioning! What better way to inspire further worship.

Thanks for sharing.

 

[cookiecat]

I'm sorry Sending you a virtual hug

If nothing else, I'm glad the post prompted you to reply just so I could check out your AV. Really though, thank you.

Cookie. I love you, girl.

Thanks. 4 a.m. posts aren't the wisest. It feels too... much. But it was there and I needed to get it out. Guess I'm glad I found a way...

On to a new day!!

 

[rbijon]

Looking in....in total wonderment.

 

[cookiecat]

Looking in....in total wonderment.

Morning!

 

[bicurnow]

Worship just with mouth...

http://i.imgur.com/z4pAo8kl.jpg

Perfect

 

[suckonsimon]

Well, I'm glad you wandered over this way and shared this! How could you not stop by with a name like yours!?

I may or may not have checked you out elsewhere *wiggles eyebrows atchya* -- Actually, I've enjoyed the openness in which you've talked about your relationship. Plus, well - you know, the AV....

I think I might need more information about the chunky steel cockring. Just for scientific purpose, mind you.

Bringing her to orgasm with a mouth full of cock. Perfect. Cock conditioning! What better way to inspire further worship.

Thanks for sharing.

I like your reply, cookiecat.

That scientific purpose you mentioned:

Material: surgical standard stainless steel, polished finish.
Weight: seven ounces
Inner Diameter: One and Seven Eighths inches - yeah, 'snug'
Band Depth: Nine Sixtheenths inch
Band Width: Three Eighths inch
'Give': Utterly Nil
Possibility of removal from the junk of an aroused man: Utterly Nil
Impact upon thickness, veinyness, solidity of shaft, helmet ridge and glans: Eye- and Mouth- Opening
Resultant control of timing of ejaculation by a man of experience: Almost Total.

How it looks on discreet and shy Simon:

 

[Farawyn]

I like your reply, cookiecat.

That scientific purpose you mentioned:

Material: surgical standard stainless steel, polished finish.
Weight: seven ounces
Inner Diameter: One and Seven Eighths inches - yeah, 'snug'
Band Depth: Nine Sixtheenths inch
Band Width: Three Eighths inch
'Give': Utterly Nil
Possibility of removal from the junk of an aroused man: Utterly Nil
Impact upon thickness, veinyness, solidity of shaft, helmet ridge and glans: Eye- and Mouth- Opening
Resultant control of timing of ejaculation by a man of experience: Almost Total.

How it looks on discreet and shy Simon:

Almost crashes into a tree... Walking.

 

[cookiecat]

I like your reply, cookiecat.

That scientific purpose you mentioned:

Material: surgical standard stainless steel, polished finish.
Weight: seven ounces
Inner Diameter: One and Seven Eighths inches - yeah, 'snug'
Band Depth: Nine Sixtheenths inch
Band Width: Three Eighths inch
'Give': Utterly Nil
Possibility of removal from the junk of an aroused man: Utterly Nil
Impact upon thickness, veinyness, solidity of shaft, helmet ridge and glans: Eye- and Mouth- Opening
Resultant control of timing of ejaculation by a man of experience: Almost Total.

How it looks on discreet and shy Simon:

I fucking love science.

 

[suckonsimon]

Almost crashes into a tree... Walking.

I fucking love science.

*enjoying the swagger service*

Appreciated, girls. xx

 

[Farawyn]

*enjoying the swagger service*

Appreciated, girls. xx

No, no. Thank YOU.

 

[cascadiabound]

No, no. Thank YOU.

make sure you check out Simon's thread linked in his signature -
lots of great information about cock rings and etc.

 

[LucyBee01]

Emotions are hard. Cock worship is easy.

Big virtual hug, cookiecat

 

[LucyBee01]

Worship just with mouth...

http://i.imgur.com/z4pAo8kl.jpg

Yes, yes, yes, this is getting me excited

 

[_Necrosomantic_]

I'm curious, from a guy's perspective, if going down on a woman is just going down

Though I have done it as reciprocation, not gonna lie, I'm hard pressed to think of someone I've met who hasn't. But, when it comes to someone I'm serious about, my answer to that part of the question would be an emphatic no.

But when does oral become more than just lickin' pussy? Is it something that's a "stand-alone" activity.... you don't need it to lead to anything else because you're showing her your devotion through her pussy.

For me, it can certainly be a stand alone thing that doesn't require any activities beyond. She used to come home, stressed out from all that bullshit outside, fall on my bed and start telling me about her day. I'd listen for a bit, but would slowly start being overcome by something as she's rubbing her legs together while talking. Feeling like I want to do something to show how grateful I am for what I have, all the work I've put into it, wanting to reach out and touch her, make her forget, use all those things I've learned about during our time to convey how much I love it, and that I need it. She used to reach for me during, but quickly figured out that it's not about me, after I held her hands down the first couple of times. I'll never understand people I've met ( particularly others like myself ) that have an ego issue with it or claim it somehow alters the dynamic. Just because I'm down there, doesn't mean I'm not in charge. Of course, those same idiots think her being on her knees automatically means she's degraded, so I find it hard to consider their viewpoint when they come off sounding like they don't know shit about fuck

... Well, aren't I being sappy today, lol.

 

[niceguydomheart]

Just because my tongue is on your pussy. Just because your clit is being sucked into my mouth. Just because I bend you over the bed to attack your pussy with my tongue and gently nibbling teeth from behind. Just because my tongue licks your asshole as I slide two fingers into your pussy and rub my thumb on your clit.........doesn't mean that you don't have to beg for your release, your orgasm, your permission to cum before I push you over the edge......

