Her First Time

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Her first time seems to be a topic she likes to talk about during pillow talk. It was at a party and it was set up by her friends and her older sister. She was the last of her group to lose her virginity. The guy was a little older and was the first lover for many of the girls in her group, including her sister.

He apparently liked the fact that he was the go-to guy, so to speak. They loosened her up with some herb, and she went off with him. Her previous experience was only with hand jobs and blow jobs. I think she said she was fingered a few times. She said that he seriously did a pretty good job. She said it wasn't the awful uncomfortable experience many girls describe it as.

She said he gave her a lot of attention before. She was ready, but she thinks the herb lowered her inhibitions, too. She said he was a good lover. She said he was a little bigger than most of her lovers, but he really didn't hurt her. He took her in several positions. She remebered she liked doggie the best.

She said she was a bit self conscious because she was in a room adjacent to the rest of the party and she knew everyone knew what was going on. She was afraid they were making too much noise. He said things to her that really impressed her. Stuff like he was taking something that no other man could ever have and that she would always remember him as the man who changed her from a girl into a woman. He told her that every time she makes love to another man, she would remember that he was her first. He told her he was going to cum inside her. She didn't object because she was on OC.

She said the aftermath was weird, because they acted like boyfriend/girlfriend even though she knew they really weren't. Plus, the other girls wanted to know what it was like for her. She remembers liking the feeling of support she got from her girlfriends that night. She said there was some teasing, and such but they were mostly loving as if they were accepting her into their "club".
She remembered taking her shower that night and getting turned on by the remains of his semen in her. She never had sex with him again, but she was much more sexually active after that. Her second lover turned out to be a fairly long term boyfriend.

A couple of years after she lost her virginity, her first lover contacted her and wanted to go on a date. She met him and his wife, and they wanted her to join them in a polygamous marriage. She said it was a super turn on for him to seek her out, but she couldn't go through with it.
 
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Oh, I failed to mention that the reason she liked giving hand jobs and blow jobs was the sense of control and power it gave her over her man. That was lacking in her life as her older sister was mean and her parents were emotionally distant. She liked the fact that she could be the source of so much pleasure. She saidd that sense was magnified greatly after having sex. She could tell he REALLY enjoyed her and it boosted her confidence tremendously. She liked that feeling, and it led to her becoming quite sexually active, often cheating on committed relationships.
 
Thanks Ramone

Thanks Ramone -- for telling us her story and how she relates to it all.
 
mate, can you break up the text into paragraphs?

it's too much of a block to read with any comfort.
 
cake and eat it too

I would love to hear about my wife's first time! The only problem is it was with me! lol

That's the good news and the bad news at the same time. I like that I was the one to deflower her but I at the same time there are no stories of others to hear about!

As a consolation prize she did go into detail with me about how she was feeling and how she felt when I took her!
 
Yes, I love to hear about my wife's first time. We were dating, but going to different colleges. When I wasn't available, she went out with others. One of them was her first, and several more followed before I got my turn. I enjoy all the stories.
 
While I really haven't heard about my wife's firsts, I am very aroused by my own first.

That includes all firsts: kiss, seeing girl naked, fingering, oral, sex, etc.

The first time is always the best.
 
Oh, I failed to mention that the reason she liked giving hand jobs and blow jobs was the sense of control and power it gave her over her man. That was lacking in her life as her older sister was mean and her parents were emotionally distant. She liked the fact that she could be the source of so much pleasure. She saidd that sense was magnified greatly after having sex. She could tell he REALLY enjoyed her and it boosted her confidence tremendously. She liked that feeling, and it led to her becoming quite sexually active, often cheating on committed relationships.

boom! a story idea. thanks.

...and you still haven't split the OP into paragraphs! :D
 
Good stories! My wife's first was also her biggest. She was a freshman in college and supposedly committed to me. He got her drunk on rum and Coke and screwed her in the back seat of his car. They did it a few times before she dumped him. I didn't know about it or the other guys who had her until after we were married, but she still enjoys telling me about it. I like it every time she tells me how it felt to have that big dick in her virgin pussy.
 
Do any other husbands get turned on hearing about their wive's first time?

When my wife described her first time we were not married but we were serious and had made love several times before I ask her about her first time. I knew she had dated other guys but never knew how far she went with them before they broke up.

At that time I wasn't very sexually experienced myself but I knew she was as she was great in bed and knew how to give a guy pleasure and was clear what she liked and wanted.

Apparently she lost her virginity to a guy of similar age. He was of mixed race, very athletic and apparently very attractive. Unbeknown to her at the time he was also very well endowed and knew how to use it. When she first set eyes on his penis it was still flaccid but made an instant impression. Fortunately for her he was a shower not a grower but when fully erect she could see his penis was in the 8-9 inch range.

By all accounts he was also good at foreplay ensuring my wife to be got extremely aroused before he attempted penetration. When he did he was slow and deliberated not forcing himself in her too quickly. This helped her to adjust to his size and eventually was able to take his full length.

He had great stamina and staying power and although they started off in the missionary position it wasn't too long before she was riding him and taking it deep inside her. Knowing he was close to cumming he flipped her over and took her from the rear doogie fashion thrusting relentlessly until he couldn't last any longer shooting his cum deep inside her. He didn't wear a condom as she was on birth control and she remembers laying on her back and feeling copious amount of cum trickling out of her pussy as she recovered.

She had at least another 4 or 5 lovers after but none were as memorable - she was clearly spoilt.
 
My woman was not a virgin - as I was - when we had our first time. But our second time was her first time getting orgasmic with a man. I so well remember her shock and elation and thrill that sex was so overwhelmingly pleasurable. I was pretty darned shocked myself! The extreme pleasure for me of doing that to her has never abated.
 