I am a Dom that enjoys the female orgasm.......I believe that a woman having an orgasm is quite possibly the most beautiful site on earth. Her breathing, her sounds, and her willingness to please afterwards......

 

[cookiecat]

make sure you check out Simon's thread linked in his signature -
lots of great information about cock rings and etc.

Holy cats! This is a new realm of, ummmm, interest! Thanks for the breadcrumbs, cascadia (even though the link was smack in my face!)

 

[cookiecat]

Big virtual hug, cookiecat

Thank you, LucyBee.

 

[cookiecat]

Though I have done it as reciprocation, not gonna lie, I'm hard pressed to think of someone I've met who hasn't. But, when it comes to someone I'm serious about, my answer to that part of the question would be an emphatic no.

I think oral is just one of those things that IS generally reciprocated because it's a good time had by all. You do me, I'll do you (or we'll do it together) and then let's see what happens next.... No overthinking.

For me, it can certainly be a stand alone thing that doesn't require any activities beyond. She used to come home, stressed out from all that bullshit outside, fall on my bed and start telling me about her day. I'd listen for a bit, but would slowly start being overcome by something as she's rubbing her legs together while talking. Feeling like I want to do something to show how grateful I am for what I have, all the work I've put into it, wanting to reach out and touch her, make her forget, use all those things I've learned about during our time to convey how much I love it, and that I need it. She used to reach for me during, but quickly figured out that it's not about me, after I held her hands down the first couple of times. I'll never understand people I've met ( particularly others like myself ) that have an ego issue with it or claim it somehow alters the dynamic. Just because I'm down there, doesn't mean I'm not in charge. Of course, those same idiots think her being on her knees automatically means she's degraded, so I find it hard to consider their viewpoint when they come off sounding like they don't know shit about fuck

... Well, aren't I being sappy today, lol.

bold part = the hotness.

I like, too, how it was something really small that she did caught your imagination... the rubbing of her legs as you talked. It's those little things that capture my brain and send it swimming in 100 different directions.

For me, it was the way my guy would run his fingers along his beard when he was listening to me. It's like I'd get so distracted with thinking about his hands, his fingers.

Please. Be sappy. It's an enjoyable insight.

 

[cookiecat]

Just because my tongue is on your pussy. Just because your clit is being sucked into my mouth. Just because I bend you over the bed to attack your pussy with my tongue and gently nibbling teeth from behind. Just because my tongue licks your asshole as I slide two fingers into your pussy and rub my thumb on your clit.........doesn't mean that you don't have to beg for your release, your orgasm, your permission to cum before I push you over the edge......

I am a Dom that enjoys the female orgasm.......I believe that a woman having an orgasm is quite possibly the most beautiful site on earth. Her breathing, her sounds, and her willingness to please afterwards......

oooh. Very nice. Thank you for sharing it!!

 

[cookiecat]

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[cascadiabound]

For me, it can certainly be a stand alone thing that doesn't require any activities beyond. She used to come home, stressed out from all that bullshit outside, fall on my bed and start telling me about her day. I'd listen for a bit, but would slowly start being overcome by something as she's rubbing her legs together while talking. Feeling like I want to do something to show how grateful I am for what I have, all the work I've put into it, wanting to reach out and touch her, make her forget, use all those things I've learned about during our time to convey how much I love it, and that I need it. She used to reach for me during, but quickly figured out that it's not about me, after I held her hands down the first couple of times. I'll never understand people I've met ( particularly others like myself ) that have an ego issue with it or claim it somehow alters the dynamic. Just because I'm down there, doesn't mean I'm not in charge. Of course, those same idiots think her being on her knees automatically means she's degraded, so I find it hard to consider their viewpoint when they come off sounding like they don't know shit about fuck

... Well, aren't I being sappy today, lol.

thank you NSM for sharing...
and the second bolded bit... is the difference between Domming and topping.
The person who is in charge of the activity is always the Dom, no matter what the activity is. lol

 

[fitdaddy6936]

I'm curious, from a guy's perspective, if going down on a woman is just going down or if there are elements of worship and servitude??

For sure some guys (and women in a F/f relationship) just love eating pussy. Yay! Some guys might do it just because it's a little of "this for that" -- not so yay....

But when does oral become more than just lickin' pussy? Is it something that's a "stand-alone" activity.... you don't need it to lead to anything else because you're showing her your devotion through her pussy. Or is it just lickin' pussy????

Hi cookie,

Sorry for my delay, I just finished working. It's a great question, and I've given it a lot thought.

I honestly think most guys are just going down and are expecting some reciprocation. There are men like me who absolutely love licking pussy and do it because they love it. I personally enjoy making her cum on my tongue before we ever fuck.

In order for it to be servitude, you either have to be a sub or a switch in my opinion. In the role of a sub, it would be a stand alone activity and would do it to show your devotion by totally submitting only to her desires and only hoping to please her.

I think that is why I love this thread so much. As a switch I see it from both perspectives. I love the photos of seeing her with her hands restrained. She is only able to use her hot mouth to please her master and show her devotion by only looking to fulfil his needs.

If I was submitting to her, I would be restrained and would totally submit to licking her hot clit and using my mouth until I satisfy her and make her happy. I would never ask for her to fuck me, but I would let her use my thick cock if it would help her satisfy her.

I hope this satisfies your question, please let me know what other questions you have.

Sincerely,

Fit daddy