When my wife described her first time we were not married but we were serious and had made love several times before I ask her about her first time. I knew she had dated other guys but never knew how far she went with them before they broke up.

At that time I wasn't very sexually experienced myself but I knew she was as she was great in bed and knew how to give a guy pleasure and was clear what she liked and wanted.

Apparently she lost her virginity to a guy of similar age. He was of mixed race, very athletic and apparently very attractive. Unbeknown to her at the time he was also very well endowed and knew how to use it. When she first set eyes on his penis it was still flaccid but made an instant impression. Fortunately for her he was a shower not a grower but when fully erect she could see his penis was in the 8-9 inch range.

By all accounts he was also good at foreplay ensuring my wife to be got extremely aroused before he attempted penetration. When he did he was slow and deliberated not forcing himself in her too quickly. This helped her to adjust to his size and eventually was able to take his full length.

He had great stamina and staying power and although they started off in the missionary position it wasn't too long before she was riding him and taking it deep inside her. Knowing he was close to cumming he flipped her over and took her from the rear doogie fashion thrusting relentlessly until he couldn't last any longer shooting his cum deep inside her. He didn't wear a condom as she was on birth control and she remembers laying on her back and feeling copious amount of cum trickling out of her pussy as she recovered.

She had at least another 4 or 5 lovers after but none were as memorable - she was clearly spoilt.
GREAT story. You often hear girls say how awful their first time was. It's cool that our wive's first time was okay. It's hot that your wife first was mixed race. When my wife was a virgin, she had a black friend who wanted to fuck her, but she wasn't ready. They were both participating in a theatrical production. She ended up giving him a blow job when they were alone in the theatre after a rehearsal once.
My wife's first few boy friends were on the bigger side also, and at least two were un-cut. She prefers that, but I'm circumcized, unfortunately.
 
I like when she gets into detail. She was wearing a T-shirt and a skirt. She's flat-chested, and she rarely wears a bra,but she has very reactive nipples. She told me she was self conscious that night because, as she says, "the high beams were on". She was excited with anticipation, and the weed lowered her inhibitions.
 
My wife

I'm digging this thread but I must admit I'm pretty green here. My wife has no great stories of her deflowering. Her first was a selfish, immature dud. She regrets ever doing it with him.
 
I'm digging this thread but I must admit I'm pretty green here. My wife has no great stories of her deflowering. Her first was a selfish, immature dud. She regrets ever doing it with him.

My wife's reaction was mixed. I t didn't live up to her ideal as a deeply loving act.She just wasn't there at that point in her life. Young men were putting pressure on her to have sex, and she wanted to know what to do. The guy who deflowered her had a reputation among her friends, and that made her feel comfortable. She did say there was a small amount of regret, but mostly there was a huge sense of relief. She "got it over with". He was decent and it was not a painful or degrading experience.

She said that afterwards, she was ready to make love to other men, knowing generally what to expect. She did get an ego boost though when her first lover wanted her to join him and his wife.
 
My wife's reaction was mixed. I t didn't live up to her ideal as a deeply loving act.She just wasn't there at that point in her life. Young men were putting pressure on her to have sex, and she wanted to know what to do. The guy who deflowered her had a reputation among her friends, and that made her feel comfortable. She did say there was a small amount of regret, but mostly there was a huge sense of relief. She "got it over with". He was decent and it was not a painful or degrading experience.

She said that afterwards, she was ready to make love to other men, knowing generally what to expect. She did get an ego boost though when her first lover wanted her to join him and his wife.

My wife was kind of a late bloomer and he was the first guy to pay any attention to her, so she ended up giving it up to him just for that.
 
My wife was barely legal.

Yes, my wife was nineteen. As I said, late bloomer.

Her relationship with the bum was short lived and we started dating right away. Been together ever since. At the time I was thrilled by her limited experience but over time people and attitudes change. Now I wish she threw it around a lot before we got together. And still continued to this day. She did cheat on me once years ago. And confessed to doing it again recently. So who knows...
 
She's very good at relating the little details that make the scenario so exciting. The door closing when they went into the bedroom together. Her breathing and heartbeat as she realized there was no turning back. She has always had very sensitive nipples and she really liked how he sucked het tits. She said he was very good at getting her ready in general. His reputation was well earned.
 
This was great. My wife won't tell me much about her first dick, But I am dying to hear about it.

My wife's first cock is kind of a life lesson. Namely the adage of "it's not the size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog". It was what society would refer to as a BBC. With that the popular consensus is that she should have mind blowing sex and been addicted from the start. But as I said elsewhere, he was immature and selfish. In her own words he didn't please her.
 
First time

I love to hear about and fantasize about all of my wife's past experiences. Unfortunately she does not share a whole lot, but she does tell me tidbits from time to time.

My wife grew up with strict parents so she didn't get a chance to experiment much while she lived at home. A couple of guys had felt her up at the movies and she let one guy feel up under her shirt and bra. That all changed in college. Her first week of college she found out that most of the girls had been having sex for a while and loved to talk about it. Since she was a virgin she didn't have much to add to the conversation so it was tough for her to fit in.

She went with some other girls to a frat party that first week and realized that the guys didn't have much interest if you weren't willing to have sex. She said she couldn't believe what she saw at the party. Girls showing their tits, getting felt up, going to guys rooms to fuck. She was shocked and said several guys invited her to hang out in their room after just meeting her, but she declined. She did meet one guy that was more polite than most and he actually took the time to talk to her and not hit her up forest immediately. Little did she know he was just laying the ground work to pop her cherry.
 
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